This lady,a devoted BORN-AGAIN has several relationship
in which all the brothers were asking for sex before the marriage
and she REFUSED which many of the relationshipS were broken
MEANING,the Brothers want her to be pregnant before going to Altar
SHE just Has another brother now, MUST SHE DO IT??

No she musnt due to the doctrines or her faith but as it seems no one wants to wait for her so the ball is in her court

No, its called fornication. Let her be chaste, God will help her, pre marital sex is frown by God

so the men were breaking up with her because of sex?

I doubt they'd have married her after the sex anyway.

And what kind of men is she attracting.

I guess their excuse is they want to be sure she's fertile.

Don't give the devil a chance, what if they just used you and dump you, be wise

Abuzola:

Don't give the devil a chance, what if they just used you and dump you, be wise

Abuzola:

No, its called fornication. Let her be chaste, God will help her, pre marital sex is frown by God

For once i give u a standing ovation

she probably has a bad attitude, has nothing to do with sex.

posakosa:

she probably has a bad attitude, has nothing to do with sex.

She is refined and has good heart
but the problem is those brothers want her to be pregnant
and thereafter go to alter.
COULD SHE TAKE IT AS HER OWN FATE?
MAY SHE WAIT TILL 40,
AND DECIDE WHAT TO DO

i wish her good luck

I know of a woman who got married at 40 and gave birth that same year. Although not a virgin, was celibate until marriage. But you must have LOTS of faith to do so.

So yes, with God anything is possible.

I don't think the problem is with her choosing to be celibate or not. It may have more to do with the level of determination to maintain it for 39 years! That alone is enough to scare a lot of guys.

Wouldn't put it past someone like that to draw up a timetable of when to 'do it' as well as  prepare a blueprint of 'appropriate style(s)' for 'it'.

So, the brothers may actually have respected her resolve but still chose to walk because they weren't quite impressed with how it was going to be 'after'.

Come to think of it, how many of us are ready to leave the rest of their lives with someone whose  'prim and proper' conduct is a constant reminder of your 'unworthiness'? Let her recheck her attitude and she just might clinch it before she gets to the big 4-0.

All that aside, I actually don't see what the big fuss is all about getting married. You can be unmarried and still live a fulfilled life!

39, and still a virgin? wow,

You need to get pragmatic and do something before it is too late. You should realize your biological clock is ticking fast and your shelf life is 11 years give and take a couple of years. If you do not want a sarah-like miracle ( and there had been very few since sarah). You better dump start doing what a woman is built for.

I just must tell you that practically, men are not looking for virgins any more, they are looking for a suitable companion who can make them remain indoors.

Abuzola:

No, its called fornication. Let her be chaste, God will help her, pre marital sex is frown by God

Abuzola:

Don't give the devil a chance, what if they just used you and dump you, be wise

Am i seeing clearly or what ? Abuzola ?

tpia.:

so the men were breaking up with her because of sex?

I doubt they'd have married her after the sex anyway.

And what kind of men is she attracting.

I guess their excuse is they want to be sure she's fertile.

The men would have found just what a lousy lover she is and would have left her. Sex, lovemaking and the maintenance of a relationship is a skill - you get good at it by being more involved with it.

Only a desperate man would want to associate with her now.

eya i just pity her now u know,its only GOD that can help her now cos she wont really find a good one, most f the men coming would either be divocee,widower, older bachelors with differnt curses around thier neck,due to how they've dealth with ladies badly in the past, ,and maybe some that are not even really good sexually

and why is are people applauding ABUZOLA,hes still doing his jihad,and he has never for once supported fornication and other illegal act,hes simply telling u from ISLAM point of veiw that FORNICATION is prohibited

Abuzola:

Don't give the devil a chance, what if they just used you and dump you, be wise

Abuzola:

No, its called fornication. Let her be chaste, God will help her, pre marital sex is frown by God

Ehennnnnn , na u talk like this? Jesus christ is still alive, ope ni fun oluwa    

Infact eyin oluwa logo

jesus of the bible has nothing to do with what abuzola said. its called islam. its better that you takbir; Allahu Akbar, not what you said., skfa1

a virgin at 39?

does her kitten stink or repel men? something aint right here.

skfa1:

Ehennnnnn , na u talk like this? Jesus christ is still alive, ope ni fun oluwa    

Infact eyin oluwa logo

Ogo

@Poster: Of course no,
@uplawal: wetin abuzola do you

i dnt av anything against my BRO ABUZOLA,am only saying u people are hypocritically praising him

hmm

I wish i understood too