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So Diz Guy Dates This Sweet Girl For 3 Years Then Breaks Up & Marries Another!!! by martinosi: 11:52am On Aug 25, 2016 |
Sometime i wonder why Some guys just mislead girls with ill-intent I watched this happen first hand and i will have to tell this story Ladies be Careful of Guys that play on your emotions especially when your Father is not there to guide you in your to get married O,k so here is the true story that traspired btween 2013 Jan - 2016 August A Nigerian guy (from Rivers State) who works for an Oil and Gas Shipping/Logistics firm visited Ghana in late 2012 (November) for a work seminar and see's a beautiful Nigerian Girl (Ibo from Enugu state) at the Airport at Accra, Ghana. He approaches her and chat to her and ask to go out with her. The Girl says she will think about it as she is in Ghana to study at a University there. Well as you can understand the guy is persistent becuase the girl is very beautiful and is a part time Model (She Models Traditional African Atire) So later she agrees to go out which him and later they start dating in 2013 and by later in the year around October 20013 he proposes to her and she agrees The Girl is due to Finish her studies in Ghana by Jan 2014 and plans to come back to Nigeria then. SO Meanwhile they are engaged in a so called long distance relationship as the guy is always off-shore as his is an engineer in this Logistics company and normally comes to ghana when he has his onshore-breaks to see his so called "wife to Be". So we all know how this things goes, the Ibo Girl studying in Ghana is literally built in Body shape like "Esther Baxter" and i am not exaggerating ( I could post her picture and cover her face but i may not do it) and so every time the guy comes to Ghana to see her she leaves her hostel/Univeristy lodging quarters where she has rented a place which 3 of her other Nigerian University girl-friends to Book a Hotel Room at East Legon to spend a few days with her "man" who has come to see her. So the Guy in terms of Looks and Apperance is not so handsome but hey, when we look at his background, some girls will not mind. He is from a Rich Home - His Dad is in Senior Managerment at one of the Oil Majors In Nigeria SO as we know the guys is busy enjoying "Sexual Intimacy" with this Girl for 3 and a Half years and she thinks that after she gradutes and come back to NIGERIA he will marry her. Anyway knowing the Sailor/Shipping crew life-style that is hard to resist this Nigerian Dude is busy *Banging & Running Trains" on various women from countries all around the Gulf of Guinea to Southern Africa even as far as the "Malacca Strait" in Asia due to the various stops that their ship has to make while carrying oil cargo. How do i know this? One of his shipmates that i know is telling me the stories and sexual adventures this guy is having and also knows he has proposed to this Nigerian Girl Studying in a Nigerian University. Well come January 2014, the Girl graduates from the Ghanian University and Comes back to Nigeria and now its serious decision time for our Sailor Boy to start making plans to Marry this girl. However the guy tells the girl that he wants to do his masters in Engineering abroad and has applied to a UK University to study, so she says o.k go for the one year Master Course and then come back and lets get married, so his goes to the UK around September 2014 to do the Master course to come back to Nigeria by August/September 2015. Now we all Knew that this is looking real bleak for the Ibo Ghanian Trained University Graduate if this guy goes to the UK and starts meeting Nigerian Girls at the University who are also studying for Masters or in Final Year to graduate that are from Wealthy or Well to do Homes and are from Rivers state the Guy may start befriending them and later go out with one of them. So the Sailor Boy starts he Master Course In the UK University and While there, starts Posting Jesus Loves you and Scriptural Posts on his Facebook page etc which is a Sign that he is trying to clean up his "Shady Sailor Image" AND Wants to Attract some Nigerian Girls to Believe he is Now a God fearing Man, Born Again Christian. Well as it happened while he was studying for his Master, he came in contact with such a girl and started dating the girl while at the same time being Engaged to Marry the Nigerian girl who schooled in Ghana but is back in Lagos waiting for "sailor Boy". Well Sailor Boy comes back to Nigeria after the Master in Sept 2015 and stays for a Couple of Months and goes back to Europe and while in Europe early 2016 he breaks up with the ibo girl that is waiting for him to finally come back to Nigeria and then plans a wedding and marries the Nigerian Girl he met while studying in the UK August 2016 and post all the Pictures of the wedding on Facbook with his new Bride in a Bentley Hired for the Wedding!!! So the Ibo girl back in Nigeria is Heart-broken but moves on while SAILOR bOY Marries his Well to do Rivers State, Nigerian wife in UK and does not even skip a beat knowing fully well that the Ibo Girl was just a thing to enjoy but when pressure to commit and marry after she graduated he backed out. So whats the Moral of the unfortuante event for single girls Do not allow any guy to just play on your emotions and sexually enjoy you promising marriage then dumps you when they see something better in terms of Social Status, Looks-Body type and Money. So sad what happened but could have been avoided. The Ibo Girls father was late so i guess she was really pressed to marry and have a Husband and family and i guess the Rivers State guy knew this and took advantage of this. Sad story but must be told so that Single Women take pre-caution and seek proper counsel before commiting to any guy who says he wants to marriage them. Please post comments and if anyone wants to discuss and ask questions i am more than open to respond. 1 Like |
Re: So Diz Guy Dates This Sweet Girl For 3 Years Then Breaks Up & Marries Another!!! by abdeiz(m): 12:43pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Well that really sucks and I feel sorry for her but this isn't something new and it happens both ways much more frequently than you think. 1 Like |
Re: So Diz Guy Dates This Sweet Girl For 3 Years Then Breaks Up & Marries Another!!! by Nobody: 12:44pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
I blame the girl, she should have had an alternative for situations like this always be prepared for anything 3 Likes |
Re: So Diz Guy Dates This Sweet Girl For 3 Years Then Breaks Up & Marries Another!!! by thorpido(m): 2:28pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Long distance relationship with a guy who is rich and obviously likes to enjoy life.It may work out for some relationships,but the chances of success is slim. Young ladies need to ask themselves if the money is what they want................nothing else is guaranteed. 1 Like |
Re: So Diz Guy Dates This Sweet Girl For 3 Years Then Breaks Up & Marries Another!!! by eyinjuege: 2:39pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Not every relationship must lead to marriage. Not all marriages stand the test of time either. S#!t happens. She should move on with her life. He obviously didn't love her enough, so no need losing sleep over that. 2 Likes |
Re: So Diz Guy Dates This Sweet Girl For 3 Years Then Breaks Up & Marries Another!!! by Timbuktuo: 2:46pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Boo hoo. As we speak, there's more than a thousand employed, broke guys whose girlfriends will break up with them after graduation or NYSC because these girls don't find these boys worth their time. They'll be looking to hook some big, succulent fish. The only reason she's butt hurt is because she lost a big catch. If the niccur was one illiterate shop owner who paid her tuition she would be too good for him by now. That's the game and how it's played. Tell your friend to move on. 3 Likes |
Re: So Diz Guy Dates This Sweet Girl For 3 Years Then Breaks Up & Marries Another!!! by abdeiz(m): 2:48pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Timbuktuo:I concur |
Re: So Diz Guy Dates This Sweet Girl For 3 Years Then Breaks Up & Marries Another!!! by 5minsmadness: 2:58pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Sad story. If she had decided to follow bible principles and abstain from pre-marital sex and worldly attractions maybe she wouldnt be in this mess. Just saying. #goesbacktowork 1 Like |
Re: So Diz Guy Dates This Sweet Girl For 3 Years Then Breaks Up & Marries Another!!! by Nobody: 2:59pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Ladies should not be in a hurry to be in a relationship |
Re: So Diz Guy Dates This Sweet Girl For 3 Years Then Breaks Up & Marries Another!!! by Nobody: 3:40pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Too bad. but i think she should be grateful to God. He saved you from the stress and problems that comes with having a cheat as a husband. The guy might be what she wants, but definitely not what she needs. Good riddance to STIs 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: So Diz Guy Dates This Sweet Girl For 3 Years Then Breaks Up & Marries Another!!! by beetle24(f): 4:04pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:. U just said my mind sis, how can she put all her eggs in a basket |
Re: So Diz Guy Dates This Sweet Girl For 3 Years Then Breaks Up & Marries Another!!! by Nobody: 4:04pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
beetle24:such a shame |
Re: So Diz Guy Dates This Sweet Girl For 3 Years Then Breaks Up & Marries Another!!! by martinosi: 5:48pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
5minsmadness: Yeah Great point...but she was a catholic and well you know how them Catholic girls in Nigeria be,,,,some of them not all..test drive before final ring on finger... |
Re: So Diz Guy Dates This Sweet Girl For 3 Years Then Breaks Up & Marries Another!!! by martinosi: 5:49pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
Adaobi12: true talk! |
Re: So Diz Guy Dates This Sweet Girl For 3 Years Then Breaks Up & Marries Another!!! by bennyrazz: 6:03pm On Aug 25, 2016 |
kikikikikikikikiki this part got me laughing @martinosi, that shhhhh happens everytime. You can never fully know the intention of a guy to a lady. Some guys are green snake but there is one thing I know, so far he promised the girl marriage and the girl gave him all her body, the guy will certainly pay in one way or the other. It might not be today sha. 1 Like |
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