MY FATHER'S ADVICE TO ME WHEN I WAS SEARCHING
FOR A WIFE... WOW

#By Jerry John Rawlings The Former Ghana President

My son, I will be very raw and sincere with you.
Do not worry about the size of a woman buttock
or breast but worry about the size of her heart
and brain. Worry about the size of her love and
endurance. Because after 5 or 10 years, it will not
be about the breast or buttock.


As you can see, your mum now has a flat chest
and almost flat buttock but we still live together
happily, I still love her and she still love me.
Be careful of a woman that loves money. I mean
the woman that talks ‘every time’ about her hair,
cloths, shoes, bags panties and make-ups.


Marriage is not all about these things. Without
make-up, cloths, shoes and panties a good
marriage will still stand but without love, no
marriage can stand.


When I got married to your mum, I didn’t have a
car or house of my own. I was not even
educated. But I had dreams and she appreciate
and support me. Any woman that does not
support your dream is not worth thinking-a-
minute about. There are women that will see your
dreams better than you, you are lucky if you find
one.


My son, open your ears very well, there is a kind
of woman you should avoid, do not make a
mistake to marry this kind of woman or you will
regret it. I mean a woman that always has bad
things to say about everyone. If you see this kind
of woman, run away.


One of the worst kind of woman you can marry is
the one that complains about everything. If you
buy this, she says you should have bought that, if
you do this, she said you should have done that.
Please stay away!


Most women enjoy talking but the one who talks
for two hours and listen for two minutes is a
potential ‘bomb’. Be wise
Be very careful of a pretending partner.


A pretending woman is not hard to know. She will
always know everything about everything, she will
be careful. Just close your eyes and open your
Heart and you will see!


No woman is perfect. If you see a woman who
believes in your dream , who respects you who is
committed and who is not all about herself alone
then don’t let her go.


But remember, you must not be a wayward man.
I have trained you!
If you find a good woman but you are a bad man,
you wont have a good marriage!



I won’t pick a wife for you but I have given you
my advice. When you find her, bring her for my
blessings.


May you find a woman that will increase you not
decrease you..

I wish all men would read this before taking the next step

Cc. Lalasticlala Mydn44

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A fatherly advice indeed!!?


Unfortunately, what many young men of today watch out for in women are, size of the butt and boob as well as the external beauty. No wonder, there is so many cases of divorce nowadays.






May God help our men and women planning and preparing for marriage and give them divine wisdom to discern.

Great post, but where are they? Who can find a virtuous woman? It's a wearying search.