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| Varsity Girls And Sds: Acceptable? by AniLee(f): 7:05am On Sep 15, 2009 |
I read an article in a magazine the other day and it was covering how our today's varsity students (the females) employ sugar daddies at the end of their arms. The writer obviously expressed how this issue distresses them and how potentially dangerous it is to these young girls. She stood out to mention the reasons why they need or go for older men. The main reason of course, was monetary gain to the extent that many of them nowadays have these men by their sides to pay off their school fees loans. Status was also a following factor. Being associated as an escort or a mistress to a substantially older man has its benefits of power and control (I wouldn't deny that!!  ) Anyway, the writer ended saying that these acts of 'recruiting' sugar daddies ends up in a negative viewpoint as the girls may end up not only experiencing physical degradation but emotional as well. In a number of cases, some men become too possessive and end up physically, emotionally abusing these young women making them feel like they are their property. On the other hand, most of these men are married and having such relationships poses as threats in ways more than one to their spouses and families. Research was done by a team at the UWC headed by Prof. J Swash and found that the younger male counterparts are threatened and intimidated because they feel incompetent to compete against these powerful, cashloaded, older and most disturbingly, more experienced men. Facts being facts, if you give a woman a more experienced and mature man and another complete opposite, the modern female is bound to go for the former. Nowadays girls want men who are already built in themselves instead of taking the trouble to be guinea pig for someone else who is young and still learning/exploring. Still more, people are different and different females would prefer either older or younger men. But majority would prefere older. Esp if they arent looking for long term relationships. The older brutha would come in handy now eeh. He also went on further to say that such relations increase chances of HIV/AIDS contraction and other STIs as most older men dont want to have sex using condoms (lol, i dont know if dats true).What do you think? Do you think these girls are doing what is necessary to survive (which is the objective of life) or is it really uncalled for? Honestly speaking, to some extent I feel they are just trying to survive and it wouldnt be wrong in any manner as long as the man is not committed to another female and for as long as both parties are relating on the same level. But who really cares about that when you seriously think of it? Them girls just go ahead and waltz into other people's lives and dont consider how the other woman feels for as long their needs are met. Golden rule I always say. |
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