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Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by Nobody: 5:43pm On Oct 12, 2016
More than 30,000 broken and failed marriages were recorded in Badagry area of Lagos State between January and September 2016, an NGO, Family Reloaded Organisation, said on Wednesday.

The organisation’s Coordinator, Mrs Sesi Sebinun, told the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) in Badagry, Lagos, that the major cause of broken homes in the area was negligence of duties from both parties.

“There are so many broken homes in Badagry and the number is going to increase if urgent steps are not taken to address the situation.
“The husband fails to see that he is the man of the house while the wife isn’t submissive and these cause friction in the house.
“The children suffer this because of the psychological effect on them, so, both parties must learn that building a home takes team work by both parties,’’ she said.

She noted that violence in marriages was due to impatience from the two parties.
“Impatience and lack of understanding between both parties are the major causes of violence in marriages because they do not have the will to tolerate each other.
“We must learn each other’s flaws and tolerate them instead of getting angry at little things,’’ she said.

She advised people to make use of social welfare services to address issues in their marriages. “Many people are not aware that there are organisations that provide services to people whose marriages are in trouble.
“You don’t have to wait till when things are damaged beyond repair before seeking help from social welfare service and customary courts to rectify things,’’ she noted.
She advised couples to pray regularly for their marriages.

http://m.guardian.ng/news/lagos-community-records-30000-failed-marriages-in-9-months/

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Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by Nobody: 9:57pm On Oct 12, 2016
will comment in the morning, sleep on my mind

modified;
yes my people day don break,the truth is it could have been higher than that,infact it's not just badagry, if you conduct a survey and ask married women why they are still married to their husbands, I bet you more then 80% will tell you because if their children and some will even say because they have no where to go, simple, the three posters below me,what I do?somebody cannot sleep again?

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Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by kayfeez(m): 9:57pm On Oct 12, 2016
hmmm...this poster above me ehhn...u no dey sleep?
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by ephi123(f): 9:57pm On Oct 12, 2016
My fellow two posters above, I see what you did there cheesy

@ Topic, communication is key for any successful marriage

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Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by morganist99(m): 9:57pm On Oct 12, 2016
Badagry??...Guess the Oloshos there caused the failed marriages.









Glo bet why? I for be FTC

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Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by Ekakamba: 9:57pm On Oct 12, 2016
Blood of Moses! 30k? In just over 8months? Were they experimenting? Too bad. Marriage is a thing of joy except ... ........... ........ Their child be like... angry

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Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by DickDastardly(m): 9:58pm On Oct 12, 2016
Yoruba demon effect grin wink

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Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by Missmossy(f): 9:58pm On Oct 12, 2016
Eww!! Terrible.

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Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by Arise001: 9:59pm On Oct 12, 2016
This is a serious issue. Broken homes. God help us

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Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by Nobody: 9:59pm On Oct 12, 2016
Glo is just a disgrace. Daz all

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Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by mgbedianya(m): 9:59pm On Oct 12, 2016
lies

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Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by Vaxt(m): 10:00pm On Oct 12, 2016
Nawa
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by sassiemyk: 10:00pm On Oct 12, 2016
Na waooo, failed? When olosho full every where? All these crazy daughters of eve wey no dey loyal.

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Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by cokiek(f): 10:01pm On Oct 12, 2016
what is wrong with the young men and women of this generation!!!
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by Donprayer(m): 10:01pm On Oct 12, 2016
Look before u leap but in Nigeria most men and women leap into marriage before they look.

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Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by 234GT(m): 10:03pm On Oct 12, 2016
A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage!

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Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by justicejay(m): 10:04pm On Oct 12, 2016
A house built on sand will never last.

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Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by neolboy(m): 10:04pm On Oct 12, 2016
Failed marriage everywhere
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by ammyluv2002(f): 10:04pm On Oct 12, 2016
Wow! The world is officially coming to an end.....We've lost everything
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by Gten(m): 10:07pm On Oct 12, 2016
Marital recession! That's a new one.

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Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by Lawcurrent(m): 10:08pm On Oct 12, 2016
while other ladies are doing fastinq and prayer, make husband locate dem...... una own be say una don tire.... anywayz continue

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Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by steppin: 10:09pm On Oct 12, 2016
30000? Damn it!
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by ajebuter(f): 10:09pm On Oct 12, 2016
l am not surprised..

Reasons?

1. Most Badagry men (l didn't say all) are illiterate fishermen

2. Most are lazy and don't like working because their women work as fisherwomen and fish sellers..

3. Most Badagry men enjoy drinking ogogoro even early momo..and you find ogogoro joint everywhere probably because they are close to Benin Republic border and smuggled drinks get to them easily

4. Most badagry women are hard workers and provide for their husbands who boast of having four wives who are working and falling over each other to cater to his needs... they say that openly l swear..

4 Most badagry men love juju and their sangbeto masquerade to a fault and illiteracy is high among them and the witchcraft of their women eh?

Finally..they born pikin like kilode...

That doesn't mean all Badagry men and women are what l described above sha

Abi? all those Semasa.. Senami...Semanu...Senayon. Olorunwa...Suru.... ( na their names be that)

How l take know all these?

Every graduate of LASU know them like the back of our hands..

Abi l lie? ( dodging blows)

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Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by ndcide(m): 10:09pm On Oct 12, 2016
That number is suspect.

However, marriages are having tough time these days. Many are just pretending.

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Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by Nobody: 10:09pm On Oct 12, 2016
Oh sh***! Hmmm na mean be say village girls go sure pass, just hope they won't change to city craze.
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by Ekakamba: 10:09pm On Oct 12, 2016
To most girls its vice versa. grin grin grin
234GT:
A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage!

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Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by stainlex(m): 10:09pm On Oct 12, 2016
Kinda hard to believe..
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by Adesiji77: 10:10pm On Oct 12, 2016
shocked
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by menix(m): 10:11pm On Oct 12, 2016
Buhari's Econometric undoing marriages..
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by segebase(m): 10:11pm On Oct 12, 2016
end tym divorce
Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by FreshBoss007: 10:12pm On Oct 12, 2016
civil marriages are surely crap and has higher tendencies towards failure

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