Have always while growin' up as child never thought to live under same roof with my parents after school.
After my Nysc, moved to southern part of the country for greenery not until I was posted back to my state . Fortunately enough, my work place is stone throw to my family house where I have my own furnished apartment. I'm in quandary right now.
Should I ignore the family house and rent an apartment close by or should I just stay with them? Of course we know family palava and no privacy thing. Especially to a man who's running about or planning on walking down d' isle with his fiancee.
How do I go about coping with my family on same roof if I decide to stay in the family house?
Great minds please.

I think u already made up ur mind.. In my opinion, get a different apartment now the matter still fresh.. You can always visit ur family house when u want to. If u dey ur family house, it might be difficult to leave when u decide to finally. It's better than safe than sorry..

If ur wedding is close like next year , u can get ur apartment and start furnishing it gradually.
BTW plan towards building ur own house.

On d other hand.... if u already have ur own apartment in d family house and ur sure u can address and cut your boundaries with ur parents then u can stay.

There is nothing special about living alone.. Other than.. What we called privacy.. Which has to do with being a boss of your own...

But you can still replan on having that freedom after ur nysc... You could chose to relocate to any place of ur choice for a good job..

Advice is... Keep ur azz down at ur fam's house!

yanabasee:
There is nothing special about living alone.. Other than.. What we called privacy.. Which has to do with being a boss of your own...

But you can still replan on having that freedom after ur nysc... You could chose to relocate to any place of ur choice for a good job..

Advice is... Keep ur azz down at ur fam's house!

Yes sure, u stl don't get.
Already workin', was juz posted.

Josephamstrong1:


Yes sure, u stl don't get.
Already workin', was juz posted.

I get... But you'll still have to live at ur family's house.... Atleast for the one year compulsory national service which after you could decide to park out and be a man! Or you could rent a place if you're really buoyant!

yanabasee:


I get... But you'll still have to live at ur family's house.... Atleast for the one year compulsory national service which after you could decide to park out and be a man! Or you could rent a place if you're really buoyant!

Lol... No longer serving. Left service many years.
Juz on work posting ish... U get?

Josephamstrong1:


Lol... No longer serving. Left service many years.
Juz on work posting ish... U get?

Lol... Yo... I think I can't really tell you what to do then... If I were in ur position right now... I'd be making my decisions by myself and NL wouldn't even cross ma mind...

I believe any decision you make at this point shld be what you'd defend as a man!..

Trust me... I commented based on the topic... I didn't even read through the first paragraph..

yanabasee:


Lol... Yo... I think I can't really tell you what to do then... If I were in ur position right now... I'd be making my decisions by myself and NL wouldn't even cross ma mind...

I believe any decision you make at this point shld be what you'd defend as a man!..

Trust me... I commented based on the topic... I didn't even read through the first paragraph..

A'it, bless up.