i have reached the marriage age,i have a good job and i am comfortable.My people has advised me to look for a good girl and get married.Question: who is a good girl? is it for a girl to be respectful, or a virgin(i have read posts where guys insists they wud marry a virgin or die trying), or innocent looking?( i have heard cases of a gentle lady turning into a real bitch the moment u say i do).marriage is a life long contract and one needs to be careful.so nairalanders borrow me your wisdoms