Please read my article on finding and keeping true love,another on achieving success in your career and help to making heaven.Please read my article on finding and keeping true love,another on achieving success in your career and help to making heaven.
How to make Heaven.
Jesus said that it is not all those who call him Lord Lord that will make the Kingdom of heaven but those who do the will of the father in heaven. Christians are the ones who call Jesus Lord so it means it is not all Christians who will make heaven but those who do the will of the father in heaven.
The bible says ask and receive-Let’s ask for the grace to do the will of the father as the Bible also says it is God who makes us do his will. Philippians 2:13 -For it is God who is producing in you both the desire and the ability to do what pleases him.
In Jesus name-Heavenly Father, we thank you for your loving kindness and tender mercies. Please grant us the grace to do your will. Amen.
We can also ask for the faith of a mustard seed, and for God to make us humble, hardworking and kind.
How to resist Satan
Satan is an evil Spirit and the head of many demons that tempts us to sin so that we can go to hell and burn forever. Jesus resisted temptation from Satan in the wilderness with the word of God. He said- Man shall not live by bread alone but by every word that comes out of the mouth of God.
You need faith in God word to resist temptation. If you don’t have faith, you can ask and receive faith cause faith come from God
The sword of the Spirit is our weapon against the enemy. Ephesians 6:17- And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God:
We need to resist him with the Word of God and prayer. The whole Bible is the truth that can be used to resist the devil.
Satan tempts us with pride-We resist with the Word of God-Pride goes before destruction
Satan tempts us with fear-We resist with the Word of God-God has not given me a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and a sound mind.
The sword of the Spirit is our weapon against the enemy. Ephesians 6:17- And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God:
We need to resist him with the Word of God and prayer
Satan tempts us with loss of confidence-We sing- I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. I am I am more than a conqueror. Christians songs are from the Word of God so can be used to resist the devil.
Satan tempts us with unforgiveness-We remember the parable of the unforgiving servant..Parables in the bible are also the Sword of the Spirit (part of our battle armour)

And in all temptations we can pray, thank God (In everything give thanks) and praise and worship God.
. The merciful will go to heaven
The bible says Blessed are the merciful for they shall obtain mercy. This means that the merciful shall go to heaven when they die and the wicked shall go to hell. God is angry with the wicked every day.
Jesus gave the example of the Good Samaritan who helped the injured stranger he meet. He said we should Go and do likewise -Be merciful like the Good Samaritan.
Meanwhile the rich man lived in luxury every day and did not help Lazarus the poor beggar with even the food that fell from his table. He was sent to hell and begged for a drop of water.
A pastor wife said we should do acts of mercy. Do you know that little drops of water make a mighty ocean? .If we do at least a kind act a day (a little drop) it would make a mighty ocean of kindness
We must be kind in thought, word and actions to everyone all the time.
Grace to resist being made to sin by other people
Sometimes people like our boss, family and friends can try to make us do something wrong. If we do it, we could go to hell. The Bible says- Hebrews 10:26- If we deliberately go on sinning after we have received the knowledge of the truth, no further sacrifice for sins remains, 27but only a fearful expectation of judgment and raging fire that will consume all adversaries. 28Anyone who rejected the Law of Moses died without mercy on the testimony of two or three witnesses. 29How much more severely do you think one deserves to be punished who has trampled on the Son of God, profaned the blood of the covenant that sanctified him, and insulted the Spirit of grace?.
However, God will forgive you from intentional sin if you repent from intentional sin like he did David when he sinned with Bathsheba. God never changes
What do we do then to not be pushed into sin?.
A christain was told by her boss to do something wrong and though she was worried about losing her job, she told him no and guess what? The boss still kept her and treated her with respect.
I heard a story of another Christian couple who really needed money and the husband went for a job interview but was told he would have to sin on the job if he took the job. He went home and talked to his wife about it and they decided to refuse the job. But the people then said it was only a test and gave him the job
We resist with the Word of God-Daniel was told not to pray but he still prayed and when he was cast into the lion’s den, God saved him.
Also Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego were told to worship the golden image. They said God is able to deliver them but if not, they would still not serve the golden image. God saved them.
Even if we are beaten and killed like Jesus was, we should be happy because the bible says – Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness sake for theirs is the Kingdom of heaven
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HOW TO GET AND KEEP TRUE LOVE
Love gives. God gave his only son to die for us. If someone really loves you, he would give to you. You can ask God to send you the love of your life. Believe and you will receive.
1The person you marry must be a Christian who does God will.
The person must not only be a Christian but he should be a doer of the word (e.g. hardworking, humble and kind).
2 YOURSELF
Before you find true love, work on yourself. You want to be someone you yourself would choose to marry. Are you a doer of the word? Be of good character. Put God first and be a devout Christian.
These are tips to help you win the love and respect of the one you love.You should know that respect is earned so you must be of good character to be respected.
A Be chase-
It is important to girls should keep their bodies pure because you could lose the respect of the man of your dreams if you continue to be promiscuous. And if a guy cannot respect you, he might love you platonically but won’t be in love with you. You can repent if you have been promiscuous and God can help him respect you.
B Keep your body healthy-You want to look nice for the one you love. Eat in moderation and exercise regularly to keep your body attractive. Being fat can lead the one you like to disrespect you.
Care for your skin, teeth, hair and dress decently. Indecent dressing can lead the one you like to disrespect you. But don’t over focus on your appearance.
C Be clean- Keep your entire body and home clean and break all dirty habits. Dirty habits can make the one you love and others disrespect you. You can pray any time you are tempted to break any dirty habit as dirty habits is a temptation from Satan. Use the Sword of the Spirit which is the Word of God against him.
D Work hard-at your job, housework and God’s work. This will make the one you like respect you.
E Also, be well-behaved. Don’t talk too much as being a talkative can lead the one you like to disrespect you.
F. Honesty is the best policy in a relationship. Telling lies can lead to distrust.
G. Let me add this tip. When a guy tells you to do something wrong like have sex or get drunk and you tell him no and reject him of course, he would even respect you more for it. On the other hand giving in would make him disrespect you. This is because people respect those who stick to their values. Sticking to your valves shows you have integrity.
Respect is necessary for someone to fall in love with you and you must continue to do all this if you want him to continue to respect you (meaning he can remain in love with you)
Try to read the bible and do the will of God in every area of your life. If you face any difficulty, pray.
Lastly, don’t make the guy you like the only focus of your life or he would probably run. Put God first and work on your own dreams, hobbies and spend time with friends.
3 Friendship-
Love is friendship. It is best to start a relationship as friends to get to know the person first. Build the friendship slow and steady. Don’t rush
These are ways to give your love.
A Words of appreciation
Always speak kindly to him. If you get angry, you can walk away or pray. Don’t ever say anything mean or harsh. People can remember hurtful words long after and it can ruin a relationship. But don’t be insincere in your compliments because he might notice and it is wrong.
B Attention
You should spend time with him. Pay regular attention to him. Don’t be obsessed with your phone. Listen to him when he talks.
C Gifts
Lots of people like gifts. But you can’t buy love so you don’t need to buy expensive gifts to win his love. He either likes you or he doesn’t.
You can buy him something small like couples tea mugs and it would touch his heart. Or as a sign of love, you can buy him something he really really wants, like a phone or something he really needs (e.g. a Christian book)
D Acts of service
Things like taking a lunch box to his office can win his heart. People in Nigeria say the way to a man heart is through his stomach. Other act of service may be helping him with his work etc

E Physical touch-Touch him like your own brother until married. You can hug and peck your brother, hold hands etc. Sleeping with any man (including the person you like) outside of marriage can lead the one you like to disrespect you.
E A friend in need is a friend indeed.
This means that when the guy you like is in need, you should be there for him in any way you can. This is true love.
If you underwater a flower (the relationship) it dies and if you over water the flower, it dies too. A relationship is like a flower. If you are uncaring, it can die and if you are obsessive it can die too. So, just be a very caring friend.
F Kindness- It is said the way to known a person character is to watch how he treats those beneath him. He could only be pretending to love you. You will be under the person when you marry. If he treats them badly, he could also treat you badly.
You should also listen to what people say about him because in a multitude of counsellors there is safety.

4 Respect

The bible says a wife must respect her husband so you must marry someone you respect. Watch a person character. He has to be a doer of the word. Does he behave like a born again Christian. Avoid sluggard, drunkards and wilful sinners
What is respect? It is to hold someone in high regard. It is putting someone on a pedestal.
His character counts. You have to marry someone with a good character and he has to treat you like a queen. He has to respect you too.
You don’t have to get angry if he make mistakes a lot but if he shows a real sign of disrespect like pushing you away and rejecting you, you should leave or else he won't respect you. Remember the famous saying-if you love someone, let him go, if he doesn't come back, he was never yours.
5 Passion
I read that most people want to marry someone they find attractive so it is important. He must not be conventionally handsome but you should find him attractive.
Also remember that even if you follow this advice, some people are not just that into you. Not everyone is going to fall for you.
Do all this steps to win his heart and continue to do them to sustain true love
Five steps to success
Five steps to success
1 Dreams
Dreams are meant to show you the way.Dream big.It is said that we should not put all our eggs in one basket.You may have a dream to own a mall or write a book of poems.Satan will come to tell that if dreams were horses,even beggars would ride. You resist with- I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me,I am more than a conqueror.
2. Plan
It is said to be important to write your plan.it had been noted that more of those who write their plan
succeed.Divide your day into different parts-a time for
devotion,a time to work(maybe eight hours at the mall and a hour on your book of poems) and a time to sleep.Do your most important tasks first eg devotion.There is a time for everything.
It is said that little drops of water make a
mighty ocean.The effort you put in each day is the little drop.Each little drop counts. Satan would come in to
trick you to procrastinate just for that day(he can come every day to tell you to procrastinate). You resist him with wisdom-Procrastination is the killer of dreams,procrastination is the thief of time.Dreams people had-of curing cancer or of singing great songs were ruined because of procrastination.

3 Persistance
Persistence lead to success.To persist means to keep trying even after you fall.Don't give up.
If every day you take an axe and hit a tree 5 times,it would eventually fall.
Daniel fasted and prayed for 21 days.Than an angel came. You should persist in prayer too.
Satan tell you to give uo.Resist him with-Fighting.This is because we are fighting against demons.

4 Pursue excellence and success would run after you.
If you shoot an arrow without taking aim,all the arrows would fall to the ground.So,use your intelligence.
Let's say I want to grow a flower.I would learn the best soil the flower needs and all the necessary information to take care of the flower like how not to over-water and under water the flower.Put in your best effort but don't over do it.
Satan would try to tell you not to pursue excellence-Resist him-The bible says that whatever work your hand sees to do,you should do it with all your might.This includes using your intelligence and following your instincts. Practice makes perfect.People learn better by doing not reading.
5 Consistency-It means to do your duties all the time.Let's say you write a great book of poems this year.To be consistent,every year till you retire or die,you dream,plan,persist,and pursue excellence to write another great book of poems.
It means you don't just succeed this year and rest on your laurels (be satisfied with past achievements and cease to pursue future achievements). You have to continue to succeed over and over again.
Satan would try to tempt you to be inconsistent-You resist him with prayer.
Also for making heaven, You can dream of making heaven, plan to do God’s will, persist in following Jesus, pursue excellence by hearing God’s word and being consistent( no more backsliding)