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My Advise To Patents by michiyke2003(m): 5:48pm On Apr 04, 2017 |
*FAMILY PORNOGRAPHY DESTROYS KIDS*
*"MY MUM DRESSES UP BEFORE ME"!*
I counselled a young guy who was addicted to
masturbation. He told me he can't do without
masturbation.
One thing that struck me in his confession was
when he said:
''My mum caused all this for me''.
Curiosity got hold of me and I asked him, how?
He said:
"I started masturbation since when I was 4 years
old; my mum has always been dressing up naked
before me, I am used to seeing her unclothedness. I
am not moved to have sex with her, but I always
long to see mature ladies naked just the way I
always see my mum dressing up naked before
me."
"I still remember seeing her unclothedness regularly
till I was 8 years; and my dad do shout on her:
'Send this boy out before you dress,' but my
mum would always reply by saying:
'Will my son sleep with me? Stop planting evil
thought in his heart.'
"Anytime I see my mum's naked body, I long to
see ladies' naked body.
I then went into sex at age 10 and till now I am
not free from sex, heavy pornography and
masturbation...''
Dear parents, I hope you are not guilty of this?
You are dressing up before your 2 years old son/
daughter; you say he/she doesn't know anything
yet? That's very cruel.
Some couples will be having sex while their
close-to-2-years old child will be in their room
with them; they'll feel and think that he/she can
only see, he/she can't understand.
Sir/ma'am, that your child does not need to
understand. Seeing your unclothedness or seeing you
and your spouse making love is enough to plant
abnormal sexual fantasies and urge in that child.
Remember, it is now a jet world!
How will you destroy your own children with your
own carelessness?
Don't let your children see your unclothedness.
Don't make love in the presence of your child no
matter the age.
The scene sticks to the memory, they may want
to explore and experiment what they are seeing.
Stop making free home-made 'sex clips or video'
for your children to watch.
Mummy, sit properly.
Dress properly too.
Stop sitting as if you are in the labour room;
parting your legs for your son to see your inner
tight and pant.
Be very careful!
Daddy, don't wear ordinary boxer at home, you
sit down, your 'thing' is dangling and your
daughter is seeing it. There are things you should
not wear beyond your bedroom, just for your
spouse. Don't say because you want to enjoy
your freedom in your house. It's not your house
alone, it's a family house/home. You are putting
your children into sexual bondage through these
acts. The initiation starts from home.
Mummy, wearing ordinary bra around the house
in the presence of your sons is dangerous. Yes,
they won't lust after you, but you might be
messing up with their sensuality; and increasing
their curiosity to see the breasts of ladies out
there.
Let's stop being 'pornographic materials' to our
children. Raising sexually pure children, it begins
at home.' It begins with me and you.
My Counsel:
Thank you very much for the issues raised in
family porn. It is still our responsibility to build
virtue into our family. We need to learn from
others.
Still on building virtuous homes. Look at this:
*HABITS THAT SHOW IMPROPER UPBRINGING
IN CHILDREN*
Please, carefully look into the list below to see
where you may want to make amends on
yourself or the young ones you are caring for.
Children, if not properly groomed may never get
to the top in life, even if the parents are at the
top of their career.
Manners take you to where your education can't
take you, irrespective of your status, money or
the "who you know" factor.
This is not meant to hurt anyone or pinpoint on
someone for their upbringing. Its a general
message targeted to all the parents of today.
*1.* Going to your child's school dressed
indecently?
Think again.
*2.* Speaking rashly to your child's teacher.
*3.* Cursing, using foul words or swearing in
front of your children.
*4.* Using makeup on children.
*5.* Dressing with tight clothes and indecently
for children (they loose the sense of their
princesshood and may not listen to you in future)
*7.* Your child holds the cup or glassware by the
brim and you don't make a correction.
*8.* Your children don't greet and you just feel
they will come around one day because they
have a mood swing. (You will be blamed for it)
*9.* Your children eat with their mouth opened
and you feel they will grow up some day.
*10.* Your children brought home something you
did not buy for them and you said nothing. (That
is the beginning of stealing)
*11.* They talked back at you and you concluded
it's okay since you're a 21st century mummy.
(You will hate yourself if they do that outside and
they are disciplined)
*12.* They interrupt when you are speaking with
another adult and you think they are bold and
clever. (It's really bad manners)
*13.* They exercise authority over their nanny
and domestic staff and you let them be. (That is
bad parenting)
*14.* They say things like "my driver is on his
way..."
I am not an advocate that children should call
your domestic staff aunty or brother but, calling
them by names when they are not young people
is not poise either. The use of Miss, Mr or Mrs
will look good on them.
*15.* Your children don't say- 'Thank you' when
they have been helped or served something.
They don't know how to say "please" when they
need someone for help; and you are cool with
that. (Bad parenting)
*16.* When your children cannot stand children
who are less privileged.
*18.* When they pick their nose with their hands.
*19.* When they don't wash their hands after
visiting the washroom.
*20.* When your children take something from
the fridge without taking permission. (Bad
parenting)
*21.* When your children don't knock on closed
doors.
*22.* When your children don't collect from your
hands the stuff you brought in as you walk in
through the door.
*23.* When your children request for a bribe to
carry out their home chores or extra task. (That
is disgraceful)
*24.* When your children act like their
grandparents are irritating them.
*25.* When your children have not learnt to get
up from the chair for the elderly or visitors to sit.
*26.* When your child tells a lot of lies. (You will
both cry in the future if such is not put to check)
*27.* When your child asks "who is that?" at a
knock on your door instead of "please, who is
there."
*28.* When your child is always seated by your
visitors when being served drinks etc.
*29.* When your children still point their fingers
at other people.
*30.* When your children play and jump around
when prayers are going on. (age 4 above).
Don't be a 21st Century parent who cannot
correct a child. Train your child in the way of the
Lord, so that when he grows up he will not
depart from it.
*IT IS BETTER TO LET YOUR CHILDREN CRY AT
AN EARLY AGE WHEN YOU CORRECT THEM, IF
NOT YOU WILL BOTH CRY AT NIGHT WHEN
THEY BRING DISGRACE TO THE FAMILY WITH
BAD AND TERRIBLE BEHAVIOURS!*
I pray that won't be your portion in Jesus' Name.
You can do well to circulate this piece to all
parents and grandparents that are on your
contact list.
Thank you. |
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