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I Need Advise Please by juola(f): 6:36am On Dec 07, 2016 |
Good morning, please I need your advise, matured ones. I met my boyfriend early this year and before we started dating I asked him for his genotype which he told me was AA. But few weeks ago, we went for genotype test and found out that we were both AS. we tried four other places and it was still the same thing. My boyfriend is of the opinion that we continue with the relationship and go for PGD(Pre Implantation genetic diagnosis) but I am not convinced. I had been a victim of heartbreak several times and this guy seems to be the best man I have ever met. please advise me. no insult please. I just find it hard to end the relationship |
Re: I Need Advise Please by klassykute(m): 6:43am On Dec 07, 2016 |
do u know what SS is? ....cnt tell u to end d relationship but if u got a kid who is SS .ur husband might leave u . if hz nt strong.... in case ur not clear am saying A STITCH IN TIME SAVES 9 3 Likes |
Re: I Need Advise Please by Hazardd(m): 6:44am On Dec 07, 2016 |
For the sake of your unborn children..i will advice you to terminate that relationship and the love u have for him and move on because u too ate not compatible... I can sense how desperate you are to get married.. Next patient pls 1 Like |
Re: I Need Advise Please by okirewaju(f): 7:22am On Dec 07, 2016 |
Pls move on Implantation bla bla indeed. Talk is cheap When you enter marriage you will understand. Move on abeg!!! 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Advise Please by thorpido(m): 7:58am On Dec 07, 2016 |
juola:You will still suffer heartbreak again when you have to deal with an SS child. 4 Likes |
Re: I Need Advise Please by austine4real(m): 8:02am On Dec 07, 2016 |
u beta run my sister b4 it's too late |
Re: I Need Advise Please by Nobody: 8:34am On Dec 07, 2016 |
Dear OP, I quite honestly understand your fears and reserve. Strong bonds ain't easy to come across in this generation. Having said that, there is no better choice than to exit the relationship as the trauma ahead can only better be imagined. The only condition I will encourage you stay put and enjoy your relationship and marriage in the future to your man is if he has the financial muscles for a "Pre Implantation genetic diagnosis". The answer to this question is one only you is privy of and must be honest with yourself. I don't like it though when man play God but hey! "Things we do for love" I wish the very best. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Advise Please by Nobody: 2:40pm On Dec 07, 2016 |
Your SS kids will place a curse on you for allowing them come to this world when you knew of the risks involved. What you see now as love will become misery. A guy i know said the only reason he doesn't hate his parents was because he was born in the era of ignorance. Don't try it. Be guided!!! 4 Likes |
Re: I Need Advise Please by ElsonMorali: 8:57pm On Dec 07, 2016 |
Eventually, you will have to sit down and ask yourself, will you be able to watch your child go through so much pain and agony of sickle cell? 3 Likes |
Re: I Need Advise Please by Yinkaolola: 8:14pm On May 26, 2023 |
juola: Hi, Did you go ahead with it? I’m in this same shoes. Thank you |
Re: I Need Advise Please by Kobojunkie: 8:20pm On May 26, 2023 |
juola:According to Google, PGD is legit. This is my first time reading this. https://www.ucsfhealth.org/treatments/pre-implantation-genetic-diagnosis |
Re: I Need Advise Please by Divoc19(f): 11:30pm On May 26, 2023 |
No heart break is worse than having a sickle cell child or children.. You are lucky you checked now. Mine told me he was AA turned AS after 3kids 1 Like |
Re: I Need Advise Please by Kobojunkie: 11:33pm On May 26, 2023 |
Divoc19:OH NO!! |
Re: I Need Advise Please by Divoc19(f): 11:39pm On May 26, 2023 |
Oh yes. I lost my 2nd to SS. Kobojunkie: |
Re: I Need Advise Please by Kobojunkie: 11:48pm On May 26, 2023 |
Divoc19:Was he an illiterate or what, I mean your ex? I mean why would he think it OK to lie about such things? 1 Like |
Re: I Need Advise Please by Cutehector(m): 7:45am On May 27, 2023 |
I dont understand people of this age really. |
Re: I Need Advise Please by Hamachi(f): 12:30pm On May 27, 2023 |
juola:Quit the relationship ASAP. Killing the feeling by deleting every memorable times and pictures of you because if you eventually enter it game over |
Re: I Need Advise Please by Acidosis(m): 6:40pm On May 27, 2023 |
His suggestion is valid but ensure you're financially loaded before you proceed. PGD does not come cheap. You need about 8 million and cost of IVF/embryo freezing (another million+ per cycle). For every failed cycle, you may repeat the cost (especially when you do not produce enough viable eggs or high quality embryo) again and again until it works. Do you still want to proceed? If you guys do not have say 20 million spare/small chop money somewhere, I would suggest you rethink your steps. Another option is to proceed anyway because of the love you both share and embrace adoption. Ahah, na old thread sef |
Re: I Need Advise Please by felong(m): 7:46pm On May 27, 2023 |
juola:So did you guys later married each other? |
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