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A Woman, So What??? A Must Read Article by Simpson101(m): 10:39pm On May 29, 2017
BECAUSE I AM A WOMAN!!!
I get into an argument with a man, he slaps me, I feel the pain, yet they tell me I provoked him. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologise to him.
I get into an argument with a man, I slapped him, they tell me I have no respect, no home training. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologise to him.
Because I am a woman, I don't have a right to be angry. So, the degree of my innocence is directly proportional to the degree of my silence in the face of oppression and brutality.

Because I am a woman, my husband cheats on me, I am told to tolerate it to save my marriage. The barbaric and stupid excuse is that ''it is in their nature to cheat, I should slim down, dress better, cook better, pray harder and be more pleasant to him"
I cheat, and I am called a LovePeddler, I have committed an abomination, I have no right to look elsewhere for the love and emotional support I lack at home, I am an irresponsible mother.
So I am sent packing, from the home we both built, with all my earthly possessions stuffed into a tiny box on my head. I am henceforth forbidden from seeing my two older children, I'm lucky to be allowed to go with my little one still suckling on my left breast. Three years later, the little one is tagged a bastard. Now, my new name is "after-three", because I am a woman.

He is 28 and runs a company. He's tagged wonderful, hard-working, focused, career oriented, successful at a very young age.
I am 28 and I run a company
"Hmmm... she is not even married, unserious, can not order her priorities right, a hustler, loves money, let her go and get a husband jor"
And I wonder if being successful has anything to do with a person's gender.

Because I am a woman,
I am not allowed to have wits or be a prodigy, I cannot be financially buoyant, professionally successful or be treated with respect without a man beside me.
Then I am tagged a generous leg opener, "a runs girl". They never see the possibility that I actually had to go through ups and downs to get to where I am, because I am a woman.

A man looses his wife to death and remarries a year after, he did the right thing, he's being praised and congratulated for moving on, after all life is for the living.
A woman looses her husband to death and remarries after a year,
"aaah! so early? Are u sure she wasn't sleeping with that man even when her husband was alive? Maybe that was why she killed her husband. She's a witch!!!"
WHY Because she's a woman.

Because it's for women, this post will be considered controversial, and everyone especially men will try to correct or argue aboutit. But don't forget, that because it's for women and it does not make them less human!!!

*Who is a woman*
When she is quiet, millions of things are running through her mind. When she stares at you, she is wondering why she loves you so much in spite of being taken for granted. When she says I will stand by you, she will stand by you like a solid rock. Never hurt, her especially her feelings or take her for granted. A very heart touching message coined for every woman.
Someone asked her, Are you a working woman or a housewife
She replied: Yes, I am a full-time working housewife. I work 24 hours a day.
I'm a Mum.
I'm a Wife.
I'm a Daughter.
I'm a Daughter-in-law.
I'm an Alarm clock.
I'm a Cook.
I'm a Maid.
I'm a Teacher.
I'm a Waitress.
I'm a Handy woman.
I'm a Security officer.
I'm a Counsellor.
I'm a Comforter.
I'm a Nanny.
I don't get holidays, I don't get sick leave, I don't get any day off, I work through day and night
Unlike every normal Nurse, I'm on call all hours and get paid with a sentence.
"What Did You Do All Day"
This Is Dedicated to all women.

A Woman has the most unique character, like salt! Her presence is never remembered yet pleasant, but her absence makes a home tasteless...
Copy and share with all the lovely Ladies in your life even if you're a man, Your Mother, Your Wife, Your Daughter, Your Sister, Your Friends And Family deserve better as a Woman.
Ensure they also forward to every Woman to make them proud being one and to every Man to make him realize a "Woman's Worth".
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