The best trained kids are the ones trained by the tag team of Dad and Mum... That's why two heads are better than one... So as young lads and ladies, please let’s give 100% to training our kids alongside our spouses for the #FUTURE.
Dad I understand your busy schedule, your travelling, your meetings, etc. All those cannot be equated with good character your children will possess from your surveillance on them. That's why your children will end up complaining that you lack care, and praise their mother more than you because they feels you care more about your business than them while their mum cares more about them and it will make your children see you as a stranger and mistake the great impact you want to drop in their future as a mirage. And even at their old age they will love their mum than you because of the constant relationship between them and their mum have strengthened their love for her. Am not saying is wrong for your children to love their mum, but it should be equal between you two and your actions can help sort things out. I hear some Men say my sons will never learn how to cook or help in kitchen chores but to me all that are trash. Times have passed when men treat their wives like piece of shit or rags. Share knowledge and principles to them so that they can use them to help family members how to grow and develop. Teach your sons how to respect, help, treat and love their future spouses with your actions and advices. Our women are humans and deserve to be respected. So let the sons learn how to cook, wash plates, wash their wives cloths including their panties and bras, dress the beds, because a home built with humility and respect is a solid as rocks. Then the blessings of a good man (you) will last till your fourth generation. Teach them that they should see their wives as soul mates, and help them to invest for the success of the home. Teach them reasons why they work hard and not cheat on their wives, the way you want your daughter in-laws to be to you teach it to your daughters. Teach them to be part to help establish faith in God and belief in principles of accountability to Him.
Now Mum we understand you've been trying, please don't relent in your good works, but there is still plenty to be done. Our society can't get better without your help to us, your children. The current children are exposed into technology am not saying is bad, but there are vital things they should do with the technology experience they've gotten and not fraud, dating, watching of porn, and jamborees. They can invest online, have online markets, develop apps and not nuisance to the society like; thieves, prostitutes, fraudsters, etc. More also teach your sons how to respect their wives and in-laws, teach them how to cook delicious meals for their wives. Build that type of man you want your daughters to marry in your sons. Help us teach your daughters how to respect and submit to their husbands. Let them see their husband as their lords. Teach them when to talk and how to talk to their husbands. Teach them to see and treat their mother in-law like you. Teach them How to manage wealth of their husband and not how to waste them, as men are no good in savings .Teach the m how to be patient in all they do. Teach them Teach them how to be investors and how to support and advice their man. Let them know that everything they owe is subject to interest of the family. Teach them how to see the family they are married to as their new property that never expires for life. Let them be willing to get peed, pooped, and vomited upon.
Mum and Dad teach us your children, how to love our future spouses, please respect our presence and do not quarrel or fight yourselves before us. Please have one on one time with each kid. If you have one child, making sure you have solo time with that child, too. Be their parents, not their friend, for the first 18 years or so. Then you'll be their best friend for the rest of your lives when they hit about 20 and suddenly get what you did for them. It's pretty awesome. Trying to see things from your kid's point of view. Asking their opinion whenever it's possible or appropriate.
SO THAT GOD WILL BLESS OUR #FUTURE.

one on one time with the children, when many parents because of money work on Sundays and close late during week days.
an advise I can give to parents DAT still works is never to stop praying for their children, good mission schools are expensive unless I will advise you put ur children there if u are endowed. Most importantly set your priorities, if both parents are doing hectic jobs, one person must sacrifice even if it means not affording the usual luxuries