-Showing kindness has always and will always be sexy.

Sure women are usually attracted to the “bad boy” demeanour at first, over time, one realises that it was nothing more than a phase which often times passes faster than thunder strikes. Studies reported by Psychology Today suggests that women are sometimes attracted to aggressive traits in men for immediate sexual gratification, but are then repelled by the thought of them as long-term partners.

In our defence, the popular notion that “nice guys get friend-zoned or taken for granted” comes to mind before all else.But the truth women don’t want to accept is that the “friend zone” theory, is just a way of telling women when, where, and who they should have sex with. So don’t be fooled, Women love kind men. Women have sex with kind men. Women want to marry kind men and have lots of sex, and babies with them (trust me, I know). Most times, Women stay with men who are unkind to them because they are scared, not because they like it. So stay woke and stay kind!

-Dressing sloppily isn’t cute

When it comes to fashion, we can agree that we all have different tastes and “dress to impress within our means,” But it’s a given that women are drawn to men who dress well. Whatever your favourite styles are, just combine it perfectly. “Anomalies” like dirty sneakers, dirty jeans, pit stains and underage underwear are just not classy.Clean up and wear an outfit that adds more charm to your flattering personality. If you don’t know what to wear, ask her to style you up (thank me later for this!). However, as far as understanding women go, they do not like you overdoing the dress thing… so balance is, as always, key!

-You don’t need to pretend you’re perfect

Perfection is boring! Imagine how you’d feel when the “perfect” lady you’ve been stalking online that’s usually adorned in layers of filter, appears before you looking nothing like the perfection you’d been stalking, how would you feel?

It’s the same thing with girls. They don’t like a guy that tries too much or acts too perfect. Everyone knows nobody’s perfect — and, that imperfections make life, and relationships, interesting! So don’t present yourself as something you’re not because those hidden truths will come to the surface, anyway. Find someone who loves you for your own individual quirks and missteps. It’ll be worth it.

-Ladies are also afraid of losing their independence

The general notion which up till now is still causing more harm than good is “All women love marriage and want to marry ASAP.” whereas “All men are naturally scared of commitment” is something that should be left in the Stone Age. Believe it or not, women are just as scared of commitment as men are...
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