It's no news that President Buhari and his wife Aisha have been making major headlines since yesterday and some people didn't find the whole saga funny, most especially for the fact the Aisha went on air to publicly discredit her husband while her husband in return claims his wife belongs to the kitchen, living room and other room.

Well, Abdullahi O Haruna Haruspice who is an associate member of the Nigerian Institute of Public Relations, Nigerian Union of Journalist and World Bank Youth forum felt Aishat Buhari killed the confidence of her husband.

Read his piece below

Never hurt the ego of your man, nothing kill confidence more than your scorn. Men aspires to impress two persons in their lives, mothers and wives. Men are nothing without these powerful women.

If you are deceived by the advocacy of feminism and decide to diss your man, you lick the juice of regret later. Your man is your fulfillment the same way you are his world.

The day you bring to the public the misgivings of your husband, that day you wreck the very confidence of your man. Nobody takes public rebuke as healthy advise, that is why there is the home. You create a crack in your home, the very day a third party become an arbiter of your squabbles. That day, you lost the privacy of your matrimonial stead.


No marriage is perfect but endurance and sacrifice has been the glue of many unions. That is why you are quick to choose Beyonce and Jay Z as your ideal couple when you have your own parents!

This is a message to the young girls who definitely would get hitched someday. No man wants to have a rival in a wife, even if you make millions a month, the man still wants to cater for your needs, he sees you as his utmost responsibility, he hate to see you suffer, he wants to be the guard of your being. You are his treasure land and can go to any length to protect your empire. He doesn't see your aspirations as a threat, he wants to celebrate your greatness but you lose these beautiful bouquet the very day you challenge his ego. What makes a man is his ego, once you puncture his ego, you have killed the man in him.

Queen Amina of Zazzau built a kingdom without her man impeding her vision, Funmilayo Ransome Kuti made her mark in the history of this country with the support of her husband - years after death her name rings continuously in our reference, only a weak man sees his wife as a threat.

Muhammadu Buhari if for anything should be made an ambassador of girl child education. From a seemingly background where women's education are not too much a priority, he inspired his wife to acquire education upto master's level, his daughters are cerebral reference of education. This is a family in noble reference.

I do not pray for a day my spouse would bring out my weaknesses for the hawks to feed on, we all have our shortcomings and that is why we always join the yorubas to pray everyday that 'may God never expose our hidden iniquities'.

Homely musing

Abdullahi O Haruna Haruspice

http://www.trendyrammy.com.ng/2016/10/aishat-buhari-killed-confidence-of-her.html

She wailed for the good of the country and its citizens

political strategy

I think she did well for the interest of Nigerian's at large

OAM4J, Mynd44

It was indeed short sighted

vedaxcool:
It was indeed short sighted

you wont understand what shes going through at the moment............

abokibuhari:

you wont understand what shes going through at the moment............

What could it be?

Buhari is hardened. Nothing touches him.

i think she never meant for it to pan out this way, but she was indeed short sighted and ill advised on this one. If your enemies see nothing in your achievements (21 chibok girls) but will hail you for tearing down the wall of your house, then you know ther is a problem.