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Guys 11 Things You Shouldn't Do For Her. by blackmarket(m): 11:06am On Jul 29, 2016
It’s not news that men will do a lot to please women they are interested in.
Most men act childish when they are really in love and this has cost them a great deal. It is not bad to please a woman but over doing it makes one stupid. As a man, you must be smart enough to read in between the lines to know what’s favorable and what’s not.
We are not saying you shouldn’t be romantic, it is a good thing to be romantic but not to the detriment of yourself and you should know that, just because something might be done in the name of love does not make it the right thing to do and these are the few you should try as much as possible to avoid or never be tempted to do for a woman, regardless.
1. Steal For Her
Obviously, we all know where this will end you and by the time you will be back, someone might have taken your place. Never allow anything to push you to steal in order to please your woman because if she later finds out you actually stole a gift for her, she might drop you, unless of course, you are in it together like Bonny and Clyde.

Re: Guys 11 Things You Shouldn't Do For Her. by nkemcd(m): 11:08am On Jul 29, 2016
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Re: Guys 11 Things You Shouldn't Do For Her. by Airtimex(m): 11:08am On Jul 29, 2016
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Re: Guys 11 Things You Shouldn't Do For Her. by blackmarket(m): 11:19am On Jul 29, 2016
2. Pay For Her Education
It is not a bad thing to support her education, if you can help but to take full responsibility for everything to your own detriment can be dangerous. We are all humans and we change from time to time, most men actually think funding a girl’s education means they’ll be forever indebted to them, ending up getting married to them but we’ve seen several scenarios where the women will end up finding love elsewhere. This has been suicidal to many men.

Re: Guys 11 Things You Shouldn't Do For Her. by blackmarket(m): 11:22am On Jul 29, 2016
3. Buy Her A House When You Don’t Have One
Common sense should tell you, you should build your dreams together but not favor her and think of yours later. Building a house for a woman when you don’t have one yourself can make you is wrong in every way. When she finally jilts you and lives in it with another man. There are many men still biting their fingers over this.

Re: Guys 11 Things You Shouldn't Do For Her. by blackmarket(m): 11:25am On Jul 29, 2016
4. Fight Another Man Because Of Her
Fighting because of her doesn’t prove anything. Two things are likely to happen, either the person beats you to a pulp and end up in the hospital or you will beat the person and end up in jail, either way, you don’t win. Unless it is for self-defense.

Re: Guys 11 Things You Shouldn't Do For Her. by blackmarket(m): 11:28am On Jul 29, 2016
5. Reject Your Family Because Of Her
A family is everything and no matter what, you can’t reject them because your woman doesn’t like them. It will be very dangerous on your part to reject your family all because of a woman.

Re: Guys 11 Things You Shouldn't Do For Her. by blackmarket(m): 11:31am On Jul 29, 2016
6. Change Your Appearance
These days, there are many men doing a lot, taking pills to make changes to their bodies all because they feel that’s what women love. Changing you to please a woman means the moment you stop trying she’ll go, ideally, people you be with should love you for who you are.

Re: Guys 11 Things You Shouldn't Do For Her. by blackmarket(m): 11:33am On Jul 29, 2016
7. Give Up On Your Dreams To Satisfy Her
So there are many men out there who gave up on their dreams to help their woman achieve theirs or were discouraged by women. These same women dumped them afterwards. Never do this after reading this.

Re: Guys 11 Things You Shouldn't Do For Her. by blackmarket(m): 11:35am On Jul 29, 2016
8. Being Over-Submissive
It is nice to be sweet to your woman but always learn to set the records straight and don’t try to always appear weak to her and succumb to all her wishes in the interest of pleasing her. Truth is, women actually hate weak men and will prefer you’re sweet and sour.

Re: Guys 11 Things You Shouldn't Do For Her. by blackmarket(m): 11:40am On Jul 29, 2016
9. Starve Yourself For Her
Never forfeit your food for her, at least you can share but to give all to her and go hungry, that’s not love, that’s stupidity.

Re: Guys 11 Things You Shouldn't Do For Her. by Nobody: 11:40am On Jul 29, 2016
blackmarket:
2. Pay For Her Education
It is not a bad thing to support her education, if you can help but to take full responsibility for everything to your own detriment can be dangerous. We are all humans and we change from time to time, most men actually think funding a girl’s education means they’ll be forever indebted to them, ending up getting married to them but we’ve seen several scenarios where the women will end up finding love elsewhere. This has been suicidal to many men.
Guys who indulge in this act are hopelessly _stupid. Very _stupid. That's the height of it.

Don't be deceived. No girl will marry you if you send her to school with your own money after her eyes must have opened and seen better men just the way eve's eyes opened in the garden of Eden when she ate the forbidden fruit.

Forget about the fiction nollywood portray to be true. Even if she agrees to marry you based on the fact that you sponsored her education, I assure you, your marriage won't last - it would be a count-down accompanied by quarrel & dispute and bitter exchange to the eventual dissolution of your marriage.

Nneka, the then village girl that grew up with you in same locale, go tell you say she don pass your level. She don upgrade pass you.

Never ever make that _stupid mistake you will later regret. Instead of that, use that money to acquire education for your siblings, or invest it in whatever way you choose. But not on a girl that everybody can still patronise her merchandise since you didn't marry her before she went to school. Although you can still keep the relationship going on a low profile but don't put in you all.
Re: Guys 11 Things You Shouldn't Do For Her. by blackmarket(m): 11:43am On Jul 29, 2016
10. Kill For Her
Never ever even think about executing such an atrocity for a woman no matter how convincing the situation is, because if you end up in jail, another man will take your position.

Re: Guys 11 Things You Shouldn't Do For Her. by blackmarket(m): 11:47am On Jul 29, 2016
11. Die For Her, Literally
So many men have committed suicide because of a woman. What’s the sense in it when you’re finally dead and gone. Live to fight another day

Re: Guys 11 Things You Shouldn't Do For Her. by Nobody: 12:00pm On Jul 29, 2016
blackmarket:
11. Die For Her, Literally
So many men have committed suicide because of a woman. What’s the sense in it when you’re finally dead and gone. Live to fight another day
Romeo and Juilet is a touching story written by William Shakespeare - one of the best writers in the age of man. I read the book and I liked it. But the last thing on earth I will do is trade my life for what's not worth it.

The girl you died for will later have a new boyfriend and both of them will wear lace to your burial as you lie in R.I.P on your funeral pyre. You have been warned. You can choose to either ignore or accept, but know this: According to Victor Oguejiofor, the deaf insect that failed to heed wise counsel, ended in the stomach of a lizard.
Re: Guys 11 Things You Shouldn't Do For Her. by Nobody: 12:12pm On Jul 29, 2016
blackmarket:
10. Kill For Her
Never ever even think about executing such an atrocity for a woman no matter how convincing the situation is, because if you end up in jail, another man will take your position.
Let me sharply chip this in. If your girl say she's not satisfied with what you can offer, please run from her. Don't give in to her nagging pressure. As you are out there hustling, she's fücking your friend. The end result would be you red-carded or landing in jail or one misfortune, and both your "supposed" friend and your girlfriend planning their life.

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