Incrizz
We're on the same page now, just that we are reading from opposite ends of the book, lol.

I'm glad u agree that the woman's decisions might be made from her ''point of view''. i'm also glad u know that her point of view might be ''myopic''.
I very well agree with u that women do have preferences, and that they spend time searching for the right one.
But then you will agree that sometimes they do find someone who meets those requirements. my point lies in that time they find.
Lets say that woman in your analogy finally finds a guy who's 90% Jesus, 9% white teeth and doesn't drink at all. she's excited and pitches her tent with that guy, and even seriously considers "moving the ministry to the permanent site". then there's this new guy in church who has a PhD, and his teeth aren't too bad too. she then remembers that she could have added PhD to her preferences earlier and begins to bite her fingers to that.

Incrizz:

Lol...Why do you say that's not me?

There's a caucasian (or at least, a half-caucasian) on your profile, while you are most certainly born, bred, and buttered in naija, lower-middle class parents, igbo, ex-science major... but hey, I've been wrong before.

So let me rephrase: is that you on your profile?

aadvark:
Incrizz
We're on the same page now, just that we are reading from opposite ends of the book, lol.

I'm glad u agree that the woman's decisions might be made from her ''point of view''. i'm also glad u know that her point of view might be ''myopic''.
I very well agree with u that women do have preferences, and that they spend time searching for the right one.
But then you will agree that sometimes they do find someone who meets those requirements. my point lies in that time they find.
Lets say that woman in your analogy finally finds a guy who's 90% Jesus, 9% white teeth and doesn't drink at all. she's excited and pitches her tent with that guy, and even seriously considers "moving the ministry to the permanent site". then there's this new guy in church who has a PhD, and his teeth aren't too bad too. she then remembers that she could have added PhD to her preferences earlier and begins to bite her fingers to that.

Ahahaha....
Well I don't think so Once she is satisfied, she is satisfied.

@bolded I get you

To make matters worse, this new guy seems seriously interested in her. she thinks: "he comes to church, so the Jesus part is covered, and he's got nice teeth. i'm not sure he drinks and i don't mind him drinking a little. after all, its just 1% on my scale". so she bucks under the weight and goes with the new guy. Only to find out after some time that this one drinks any alcoholic liquid available. she's unhappy again, and has to leave to search for better.
POINT IS, women have what they want, and they try to find it. but when they do it is still hard to stay satisfied cos they remember what they dont have.
AGAIN, THIS DOES NOT REPRESENT ALL WOMEN, SOME KNOW WHAT THEY WANT AND STAY SATISFIED WHEN THEY GET IT.
Incrizz, i think that unsteady heart is natural. i think those few who are firm just defy it. think about Eve. . .

kay9:


Let me rephrase: is that you on your profile?

Lol nice.
No, that's not me.

Modified.
Pic's been changed to me.

Aadvark once a woman is satisfied, she is satisfied lol..

Incrizz:
Aadvark once a woman is satisfied, she is satisfied lol..

lol, don't blame me o. i've seen fickle women. if ever i will marry, i pray to God for a wife who knows what she wants and stands by it. if that is not possible, God please don't give me a wife at all. na beg i dey o

aadvark:
lol, don't blame me o. i've seen fickle women. if ever i will marry, i pray to God for a wife who knows what she wants and stands by it. if that is not possible, God please don't give me a wife at all. na beg i dey o

That, is dependent on the guy. I am serious with you.
You need to fill her love tank properly before those trying times come. You've got to treat her righ but that, is very far from being a "yes man" (woman hate that with a passion)
One way to do that is to be honest and open and truhful always.
The right woman will stay and once that happens, she's going nowhere.

Being truthful, open and honest here doesn't mean having a leaking mouth though.
Just be real -women love that.

Incrizz:

That, is dependent on the guy. I am serious with you.
You need to fill her love tank properly before those trying times come. You've got to treat her righ but that, is very far from being a "yes man" (woman hate that with a passion)
One way to do that is to be honest and open and truhful always.
The right woman will stay and once that happens, she's going nowhere.

Being truthful, open and honest here doesn't mean having a leaking mouth though.
Just be real -women love that.

Hmmmm, thanks for the tip o. i'm going to try my best, my very best

aadvark:
Hmmmm, thanks for the tip o. i'm going to try my best, my very best

The LORD Himself has crowned your effort with success because you asked Him. You have now received of Him...

Incrizz:

The LORD Himself has crowned your effort with success because you asked Him.

Amen sis

Incrizz:
You have now received of Him...

uhn? where is the lady?

aadvark:
uhn? where is the lady?

Ahahaha Advark...
You ever heard the story of Daniel in the Bible? God answered him from day one but the answer to his prayers, an Angel, did not arrive till 21 days later..?
The truth is many years from now, you are gonna look back and say, "wow! Thank You LORD, You gave me what my heart desired!"
As for the lady, when you're ready, she'd come.

Incrizz:

Ahahaha Advark...
You ever heard the story of Daniel in the Bible? God answered him from day one but the answer to his prayers, an Angel, did not arrive till 21 days later..?
The truth is many years from now, you are gonna look back and say, "wow! Thank You LORD, You gave me what my heart desired!"
As for the lady, when you're ready, she'd come.

Amen and Amen to that Incrizz, thank you.
Dear future wife, i don't know what you are still waiting for. You better start coming my way o, i'm waiting patiently.

aadvark:
Amen and Amen to that Incrizz, thank you.
Dear future wife, i don't know what you are still waiting for. You better start coming my way o, i'm waiting patiently.

Lol...did you just say, "come"??
Only ladies are allowed to say that
Dust your behind and go-a-searching!
Anyways, a lovely day to ya *raises glass*

Incrizz:
Lol...did you just say, "come"?? Only ladies are allowed to say that Dust your behind and go-a-searching! Anyways, a lovely day to ya *raises glass*

lol. ok o. Dear future wife, tarry just a little more, I'm on my way. *Fixed* lol. Have yourself a splendid day too

Incrizz:

Lol @nanny
but Sweetie, I never said full time housewife. I may have used the wrong term. Self employed/Business owner is what I meant.

But you may want to reconsider your stance on the housewife view..? Hehe
Check out excerpts from new researches:


'Excerpt disjointed much?


*falls in love*

boo boo, sorry I just saw this reply....I can't believe it's been two weeks I checked my nairaland profile. I'm still very interested. And I wanna make it work. Accept my PM for a start. maybe we will be the first nairaland couple

Lincolnburrows:


boo boo, sorry I just saw this reply....I can't believe it's been two weeks I checked my nairaland profile. I'm still very interested. And I wanna make it work. Accept my PM for a start. maybe we will be the first nairaland couple

Lol..please be serious.

[quote author=Incrizz post=49616713]
Lol..please be serious.[/quote
The first means to know if I am serious is by accepting my pm.....

Incrizz:
Huh? Lol...I'm ready for a husband! Sweetest Hubby I am ready for you, come come I used to think I can go through life without being married (God forgive me my sins *sign of the cross*)

So are you now married?

Toks2008:


So are you now married?

Lol..no o

Incrizz:
Lol..no o

What age bracket are you?
20 to 24 25 to 29 30 and above

Toks2008:


What age bracket are you?

20 to 24
25 to 29
30 and above

Haba

Incrizz:

Haba

Chill omoge. .I'm a socialite and I find your thread intriguing hence the need to ask.

Toks2008:


Chill omoge. .I'm a socialite and I find your thread intriguing hence the need to ask but if you are not comfy with the public discussion then add me on wattsup.....

No strings attached..

Would you mind hitting my PM link instead? Thanks aww..

Lol..chai!

Incrizz:
Would you mind hitting my PM link? Thanks aww..
Lol..chai!

Which one be PM link?
Pleasw unquote me o... lol!

Toks2008:


Which one be PM link?

Number deleted from quote

What should I have said?
PM button? Or Icon?
The PM is a link. I am so sure

Incrizz:

Number deleted from quote

What should I have said?
PM button? Or Icon?
The PM is a link. I am so sure

thanks for your comment/post on Daddytime's thread. I need a few direction. Please follow back and let me ask a question as I need directive. Thanks.

Incrizz:

Number deleted from quote

What should I have said?
PM button? Or Icon?
The PM is a link. I am so sure

There is no PM link but email link and that process is too monotonous for me.Stay blessed sis.

Toks2008:


There is no PM link but email link and that process is too monotonous for me .Stay blessed sis.

Oops! You're right

Me. Me. Me. All the time.
*rolls eyes*

Incrizz:

Oops! You're right

Me. Me. Me. All the time.
*rolls eyes*

did you see the PM?

automatix:
did you see the PM?

Yes seen..