Some wives find it difficult to understand why their husbands behave the way they do. Some have tried all their best to please their husbands yet frictions still exist. Many have argued that there must be disagreements between husband and wife in marriage as long as the marriage is run by two imperfect beings. I often ask ‘must there always be disagreements or quarrels in marriage if each partner understands what they should do’. Perhaps understanding men unique characteristics will better help wives invigorate their relationships and prevent disagreements and rancor. The husband you didn’t know you married will throw light into this area

Men like to be in control
The first assignment God gave to man in the Garden of Eden was control over every creature. God handed control to the man. Wives should understand that husbands like to be in control of their marriages. They are recognized as the head of the union by the Word of God no matter the condition they find themselves. Does this suggest that the man is always right? The answer is no. Sometimes a wife could be right and the husband wrong but the Word of God says the wife should submit first.

A lady said to me ‘it is not good to allow the man to take the wrong decision that would fail’. I asked the woman ‘which one is better, to fight with the man to agree with you or allow the man without a fight to go ahead with the wrong idea even if he fails’. She was speechless. I told her ‘allow him to go ahead, perhaps when he fails; he would remember you were right after all’. There are situations where the wife is the bread winner because of economic factors but that does not suggest he shouldn’t be recognized as the one in control otherwise it may engender friction, even though he doesn’t say it. One day, he may express it violently.

Men like order
The second assignment God gave to man was to dress and keep the garden. Organization, order, clean environment are the delights of men. They like things to be properly organized but are sometimes unable to fulfill it because of their busy nature. This seems to be where women who are able to put order in a disorderly situation catch the attention of men. A woman said she doesn’t notice any difference in the husband’s attitude when the whole place is well arranged except occasional thank you but whenever they are not in order; she noticed the man starts yelling at everything she does. Whenever things are not in place or are shattered, some men would call the attention of their wives but some don’t and would react immediately. The wife should understand that he is not yelling because he hates her but because things are out of order.

Men like respect
Nothing gladdens a man’s heart than for the wife to honor him in private and in public. It makes the man to have uncontrollable love for the woman. Respect is a sign of submission (Eph 5:22). Lack of respect could be interpreted that the woman is not totally committed and this can be injurious to the relationship. Even though it is not expressed facially doesn’t mean the man is unaware. Wives should understand this. To move your marriage to the next level, it is the wife’s duty to submit to her husband in everything

Men like sex
Sex and man are inseparable no matter how you look at it. Let a wife denies her husband sex for a moment, she won’t believe with her eyes the uncontrollable expression of deep hatred irrespective of the help the woman has done. Even when a woman is weak where we expect men to show understanding, you’ll still find some men unhappy because he couldn’t have sex. The husband understands one thing that it is his right and it must be done. Some husbands are unable to endure the woman’s monthly flow and the moment after child birth. It is a very serious matter and women don’t understand why. You may not understand why, it is how they were made. This is an issue every wife must deal with and bring under control and not neglect. If a wife can satisfy the unquenchable desire of her husband, he will always return to her bosom. Actually, men need self control and integrity to stay sane and maintain focus in those situations. Related: http://marriagespices.com/5-ways-secure-husband-strange-women/

Men like food
There is a Chinese proverb that says ‘the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach’. This assertion may be true because men like food. There may be few men who don’t care about food, but majority of them care. Wives can spice up their marriage by first understanding their husbands’ food preference and secondly preparing it the way he likes it. If both couples are not from the same tribe, the wife as a matter of importance should try to learn the husband’s local delicacies. The man will love the woman more. Even if you are not the one directly preparing the meal, ensure your supervision is not compromised.

Men like companionship
Everyone needs someone to lean on, to trust in moment of pain, grief, bitterness and to celebrate with, in moment of happiness and jubilation. Men are no exception but if that someone is the wife or the husband, you could imagine the strength of that marriage. Some women take this point for granted and thinks as far as she is his wife nothing can happen. Yes, you may be his wife yet he could be far from you or you may even sleep on the same bed yet his heart is somewhere else. A wife can walk her way into her husband’s heart and becomes his companion and confidant if she cares about it. Related The Woman you didn't know you married: http://marriagespices.com/woman-didnt-know-married/

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NEXT= Men like to cheat and still feel they are right even when its wrong to cheat.
NEXT= Men are overly jealous.
NEXT= Men feels its women's responsibility to take care of the kids but which suppose to be vice versa

vice versa ke?

MSpices you write these?
Nice.

I'd like to see what you have for the men.

Men don't like sex!!!

Pls tell us about what women like pls
Marriage is not all about men.
Women like & deserve all that you mentioned.

This op is damn good