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Married In School But Single At Home by Champa(m): 3:35pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
Pls share with teens, youth and Group Chats
that care to read and be Enlightened.
Welcome to Nigerian campuses where little
girls are practising 'wifely functions'!
Just visit the boys' hostels and you would be
disappointed to find out that it is now
common for a girl to live in with a course
mate. It is now common for her lover to give
her the popular compliment 'you look sexy my
gal' and she would gladly reply 'thank you
honey' with a flirty voice and a romantic
smile.
Who is her lover?
A 300 level student whose CGPA is barely up
to 1.78! And they are aiming for the next best
couple award for the session by the
departmental association. So, the girl need to
live in with him to prepare along.
What nonsense! It seems that some girls
suddenly loose their senses immediately they
gain admission. I've seen that some of them
have no more sense of caution, honour and
dignity. They would change their wardrobes
and acquire a new set of make ups just to
look
'campussy' and sexy enough for the guys. In
months, they would start sleeping around with
little boys. I mean boys who collect pocket
money from their uncles! Dirty boys who most
of the time are infected with sexually
transmitted diseases. Hey! I want you to know
that you were sent to school to obtain a
degree
not a disease. The campus is called a school;
school not sex! You are on campus to receive
education not ejaculation. You are here to
master the use of a pen not the pleasures of a
penis. Wake up girl! Do some thinking. Your
future is greater than the 'best couple award'.
You cook for a boy you are more intelligent
than.
You give your virginity to a boy who will
definitely leave you after graduation. You play
wife to a boy who cannot even care for
himself.
Oh, you have given too much. Enough! Open
your eyes! Can't you see you're being foolish?
You are passing through the fears of
unwanted
pregnancies yet you are opening your legs to
a
coward who cannot stand before your father.
And when you eventually gets pregnant, he
would brutally advise you to abort it and you
would timidly agree; then face the
consequences later. What a shame! You may
master the use of condoms but you can't
master the punishment of your conscience.
Don't you know you are bringing shame to
your
family? Don't you know that you are cursing
your mother by accepting to sleep with a boy
(not even a man) without her consent?
I cautioned a girl against sleeping around and
she replied 'Sheddy, I don't sleep around; its
only one boyfriend I have and am faithful to
him'. What impunity! That's classified
harlotry. And don't you know that sleeping
with a man without your father's blessings is
bringing a curse to your future?
What happened to your cultural values?
Somewhere in your heart you know he would
use you and dump you; so why are you setting
up yourself for a heartbreak? I want to remind
you that you are a lady and one day you may
get married. And your husband would know
that you are such a dirty bitch who sleeps
with
anything on trousers. The greatest gift a lady
would give to her husband on the wedding
night is her virginity less lost it out of (rape)
not the certificate of best couple of the year
on campus!
The other gifts for the rest of her life are her
care and character not her curves and
complexion! Real men know this; so, get it
screwed in!
Those treacherous boys would call you 'sexy'
and you would answer? Oh, sorry! They touch
your breast and you would smile? They would
ask you out and you would oblige? Oh, you
are
indeed a mistake. Am not saying that you
should be rude or never live a 'social life' but I
want you to think deeper than you are
currently doing. I want to turn your attention
back to your books.
You are not in school for breast exhibition.
So,
pay less attention to those boobs and give
more attention to your books! You are not in
school for cat walking show. You are rather
here to show us the dignity of womanhood.
You are here to prove to us that you are
costly. So, why make yourself so cheap?
I am writing this with both love and pain in
my
heart and that's why am sounding stern. I
know
about two girls now that have been living with
their boyfriend since year one and as it is now
they can't even even count how many
abortions
they had for that same boy at sch bae it's now
like a normal thing to them, the last one she
did
almost took her life and that made her bleed
for
4months, imagine how you do feel with
ordinary 4 days of menstruation left alone
living with it for months.. As a matter of fact
one of them have damaged her fallopian tube
due to excessive use of contraceptives she has
taken to prevent pregnancy. I want you to look
beyond now and think of what advise you
would give your own daughter when you
become a mother. I hope I have not offended
you...if I have, please repent.
To the decent girls I have seen on campus: do
not be swayed by these evil. Be consistent and
keep celebrating your purity. I am always
proud
of you. And God is more proud of you. Please
share this message with all our youths and
our teens.
Thanks. |
Re: Married In School But Single At Home by Oyiboman69: 3:37pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
op you make sense at least to some point, but the point where you insult the boys, just displays your high level of unruliness and lack of moral decorum. |
Re: Married In School But Single At Home by Champa(m): 3:59pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
But that's the simple truth.... |
Re: Married In School But Single At Home by Checked86: 4:05pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
Why not mind your business, OP? Most of the things we speak against are the things we don't have the privilege of. I could remember during my school days(my 1st year) that whenever I see students kissing, I would see them like candidate of hell but the 'kiss' became normal when I started kissing. Holding a girl along the road is always bad when you are not the one holding the girl. |
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