I was in a tricycle on my way home some days ago and these two young girls entered, there were lessons I got from one of them which happened to be the youngest that it’s unfortunately scarce even in the older female.

Immediately she entered, she greeted and started playing; now that's character. It is not scarce to see ladies who cannot greet their fellow let alone older ones, some won't even answer when you greet them, pride is what I call it!

Greetings does not belittle anyone, no it doesn't instead it makes you earn respect and honour. Your way of communicating with people will provide an insight into your character, how well does this speak about you? I am not saying you should greet unnecessarily please do not get me wrong, don’t forget that wisdom is profitable to direct.

Here's the second lesson. There was a gentle breeze blowing her flared dress and she pulled it back continually to cover up, she realized some parts of her body needs to be guarded and not for public view. I had to help her adjust it well so she wouldn’t have to be pulling it and she said thank you, another character trait, knowing how to say thank you.

Learn to appreciate even the smallest thing people do for you, it speaks a lot about your personality.

I saw ladies wearing skirts that cannot be called miniskirt, it is way too short and unfortunately also a body con and the annoying thing is that some will even be trying to pull it down when they walk, then I ask the question; is it that she did not know the skirt was short before wearing it from home?

Where is fashion taking our sisters too for God's sake? It is now so fashionable to reveal every part of the body as an adult even a young girl tries to guard hers, should we then say, such girl is wiser?

I was ashamed and moved to tears seeing the way some men look at these ladies in their indecent dressing, it is embarrassing to the womanhood.

A beautiful lady is well-dressed, she knows how to select modest clothing, well fitting – not buying a teenager dress as an adult and that's within her budget – you do not need to be expensive, you only need to be creative within your budget, and perfect for the occasion.

She is well-groomed – no foul languages, gentle in words and action 1 Pet.3:4 (gentle but not stupid please), practices good hygiene – use deodorant, perfumes, good cream, powder and so on in all modesty, and maintains her health – not only the outward but underneath the clothes, your undies and private parts.

She understands that her personal appearance, the way she chooses to dress, groom, and carry herself communicates instantly to others who she is and understands true beauty is first inward before it's decently seen outward.

Let me add this tip here, a lady should have in her bag a shower cap, an umbrella and a scarf. They are important, a scarf to hold your hair because of breeze and you know the need for an umbrella and a shower cap.

Don’t start looking for nylon to cover your hair because of rain, let your powder be moderate and not looking like baked face, permit me to say it that way. It takes a lot to be a woman and especially a good one at that. I will round up with this quote which I saw somewhere and edited, “Being female is a matter of birth, being a woman is a matter of age, but being a good lady is a matter of choice.” Make a good choice now!

Nice advice but you have to understand that you can't judge a book by it's cover, that's how people get scammed.
In my own opinion, it's immature to judge a lady by how she dresses and speaks.

I've met people who are not what people think they are when you get closer to them, the main point should be, do what makes you happy and comfortable. Not to please others or conform to societal standards which are all hypocritical in my own opinion.

Life is free, Life is enjoyable, society places us in chains.

Live - Don't Judge - Peace

FellepHq:
Nice advice but you have to understand that you can't judge a book by it's cover, that's how people get scammed.
In my own opinion, it's immature to judge a lady by how she dresses and speaks.

I've met people who are not what people think they are when you get closer to them, the main point should be, do what makes you happy and comfortable. Not to please others or conform to societal standards which are all hypocritical in my own opinion.

Life is free, Life is enjoyable, society places us in chains.

Live - Don't Judge - Peace

For we Xtains, we don't live to enjoy.
We live to please and serve our Master!
Our freedom is in righteous living, our dominion is over sin.

FellepHq:
Nice advice but you have to understand that you can't judge a book by it's cover, that's how people get scammed.
In my own opinion, it's immature to judge a lady by how she dresses and speaks.

I've met people who are not what people think they are when you get closer to them, the main point should be, do what makes you happy and comfortable. Not to please others or conform to societal standards which are all hypocritical in my own opinion.

Life is free, Life is enjoyable, society places us in chains.

Live - Don't Judge - Peace

My dear Sister In Christ, I can't say more.
May God reward you.
You have pointed the right way to go!!

She's not judging but just saying the truth.
Who even started this "Do not judge a book by its cover" bullshit! You mean if I see a book with pornographic pictures on the cover I should go ahead and buy it expecting to see "Principles of thermodynamics" inside?

FellepHq:
Nice advice but you have to understand that you can't judge a book by it's cover, that's how people get scammed.
In my own opinion, it's immature to judge a lady by how she dresses and speaks.

I've met people who are not what people think they are when you get closer to them, the main point should be, do what makes you happy and comfortable. Not to please others or conform to societal standards which are all hypocritical in my own opinion.

Life is free, Life is enjoyable, society places us in chains.

Live - Don't Judge - Peace