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Sex During Fasting As Couple.....wise Or Unwise? by alfredo4u(m): 6:45am On Dec 03, 2016 |
This stuff just happened yesterday between me and my wise. I asked her for sex yesterday morning she denied me because she is observing a fasting which she did not keep me in copy. Pls pals, is her actions wise or unwise? |
Re: Sex During Fasting As Couple.....wise Or Unwise? by BellaLuce: 6:54am On Dec 03, 2016 |
She should ask you before taking such a decision |
Re: Sex During Fasting As Couple.....wise Or Unwise? by ajigiteri(m): 7:05am On Dec 03, 2016 |
I need to know whether your family is a Christian family or not, fasting is not restricted to Christians alone. If you are a Christian, you can't have sex during fasting. Concerning your wife telling you or not it shows how close you guys are, but this accident is not what having grudges or quarreling just let her know how you feel, if she's wise she will apologies, you should be happy you have spraying wife. Have a blessed month. |
Re: Sex During Fasting As Couple.....wise Or Unwise? by Edwinmason(m): 7:24am On Dec 03, 2016 |
she is wrong for not telling you,but it is good to stay away from sex if you are observe a fast most especially over a long period |
Re: Sex During Fasting As Couple.....wise Or Unwise? by menxer: 7:26am On Dec 03, 2016 |
Is the fasting 40 days? If it's a day or two what's the big deal? I know your annoyance is she didn't copy you the fasting, that can be forgiven, or do you want to start a war? 2 Likes |
Re: Sex During Fasting As Couple.....wise Or Unwise? by jashar(f): 7:34am On Dec 03, 2016 |
As a Christian, the Bible says in 1 Cor 7: 5.... (read it) So, it's by mutual agreement. The 2 both of you will agree the time and period. One person cannot just wake up and take such action. Fasting is good, but people should stop doing it ignorantly. Follow God's Word properly not just because you're feeling zealous. Not wise. 1 Like |
Re: Sex During Fasting As Couple.....wise Or Unwise? by sisisioge: 8:20am On Dec 03, 2016 |
jashar: Well done sweetie...Na so the Bible talk am o. |
Re: Sex During Fasting As Couple.....wise Or Unwise? by alfredo4u(m): 9:03am On Dec 03, 2016 |
menxer: I have let go of it...just that she tried making something out of it. 1 Like |
Re: Sex During Fasting As Couple.....wise Or Unwise? by jashar(f): 9:24am On Dec 03, 2016 |
Re: Sex During Fasting As Couple.....wise Or Unwise? by Richy4(m): 9:33am On Dec 03, 2016 |
Oga please give her a break...she is seeking the face of God for a turn around in a particular situation that she doesn't like that was affecting her, All u need do is ask her what it was and give her encouragement...You can always ask lovingly that her tell u next time she was doing something like that to avoid "conflict of interest" |
Re: Sex During Fasting As Couple.....wise Or Unwise? by WomanOfRace(f): 11:33am On Dec 03, 2016 |
unwise she didn't discus it with you before embarking on it,wise she didn't have sex with you while fasting. Read Esther when she was married to the king and was fasting. |
Re: Sex During Fasting As Couple.....wise Or Unwise? by WomanOfRace(f): 11:35am On Dec 03, 2016 |
unwise she didn't discus it with you before embarking on it,wise she didn't have sex with you while fasting. Read Esther when she was married to the king and was fasting. Fasting needs our total self,body,spirit,mind and soul submission to it. Though no one else ought to know we are fasting when we do. Btw God and Individual. |
Re: Sex During Fasting As Couple.....wise Or Unwise? by sunvick(m): 9:31pm On Dec 03, 2016 |
Seriously!!! Legally married couples should not have sex because they are fasting Like what is the relationship between couple fufiling their marriage vows and worshiping God Thats Bullshit!!! |
Re: Sex During Fasting As Couple.....wise Or Unwise? by cococandy(f): 6:43am On Dec 04, 2016 |
Is sex between married couples a sin? Why does it have to avoided during fasting? weird things 2 Likes |
Re: Sex During Fasting As Couple.....wise Or Unwise? by dyabman(m): 6:47am On Dec 04, 2016 |
cococandy: You minding Africans ? 1 Like |
Re: Sex During Fasting As Couple.....wise Or Unwise? by Nobody: 9:33am On Dec 04, 2016 |
I thought sex is acceptable in marriage, why is it now a sin during fasting? |
Re: Sex During Fasting As Couple.....wise Or Unwise? by Florblu(f): 12:21pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
Having sex during fasting is unwise not because it is a sin but because it allows you to fully dedicate yourself to God and also for concentration |
Re: Sex During Fasting As Couple.....wise Or Unwise? by nnamdibig(m): 1:12pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
Having sex during fasting in marriage is now unwise but not sin.........I don hear another one. What is unwise about it? Let's look at this, if a couple is asking for fruit of the womb & they are fasting & praying about it, so it's now unwise to have sex while they fast? . Ajambene 2 Likes |
Re: Sex During Fasting As Couple.....wise Or Unwise? by chriskosherbal(m): 3:08pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
alfredo4u:Good day sir, first of all, Fasting is abstinence from food. It does not also imply staying away from sex. At certain levels of fasting however, you may want to abstain from sex to help you concentrate. Having sex does not make you unclean or unholy. The marriage bed is undefiled. Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled..... Hebrews 13:4 If you decide to abstain from sex during fasting, you must BOTH decide to do so for a definite period. Also decide (together) when you will resume your normal “activities”. This is the meaning of “except it be with consent. Thanks sir Goodluck https://www.nairaland.com/3476612/having-manhood-challenges-come-see#51220774 |
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