You might be a shy guy/girl when it comes to wooing the opposite sex, talking in front of a big crowd, or just when it comes to looking into your friend's eyes when you or you friend is talking...

One way to improve your confidence is through perception..

Perception in how we see things from our own point of view. In this case perception is how you see yourself in the mirror and what you think of yourself..

Imagine a lady with high class shoes, clothes, hair.. I mean just imagine that girl who makes everyone goes wow with her fashion.

Now when you see her, if you are one of those shy guys you could say she is out of your league.. she is high class, high standard..

Oboy no go kill yourself ooo.. your friends might say

But the real deal is that you are seeing her the way the society sees her and not how you see her and not through how you see yourself (perception)..

You are a slave to the values society has set, Society says women should be submissive and keep themselves for a man and women have been doing that for years, while it allows a man to behave as he chooses and still get a way with it..

Now this is what society wants us to see and how it wants us to behave, we measure standards and values not by the skills, knowledge, achievements we posses and impact we have created, but by riches, beauty and fame..

Now, the actual way to improve your confidence is to create your own reality, your own world, how and who you see yourself, rather than who the society regards you as..

Your skills your talents and character should be just who you are and not how people influence you to be.

Once you stop measuring standards by beauty, fame and fortune..(as the world does).. and you start doing so by what you perceive is right.. I mean in your own terms, then you are in control..

I measure standards by how smart, creative you are and how you impact in me.. So if you wear high class clothes, drives airplanes as cars or whatever form of luxury, you will have to succumb to the rules of my reality and not the rules of the reality society has created for us..

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Wonderful piece

kaliyu97:
Wonderful piece

Thank you so much for learning something new...

If you liked that you can just follow me so that you can get more updates (I will always follow back)

When i click d follow button, i know u won't disapoint me. Well 2 d topic, u jst wrote how i also c life or reality. In dis life, i always try 2 b myself and weneva i try or pretent 2 b sum1 that am not, i must lost confident and become shy like a lady who just got flattered 4 d first time in her life by a man

Newbeginnings be making sense since 1066AD.

Perception is truly everything.

u can also boost ur confidence by visualizing anyone u re talking to naked.. it works like magic.

Ighoga898:
u can also boost ur confidence by visualizing anyone u re talking to naked.. it works like magic.

Good luck walking about with a boner_

UnlimitedIfex:
When i click d follow button, i know u won't disapoint me. Well 2 d topic, u jst wrote how i also c life or reality. In dis life, i always try 2 b myself and weneva i try or pretent 2 b sum1 that am not, i must lost confident and become shy like a lady who just got flattered 4 d first time in her life by a man

Thank you so much, so so much