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It details a mother giving her son a
motherly experience and advises on
marriage that will guide him,
alongside you.
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WHAT A MOTHER TOLD HER SON A
DAY BEFORE HIS WEDDING
Mummy’s boy, you are now a man.
Tomorrow you will have a new
mother, a new cook and a new
person to share all your secrets with.
It will no longer be me but her. Love
your new mum even more than you
love me. Before you walk into her
arms forever, let me give you some
words to guide you.
There was a day I was arguing with
your father. We were screaming,
Tempers were high. I was angry and
He was angry. Then I called him an
idiot! He was shocked, He looked at
me asking how dare I call him that,
Immediately started calling him idiot,
fool, stupid, crazy, I called him all
sort of name. Guess what he did? He
didn’t raise his hands to hit me. He
just walked away, banging the door
as he went out.
My Son, If your father had hit me and
destroyed my eyes, how will you feel
sitting here with me today? How will
you regard him as your father?
Would you have been proud of him
or would you be blaming me for
calling him names? Never hit your
wife! No matter the provocation just
walk away and things will be normal.
Whenever she offends you, think of
this story I just told you, it could have
been your mum!
Before I forget, after he left, I was
filled with guilt. We slept on same
bed that night and I went to him the
next day. I pleaded with him, I did all
I could to show am sorry and he
forgave me. That day I cooked his
favourite food, yes you know he loves
Pounded yam & Vegetable soup right?
After that day, I never called him
names, my respect for him was ten
times stronger.
There is something very important
you must always do, my son listen
very carefully, defend your wife.
When she is under pressure, stand by
her. If your friends hates her, it is
your duty to make them see her as a
Queen. Your Uncle, I mean Uncle
Yusuf, never liked me. But Ur father
was always supportive until his
perception changed.
There was a day your Father was
going to host the owner of his
company and friends. They were
three of them. That day I was in the
kitchen cooking for them and your
father went to buy drinks. When the
table was set and food was served.
Everyone started eating. Then I
remembered I did not add salt in the
food. I was embarrassed. Your father
tasted the food and looked at me. He
immediately turned to the guests. He
told them that he instructed his wife
last month not to add salt whenever
she is cooking because of some
problem with his body. He said it in a
funny way and everyone laughed!
The guests understood and he asked
me to bring salt and everyone added
according to their taste. He managed
to eat the food without salt. After the
guest left, he went on his knees and
asked God to forgive him for lying.
Your wife is like a baby, sometimes
she don’t know what to say or do.
Stand up and speak for her! Now let
me talk to you about Sex. You see Sex
is a wonderful thing. Do not be
surprised if your wife enjoy and need
Sex more than you do. There were
days, I needed Sex more than your
father and there were days he
needed it more than me but the
important thing is to always try to
satisfy the other when they need you.
Don’t always think of your self.
There was a time things were hard
and I needed to do two jobs to
support your father. One night I was
so tired. When I got to bed he was in
the mood. He try to make love to me
and I didn’t refuse him. I was tired
but I felt I needed to be there when
he need me. When he tried
undressing me, he saw my look and
he stopped.
He asked what was wrong and I...

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lalasticlala, mynd44

wow, its a beautiful piece. Tell those niggas who don't wanna get married it's beauty.

Lolz

babyfaceafrica:
Lolz

My sentiments exactly.