For every action there must be a reason. Time and again, issues bordering on this institution keep coming into the public attention. The reason is not far-fetched as it is one of the main foundation of any society. According to the Christian religion, marriage is an institution ordained by God. Therefore my thoughts will be structured along this line.

Marriage is for companionship and it is a fact that the leadership role rest on the man. I hope this does not ruffle the thoughts of female independence but that is the reality. It is often said that Adam discovered his purpose or was working before he got married to Eve. This idea should be a necessary thought to guide a man or woman on their eligibility for marriage.

For a marriage to work, the man and woman must be willing to make it work. Marriage is more or less a relationship between companions. Companions are friends, partners and anything that encourages collectiveness. Therefore it is a necessary task to understand the fact that companionship is necessary for a healthy and sustained relationship. The bible encourages a sameness of faith in order for this fact of companionship to stay strong.

A major ingredient for the sustenance of a marriage relationship is the God factor. The gospel record a situation where the ten commandment is coalesced into two: Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul and mind, and love your neighbour as yourself. The two commandments are interlaced with each other. You cannot obey one and leave the other. It is also instructive to note that a person who claims to love God should not show hatred to his or her neighbour/wife/husband.

Marriage is worth preparing and praying for. Weaknesses, temptations, disagreements are all going to challenge and threaten the union but one thing is certain, if there is love, it will conquer and sail through. The bible also records a fine expression: Love covers so many faults. It is not compulsory that everyone get married though sex outside of marriage is outlawed and should not be encouraged.

Marriage is an institution ordained by God hence working with his thoughts on it is all that is needed. It is obvious that there are wolves in sheep clothing and so many have been deceived. One sure proof though is to seek God’s approval in relation to that person you intend to get married to. Love or infatuation is not God’s approval, the direction from the Holy Spirit is God’s approval.

Let love, sincerity and purpose rule your heart and watch as God make your marriage a model for others to follow.