good morning nairalanders,
I urgently needs your advice on how I can cope with 50k salary,I am use to spending lavishly, I have a girlfriend I got job for in the same place I work,I do give her 500 for feeding everyday,and so many time I give her money to buy things for herself, in a week the salary is gone,this has gotten me worried on how I could help myself out of this,though no one knows what I am passing through but I am dying silently. I need your candid advice on how I could achieve something with the amount I earn as salary nd how I could manage the girl also which would not affect my own welfare

Think and ask God for direction

She works yet you feed her daily? Nawa for you jor. You need to cut your expenses, start saving and if there's no big future in that job look for other jobs on the side

Op....
You don't need an advice because you already know what to do.
Do it and save the prospective pity feeling you desire

kacchy:
Op....
You don't need an advice because you already know what to do.
Do it and save the prospective pity feeling you desire

I concur. That thing that your mind is telling you right now is the *Truth* follow it. Nothing much to say, you have got her a job now so you know the needful to do as an alpha male

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Decipline is all u need if u can stick to dis rules:
-play account=10%: for ur own pleasure.
-financial freedom account=10%:strictly for investing.
-necessities account=50%: for all u need to live smoothly.
-long term savings=20%: for future nd urgent expenses.
-give account=10%: to support people arround u financially.
Good luck.