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Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by Shittuakeem(m): 3:48pm On Feb 17, 2017 |
If you don't give yourself to Allah you can't understand reasons behind polygamy people talking from Nigeria point of view poverty, money all sort of things meanwhile Allah has perfected his work. I stand to testify that Quran practice is the best way of life. Imagine in western world today even now in Nigeria we have single mothers and more splinters who are ready to commit adultery with married men I guess to curb such immorality in the society polygamy is encouraged 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by Ssthorm(f): 7:55pm On Feb 17, 2017 |
Man or woman..nobody finds it cool sharing dier spouses.... 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by busar(m): 11:15pm On Feb 17, 2017 |
Idrismusty97:You need to go learn more about your religion (Islam) if really you are one though... |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by HayatH(f): 11:49pm On Feb 17, 2017 |
I don't hate it but.... I don't like sharing 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by Nobody: 12:01am On Feb 18, 2017 |
HayatH: Lol but sharing is caring. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by HayatH(f): 12:09am On Feb 18, 2017 |
snapscore: When it comes to hubby.... all mine 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by Dindondin(m): 8:49am On Feb 18, 2017 |
vedaxcool:This is not a debate of a cheating man. The issue of marrying more than one wife is a disadvantage to women that can't have two or more husbands. Islam is one of the religions that permits stylized adultery. The women two v feelings. They desire more than one man but your religion has silenced them. I hope you ll respond like a cultured man. Last Bullet As for all muslim women that enters or support polygamy, you are all enemies of yourselves. |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by Okusi(m): 8:57am On Feb 18, 2017 |
alBHAGDADI: Who is bringing up equality as a guide to have a successful polygamous life? The scripture says JUSTICE. No where is it made compulsory for a muslim to marry more than one but its recommended if you are up to the task and follow strictly the rules guiding it. No religious book emphasized on one wife one husband! |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by Origin(f): 9:02am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Man is by nature not prone to sharing. Even a man does not want to share his wife... Everyone would prefer to be one man one wife. But if you put yourself in the shoes of the additional wives you might not totally discredit polygamy. Besides polygamy is not a muslim thing. It's a Godly thing. Since time immemorial. |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by Nobody: 9:16am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Origin: This was one of the first reasons I had a rethink about polygamy. |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by alBHAGDADI: 10:15am On Feb 18, 2017 |
Okusi:You can never be up to the task regardless of how rich or well behaved you are. Father Abraham faced a lot of huge problems living a polygamous life. His wives kept quarreling. Ishmael, the product of his decision to go into polygamy is still causing huge problems in the world today with muslims (his descendants) going about terrorizing the rest of mankind and are hell bent on killing the offspring of Isaac his half brother. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by Nobody: 5:34pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
BismiLLAH. I am Hamidah bint Abbas. my moniker is 9geria. I write on matters arising in polygyny, like: Is it advisable for the first and second wife to live together? ; should a man that is not capable of fulfilling the sexual needs of the first wife take a second wife? https://www.nairaland.com/4112695/polygamy-polygyny-should-live-second |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by TheWebDeveloper(m): 7:25am On Oct 21, 2017 |
Idrismusty97: While you think you're making a point because you're getting a lot of likes..., If truly you are a Muslim, be very careful about what you say or attribute to Almighty Allah. Desist from making impermissible what Allah has not. Whatever your justification. Do not slander the name of Allah whatever your objective. Your attempts at winning an argument may result to your ruin. And you may not have an inkling of this until the day of reckoning. Don't let arrogance fuel your ruin. Know this: "Almighty Allah who created us all knows us all more than we do." Allah, the Most High, is All-wise. Shy away from hypocrisy. Beware Idris Mustapha and all the rest of you. If you will not indulge polygamy, do not condemn it for those that do. That is hypocritical. True, Allah has given every Muslim the faculty of reasoning. Nevertheless, be cautious of portraying yourself as more knowledgeable on matters Allah has already made a ruling an all-wise ruling. Know this also: There are talks of Muslims long dead but whose corpses still remain fresh, tens of years after their deaths. Defying rot, the elements and the natural laws of nature. These individuals practiced polygamy and lived life yet still saw some of the mercies of Allah. Some comments have been taken off after I reported them because they outrightly insulted Islam (mockeries.. something you all missed while striving to prove each other right or wrong). Muslims beware and avoid fanning flame of discussions that attracts non-Muslim to disrespect Allah, the Holy Prophet, the Sunnah and all practising Muslims. But if they do intrude on discussions that they have no understanding of, do not shy away from putting them in their place by standing together to scold them. Or better, report the comments. Try doing that least for Islam, the best of religions. |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by sorextee(m): 7:34pm On Oct 21, 2017 |
Wow. Just wow. I so much love this contribution.. Since I have to swear dat oath so I can comment here, let me just spread My mat here.. alBHAGDADI: |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by sorextee(m): 7:51pm On Oct 21, 2017 |
Never have I seen children from a polygamous home lived in peace with one another. Im not saying this with respect to the Muslims alone. Some Christians are also into polygamy. I dont know how the Quran explained polygamy, either it is written that marry up to four, if u re not satisfied sexually with one. I dnt know. Theres this mallam in my estate, who has four wives hes just a shoe shiner. So far, he has 9 kids. He told me one day that his wish is to have 40 children, if Allah permits him. So I asked him how hes gonna raise them, he told me Allah will provide. Its obvious, these peeps are suffering cos his kids go around, knocking from door to door begging. A friend of mine, from a polygamous home. His half bro felt their dad is giving preferential treatment to d oda wives and kids. His father came back from a journey. D said half asked his dad for money. His didnt give him. Days later, d guy, with the help of his frnds robbed d house. D father recognized him(despite d fact dey were all masked). To cut d story short, he shot his father. Men who are polygamous face more than quadruple the risk of having blocked heart vessels, compared with men married to one woman. not only does polygamy negatively affect the wives, it also has extremely harmful effects on children who were the product of such unions. So many are neglected by their father when he had obtained a new wife. Last last ehn, polygamy Is bad. Im waiting to read here, why polygamy is good, since we are all learning.. |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by lazygal: 9:34am On Oct 29, 2017 |
uboma: How many of those men do not date. Sleep with women outside marriage ?mind u a lot of them areonogamous not by choice but due to the fetish means their wives go to just to ensure they don't or threats Polygamy in this present era its the best the ratio of women to men is more that 1:4 now ..so who will Marty the others If every woman is adamant let them not forget they have or will have daughters ,the might one day be divorcees or widows they might have aging daughters ..now most probably those best bet will be to marry as no 2 0r3 I know of a woman who refused and denied her husband and then the husband died ...she could nt cope and now wanted a married man to Mary her. Cycle of life Polygamy should be perrmitted all over the world |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by lazygal: 9:37am On Oct 29, 2017 |
sorextee: Quite me any where ; IF YOU C POLYGAMY FAIL ,ITS THE FAULT OF THE MAN.HE DID NOIT CARRY HIM DRLF RESPONSIBLY OR WAS WEAK ....ALSO NO FEAR OF GOD OR SELF CONTROL I HAVE SEEN SUCCESSFUL POLYGAMOUS MARRIAGES THE MEN DO NOT ALLOW CHILDREN SLEEP QITH THEIR OWN MOTHER THEY MUST SLEEP WITH OTHER WIVES IF SNY WIFE MAKES ANY STUPID ATTEMPT SHE IS DIVORCED ..THEY SHOW NO PREFERENTUAL TREATMENT OR DONT ALLOW WIFE A or Bro bring talk or report they summon all I have seen steps grow up together as one becasue their father was a Man |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by uboma(m): 11:30am On Oct 29, 2017 |
lazygal: Faulty reasoning. Polygamy should be based on choice and not made mandatory! |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by idreezbaba(m): 3:56pm On Oct 29, 2017 |
sorextee:i dont want to throw insultive words @ you .. you wre just talking without thinking.. how can you say no children from polygamous home can live happily .. all the friends from polygamous home i know are all living happily together .. Allah is always right . Even there is always conflict at monogamous homes too |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by cuteeme: 1:25pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
vedaxcool:You quickly guilt-grip by saying monogamous men cheat, must you degrade men to the level of dogs?, i have peace of mind that am the only wife of my husband, even your so called alhajis still harbour concubines about. Even if he has a girlfriend outside, of which my sweetheart does not, am still not threatened because i still maintain my position as the legal wife and my religion abhors divorce. Its better i have a cheating husband, than hear my husband bonking another woman like myself, in the next room, or shamelessly marrying another to my knowledge, while i cook and share food on the wedding day, after i suffered with him, and now he is rich he now desires to marry another woman in the name of religion?, God knows the reason he didn't make me muslim. inasmuch as men are jealous, no apologies, am also a jealous woman. |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by cuteeme: 1:33pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
alBHAGDADI:Pls loud it, yet its their women that run to use kayan mata on their husbands to get preferential treatment, if truly islam encourages equal attentiin to all wives, why should the women be threatened to use kayan mata is it not voodooism 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by AgentNairaland(f): 6:10pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
Some Comments Here Funny Menhh Muhammad Aishat's Husband Must Hear These |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by IMAliyu(m): 7:04pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
Isn't the answer obvious. Try looking at it from their side. If your culture supported polyandry, how would you like to share your woman with another man or a whole bunch of other men? |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by Xmuslim: 6:50am On Jun 21, 2020 |
The answer is in you. If your religion permits women to marry multiple men, won't you be jealous. By the way, I am not against polygamy provided the wife gives her consent. I think it's double standard in the West for banning polygamy but permit lgbt. Both aren't harmful. Consent is the most important thing. |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by logicboy: 8:10am On Jun 21, 2020 |
Vedaxcool. I remember that guy. Always arguing out of emotion for islam. I wonder if he has more than one wife. Lol |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by Xmuslim: 8:28am On Jun 21, 2020 |
idreezbaba: Allahu akbar . Allah is always right even when his book (Qur'an) go against established scientific fact and contradict common sense. He is always right even when he made women as inferior being 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by Xmuslim: 8:41am On Jun 21, 2020 |
uboma: I agree and I'm against those criminalizing polygamy. Human sexuality should be by choice and mutual agreement between the parties involved 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by vedaxcool(m): 11:09am On Jun 23, 2020 |
[s] logicboy:[/s] Islam gave you purpose. |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by Nobody: 10:07pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
vedaxcool:brother you sounded like the ignoramus here |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by whitelotus: 7:06am On Jul 07, 2020 |
vedaxcool: Ogbeni, practice what you preach. Go and marry two wives. I have rarely seen a peaceful polygamous home. It is rare. The few ones that are peaceful have an air of tension. For instance, the man has to walk on eggshells so that he buys the same things for both wives. If he sends one set of children from one wife abroad, he must send the other wife's children abroad too. |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by whitelotus: 7:06am On Jul 07, 2020 |
Alkhateeb: vedaxcool is usually ignorant |
Re: Why Do Muslim Ladies Hate Polygamy? by uboma(m): 7:45am On Jul 07, 2020 |
Xmuslim: What do you mean in your last sentence? How are women inferior beings? |
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