To all those who cannot live without the likes and comments on their pictures. To those who feel that their friends love them so much that they'll hardly do anything without them. To even those who believe that their family can only be complete with them. I hate to let you know that every single life has value only in it's existence. The day you die, you begin to get forgotten. Fresh memories build up and replace those in which you had been included. The so called Facebook buddies quickly break down into an atmosphere of heartfelt RIPs, some going as far as posting your picture, the one that got the most likes and comments, some give an account of their relationship with you and people comment and like it, some even love it. Then they forget you. They post new and fresh pictures #WCW #MCM #ImBae #Frosh and just like that, your memory becomes more extinct than that of dinosaurs. Your friends move on, some effectively replacing you with someone else who can, at the very least, breathe. They even begin to think they've achieved more without you. Your family tries to mourn you up to the time you enter the ground and then, even they begin to forget, albeit slowly but it's progressive forgetfulness with your few pictures managing to remind them about you from time to time but very soon, you become history to them as well. Don't waste your time trying to look good for people, trying to make people happy, trying to be Mr. nice guy or Miss Goody. Live a life of laughter, dance even when you haven't got a faintest idea how to. Displease people when you want to and please them when you're absolutely required to. Have friends but don't keep them too close so you don't go making senseless jokes with them. Relax when you can. Don't rush into anything. Avoid heartbreaks as much as you can BECAUSE if you die today, they'll still take selfies at your grave, they'll still make jokes about your death, openly or privately. Although the ones left behind are not necessarily to blame, Out of sight, they say, is out of mind and that only shows you that the only thing keeping them from turning their backs on you is the fact that you still breathe, so why waste your time trying to be what you're not. Stop trying to be PERFECT, only God is.