How Pastors Can Avoid Apostle Suleman’s And Stephanie Otobo’s Scandal

Let me start by saying that I doff my cap for all men of God who have been standing in the Lord’s Vineyard preaching the gospel without blemish and the same time; I also salute men of God who have found themselves in the murky water of scandal; though wounded but not buried as you are coming out stronger and better with lots of lessons for others to learn. How Pastors Can Avoid Apostle Suleman’s And Stephanie Otobo’s Scandal

The work of a pastor is not an easy one; it comes with its own hazards as well. A man of God must have been full of great works with massive impacts for over thirty years which may endear a lot of people to him but he can lose everything within few minutes when his scandal hit the headlines of print, electronics, and social media. This clearly explains the scandal of Apostle Suleman and Stephanie Otobo. This is one story too many as it evolves from different angles daily for past one week. Whether he is innocent or guilty is not what we are talking about but how to prevent the recurring of such among the men of God.



1.Have rule and stick To It– There is always a rule guiding every successful life. If you are living your life as a pastor without a strict rule; you will soon be over rule in ministry. Some of the rule you must have is not to allow anyone take away your personal time with God in constant prayers and study of the Bible. Solid relationship with the Holy Spirit will not give room to the flesh to express itself. Another rule you must stick to is never to counsel a woman alone in a closed office. Also don’t employ a female secretary. Many great men of God have soil their garments with unholy affairs they never planned for. Some due to ignorance of this facts and others through Pentecostal pride saying ‘’nothing will happen’’. Breaking this rule has swallowed many great men of God in history, don’t permit your name in its log book. How Pastors Can Avoid Apostle Suleman’s And Stephanie Otobo’s Scandal


2.Avoid Living Separately From Your Wife– If you must be scandal free, avoid living separately. No reason is good enough for a Pastor to be living alone in a 3 bedroom flat of a duplex. Unfortunately, there are lots of Pastors today living in different towns and country away from their wives. Such Men may have reasons like ‘I want to grow this new branch while my wife Pastors our mother Church’. This system has left a vacuum which may be filled by any church member; be it single or married. Any of your domestic staff can also seduce you. Even if there is nothing of such, but your neighbours can start the rumour which may get to the media. Don’t permit expansion in ministry to bring suspension to your wife in your life. Stay together



3.Don’t Break Ministerial Ethics: There are ministerial ethics you must not break if you don’t want your image to be tainted. It’s unethical for pastors to be hugging a female member, going to a female’s room to pray alone or holding a vigil with her. It is wrong for a Pastor to hang out in an eatery or go on vacation with a female member. It’s also wrong for a Pastor to hold a counseling session in a hotel room with a female. If you are a guest Minister as a Pastor, always avoid a female in your entourage whenever your wife is not there. Breaking these ministerial ethics will easily lead to your downfall.



4.Be Sincere with Yourself About Your Weak-points: Somebody once said, your weak points as an unbeliever is what will become your point trap as Christian. Many at times, we all know our weak points but not owning up to the fact that it is the major problem. Never ignore your weak point. If women and sex are your weakness, shield yourself away from its danger zones. Be sincere to yourself.



5.Have A Solid Relationship With Your Wife-One of the major antidotes to a scandal is to have a solid relationship with your wife. Build intimacy with your wife and let everyone know that you are in love with your wife. Don’t just love her secretly, show it. Make her your confidant. Tell her if you struggling with lust towards any opposite sex and pray together on it. Living a cat and mouse lifestyle with your wife will expose you quickly to the evil wind of sexual scandal. How Pastors Can Avoid Apostle Suleman’s And Stephanie Otobo’s Scandal


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Insightful!

The only way is not to sleep with her.

Cut their dicks off

Men of god have always been known to go after the poozy or the yansh of little boys

Even Jehovah enjoys watching porn

True talk! We also have to pray for them because the devil never gets tired of trying to pull down MOG and members from serving the most high. One thing I know is that the gate of hell shall not prevail.

#ISTANDWITHJESUS4EVER

10, Quit pastoral duty if you were never called because you must surely be put to shame on earth or/and in heaven.

Shedied:
10, Quit pastoral duty if you were never called because you must surely be put to shame on earth or/and in heaven.

Even Jesus disciples were put to "shame" on earth.
That's not an indicator.

felixomor:


Even Jesus disciples were put to "shame" on earth.
That's not an indicator.

I made my post in context. Being put to shame for misleading people and lying in God's name is different from suffering for Christ.

Don't in an attempt to cover evil make mockery of the truth. The repercussions are grevious.

Shedied:
I made my post in context. Being put to shame for misleading people and lying in God's name is different from suffering for Christ.

Don't in an attempt to cover evil make mockery of the truth. The repercussions are grevious.

If u have read your bible u will actually know that even Jesus was Accused of "misleading" people......

Just as u have written up there........

felixomor:


If u have read your bible u will actually know that even Jesus was Accused of "misleading" people......

Just as u have written up there........

Everyone with a pure heart, understands what I've said.

I'll have to be full of deceit to see white and call it black or see truth and fault it. Bye Felicia.

Shedied:
Everyone with a pure heart, understands what I've said.

I'll have to be full of deceit to see white and call it black or see truth and fault it. Bye Felicia.

Shalom