Gender equality is like a log being tried to balance on a pin - the best description of how our society treats ladies compare to men. Gender equality appears as battle with no 'very soon' possibility of winning. It makes me sad when I hear the female being referred to as 'the endangered specie'.
Our society taught us that men are stronger, wiser and helpful, not because of any obvious reason(s) but because of beliefs like women are too emotional and less rational. And the same society has forgotten that the reason why a man is less emotional is because he was made to believe such. As a man, he shouldn’t cry and show emotions, he is expected to carry all the weight and forge ahead like nothing is happening, and this does nothing but build up frustration in a man, because, piling up issues doesn’t help. At the end of the day, the women are more emotional because they let their feelings out the moment they get them.
Should we go down to gender difference? A woman goes through monthly pain during her menstrual period, experiences serious pain during child birth and still comes out bouncing and refreshed (men don’t have to go through this) they only worry about getting a career and good pay to house a wife and father children. So if you are not going to respect a woman for her brain and beauty, how about her role in your life as a mother, wife and a shoulder to lean on after long days of work; and the children's ultimate teacher. Why do you think majority of children always feel closer their mother? Because that is the constant figure in their lives, and this shouldn’t be overlooked.

Females are not weaker assets, but this can’t be proven if we don’t teach our ladies to stop looking down on themselves. The society has created an idea of ladies been weaker, but if you look at yourself beyond what the society says, then that will be the first step in proving them wrong.
It is so spurious and disheartening that even in this 21st century, there are still some ladies who think marriage is all there is to life, they are going to school just to satisfy their parents and at the back of their mind they are waiting for that rich man to descend from heaven and marry them. It is so wonderful to be addressed as Mrs. Badmus the wife of Ondo state governor, but I think it would have been more wonderful to be addressed as Mrs. Badmus the wife of Ondo state governor, the owner and managing director of a very big company instead of hiding and burying our talent and capability under a man’s fame or post.





Why would you go to school, grow up in this competitive society and wish to be nothing more than someone’s wife? That is why most ladies get disrespected. Why would you expect him to treat you well if all you do is sit at home like a piece of furniture; you don’t work or bring anything to the table and you want him to treat you like a queen? You should know you would be treated like that piece of furniture. In fact , furnitures are treated more nicely than some ladies, because you can’t start using furnitures or turn then to your own without paying for it, and probably after paying for it you would know how to maintain it well. But it is otherwise in most ladies case because even before the guy propose to them or pay their bride price, they've already started living a couples life in school, helping the guy with all his house chores and satisfying him regularly with sex. This is so absurd and annoying, ladies should please stop it.
Hmmmm! Someone is misquoting me out there already, I never said having a boyfriend in school is bad , but at least set your values and standard, let him know your worth and don’t let the relationship affect your education and career.
Your parents are not sending you to school just to have fun and steals a man’s surname. If that was all they wanted for you they won’t be going through the troubles to make sure you get an education. Don’t let their dreams for you be nothing but mere dreams because they deserves more than that.
In as much as you are aspiring to be a wife, aspire to get a career, bring home something and contribute to your marriage, don’t just be a sex machine and child producing factory.
Depending on a man is old fashioned, join the new era where women are powerful and self-sustaining.

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