FEMINISM! FEMINISM!! FEMINISM!!!
I don't get it really, after many failed relationships, some ladies just sit at the corner of their homes with a bitten fingernails, dirty hair and porn-filled phone and condemn men under the guise of feminism.
Listen, the advocacy for women empowerment and gender equality is a great idea but shouldn't be a battle for superiority. I get pissed up each time I see these lonely single ladies dictating the fate of others in a 'working' relationship. Let me tell you a little secret, there is no gay nor lesbian out there who was not deflowered by the opposite sex. They usually end up fighting what they either couldn't get or handle so why allow them dictate your life?
Trash religion and culture for a sec. When there is an association, there must be a leader. Any institution or organization without a leader will collapse in no time, no matter how strong or corporative they may be. A lady naturally expects the man to make the first move, she expects the man to provide for the family, she expects the man to be her Chief Security Officer, she expects the man to do so many thing she could even do for herself. Isn't that assigning leadership (not emperor) role to the man?
Maybe you should also look at it this way, your boss at work is often not better than you. I've been a boss over people older than me and I've also taken orders from those am older and sometimes more experienced than. Same with marriage. The husband is not more human than the wife. He is just a leader. Brother and sister fights, Nations war against each-other. There's bound to be misunderstandings but we should look for alternative ways of settling our differences and not some frustrated bitches approach of 'give it to him hot'
I strongly disapprove abusive relationships. women please stop fighting back when he beats you, just calm down, give him some good dose of sedatives and deal with the bastard. Step aside or a while and you guys will 'settle as usual' Don't take my words for it. No relationship or marriage is common. find what works for you.
Back to my point.The Lagos state Government established something called the Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) which allows people to SETTLE their differences before heading to court.
We should also imbibe this idea in our relationship and marriages. Lets have alternative means of settling our relationship conflicts. Everything mustn't end in a fight for all.
If you do not believe in your husband leading the marriage, you will have problem taking orders in your work place and even with your friends.
and to the men, indeed the governance structure in marriage allocates headship to the man but that doesn't convey any form of superiority but immense responsibility.
my little Saturday morning piece.
KD Oniyide
Twitter/IG; @kdoniyide

KDOniyide:
FEMINISM! FEMINISM!! FEMINISM!!!
I don't get it really, after many failed relationships, some ladies just sit at the corner of their homes with a bitten fingernails, dirty hair and porn-filled phone and condemn men under the guise of feminism.
Listen, the advocacy for women empowerment and gender equality is a great idea but shouldn't be a battle for superiority. I get pissed up each time I see these lonely single ladies dictating the fate of others in a 'working' relationship. Let me tell you a little secret, there is no gay nor lesbian out there who was not deflowered by the opposite sex. They usually end up fighting what they either couldn't get or handle so why allow them dictate your life?
Trash religion and culture for a sec. When there is an association, there must be a leader. Any institution or organization without a leader will collapse in no time, no matter how strong or corporative they may be. A lady naturally expects the man to make the first move, she expects the man to provide for the family, she expects the man to be her Chief Security Officer, she expects the man to do so many thing she could even do for herself. Isn't that assigning leadership (not emperor) role to the man?
Maybe you should also look at it this way, your boss at work is often not better than you. I've been a boss over people older than me and I've also taken orders from those am older and sometimes more experienced than. Same with marriage. The husband is not more human than the wife. He is just a leader. Brother and sister fights, Nations war against each-other. There's bound to be misunderstandings but we should look for alternative ways of settling our differences and not some frustrated bitches approach of 'give it to him hot'
I strongly disapprove abusive relationships. women please stop fighting back when he beats you, just calm down, give him some good dose of sedatives and deal with the bastard. Step aside or a while and you guys will 'settle as usual' Don't take my words for it. No relationship or marriage is common. find what works for you.
Back to my point.The Lagos state Government established something called the Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) which allows people to SETTLE their differences before heading to court.
We should also imbibe this idea in our relationship and marriages. Lets have alternative means of settling our relationship conflicts. Everything mustn't end in a fight for all.
If you do not believe in your husband leading the marriage, you will have problem taking orders in your work place and even with your friends.
and to the men, indeed the governance structure in marriage allocates headship to the man but that doesn't convey any form of superiority but immense responsibility.
my little Saturday morning piece.
KD Oniyide
Twitter/IG; @kdoniyide

How do you equate taking orders from your boss at work to working hand in hand with ones husband?
So a man that does dish orders in his home will also find it hard taking orders from his boss. If we want to compare office boss to ones own partner in a unuion such as marriage.
Marriage shouldnt be about boss and follower. It is two people making joint decisions and compromises.