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. by lajoshua: 7:55pm On Dec 29, 2016
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Re: . by lajoshua: 7:56pm On Dec 29, 2016
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Re: . by Rapsowdee01(m): 8:01pm On Dec 29, 2016
What course are you studying ? and what school ?
Re: . by lajoshua: 8:05pm On Dec 29, 2016
Rapsowdee01:
What course are you studying ? and what school ?
Re: . by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 8:13pm On Dec 29, 2016
stop watching po*n get yourself a gf.
start taking responsibilities.
no dey lock yourself inside room.
come out of the house and enjoy the sunlight appreciate life.
Re: . by speedyconnect3: 8:14pm On Dec 29, 2016
its normal. he will be okay
Re: . by thorpido(m): 8:15pm On Dec 29, 2016
You won't be the first to have many carry overs.It's a good thing you have cut off from many things.it will help you focus more on your studies.
Prepare yourself for the coming semester.Get close to very serious students so they can motivate and help you.
Challenges are meant to strengthen you.Winners don't quit and quitters don't win!

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Re: . by Mimzyy(f): 8:19pm On Dec 29, 2016
In addition to what thorpido has said, if there's a guidance and counselling unit in your school, you should please visit and request to see a counsellor. Stay focused, what doesn't kill you will only make you stronger.

If you can also get this book "Tough times never last" . I don't think it's more than 1k, pls get it.

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Re: . by Rapsowdee01(m): 8:19pm On Dec 29, 2016
lajoshua:

Thank you but I really wouldn't want to let out personal Info. But I'll give an hint the course is in faculty of environmental sciences, the school is in on do state and I stay in Lagos



I'd advice you just go back and finish up...... SUICIDE isn't an option
Re: . by Richy4(m): 8:33pm On Dec 29, 2016
He is a drama queen....Have you ever seen someone that was searching on Google on the easiest way to die? ....so he has never heard of an overdose? Is motorway far away from where he is living...Don't they have rail tracks in Lagos?...

Tell him that before his departure, he should remember to payback all the money spent on his education all these years..From primary>>Secondary>> to tertiary level...No kobo must be short......If he can't pay, then he has to complete what he started which was his education....

I wish I could see this your friend and tell him what I thought of him..what an arrant nonsense.. sad
Re: . by slimthugchimee(m): 8:35pm On Dec 29, 2016
hes an idlot
Re: . by Berbierklaus(f): 8:52pm On Dec 29, 2016
I can totally relate to what your friend is going through OP,seeing people you all started together doing better than you can be so depressing but I have come to realize that life is like a high way, and we are all cars with different makes on it,some cars are trucks, some are trailers,some are range and so on and so forth,all these cars don't move at the same pace,some cars get faulty on the road,some have different degrees of accident,thereby slowing down their journey,but they will surely get to their destination if they get fixed and keep moving.
My point is that your friend needs to keep moving.
A lot of people also had a little educational delay,but they made good use of the delay,learnt some skills,made money, and are even better off than their mates whose education was not delayed.
Another angle I want you to see is that higher education does not equal financial success.
Please try and encourage your friend to dust up himself and keep pushing till he gets there,he should get something doing to make some money,it will take his mind off his present state

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Re: . by Nobody: 8:57pm On Dec 29, 2016
God is good. I once suffered shit like this though no carry over or sex tins but pornography master.

This was how I got out of it...
In prayers, I talked to Jesus about everything. I mean everything and letting him know I just can't stop but I truly want to.
That he should do that which him alone can do about it.
Right now, I live to the glory of God about that aspect of my life.

All the best man!

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Re: . by Nobody: 9:01pm On Dec 29, 2016
Berbierklaus:
I can totally relate to what your friend is going through OP,seeing people you all started together doing better than you can be so depressing but I have come to realize that life is like a high way, and we are all cars with different makes on it,some cars are trucks, some are trailers,some are range and so on and so forth,all these cars don't move at the same pace,some cars get faulty on the road,some have different degrees of accident,thereby slowing down their journey,but they will surely get to their destination if they get fixed and keep moving.
My point is that your friend needs to keep moving.
A lot of people also had a little educational delay,but they made good use of the delay,learnt some skills,made money, and are even better off than their mates whose education was not delayed.
Another angle I want you to see is that higher education does not equal financial success.
Please try and encourage your friend to dust up himself and keep pushing till he gets there,he should get something doing to make some money,it will take his mind off his present state
Am d first to like ur comment.
U spoke awesomely. Good one there
Re: . by Berbierklaus(f): 9:14pm On Dec 29, 2016
ozohtony:

Am d first to like ur comment.
U spoke awesomely. Good one there
Thanks dear smiley
I've been in his shoes too and know how I feel,but my mum's words (the illustration about cars i gave) always come to me anytime I feel depressed(God rest her soul)
Re: . by Nobody: 9:20pm On Dec 29, 2016
Berbierklaus:

Thanks dear smiley
I've been in his shoes too and know how I feel,but my mum's words (the illustration about cars i gave) always come to me anytime I feel depressed(God rest her soul)
.....Amen!
Re: . by onlyme07(m): 9:46pm On Dec 29, 2016
This was my fb post 2014 when I found myself in his shoes.

I dressed up to go out this morning, I am once again reminded of how personal and private this race called life is. I get into my car, drove out, and joined the road where other cars are already travelling on.

Lesson number 1:
We don't all have the same entry point into life. As I keep driving, I pass some other cars, while other cars would
pass me.

Lesson number 2:
We won't travel through life at the same speed because each car is built differently. As I moved on, I catch myself trying to pursue another car in front of me, only to discover that, just as I am about to pass it, it turns off the road into another road.

Lesson number 3:
We don't all have the same exit point. We are all on this journey called life. We will enter at different points and exit at different points, but one thing is clear: we will all exit this road at one point in time or the other. It may be 10km run God has given you, or it could be 100kms; what is important is that you run your race well.
Your car has sides view mirror and a rear-viewmirror.

You use both to see the sides and the back of your car respectively. Other cars will be behind you, while others may be beside you for a while.

But you know how dangerous it is to spend time looking at these mirrors; they will distract you. That is why your car has got a large windshield screen in front of you. It gives you the biggest view of the potential in front of you and the resources you are yet to attain.

Don't spend precious time looking at your back to see those who are pursuing you, or looking at your side to see those who are trying to overtake you. Keep your eyes in front of you and stay true to your race. When it is time to exit the road, you would know that you have run your race well and end well.

I humbly pray God to bless and help you as you run this race called LIFE. Stay focused and be REAL.


Today,I am a corper. All my siblings graduated and served before me despite being the eldest. I had to wait for my turn bro.

Let him read the post,digest and face life.

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Re: . by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 11:17pm On Dec 29, 2016
Berbierklaus:
I can totally relate to what your friend is going through OP,seeing people you all started together doing better than you can be so depressing but I have come to realize that life is like a high way, and we are all cars with different makes on it,some cars are trucks, some are trailers,some are range and so on and so forth,all these cars don't move at the same pace,some cars get faulty on the road,some have different degrees of accident,thereby slowing down their journey,but they will surely get to their destination if they get fixed and keep moving.
My point is that your friend needs to keep moving.
A lot of people also had a little educational delay,but they made good use of the delay,learnt some skills,made money, and are even better off than their mates whose education was not delayed.
Another angle I want you to see is that higher education does not equal financial success.
Please try and encourage your friend to dust up himself and keep pushing till he gets there,he should get something doing to make some money,it will take his mind off his present state
bless you sis!

op come o...a word they say is enough for the wise!

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