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Please note that you can avoid adultery. It is within
your power to do it, if you really mean it.
Carelessness is one of the major cause of affair in
marriage not devil in the real sense of it as many
people always claim when they fall into error. So
follow the following simple rules and you will never
fall into adultery.
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1: Never make anybody of the opposite sex your
best friend with whom you share intimate
discussions.


2: Never be with anybody of opposite sex at the
time your spouse must never know you are there.


3: Never talk evil about your spouse in the presence
of anybody, they will know you are not happy in
your marriage and take advantage of that by
showing you fake care and give you what you lack
with your spouse and destroy you.


4: Never visit a website you will not be proud to tell
your children and wife/husband you visited.
5: Avoid keeping secrets from your spouse, AFFAIR
thrive in secrecy.


6: Avoid confiding in the people of the opposite
sex, there should be somebody of your sex you can
talk to, don't dig the grave of your marriage with
your mouth.


7: Avoid collecting unsolicited gifts and favour from
opposite sex. They will ask for sex in return, they
are not Father Christmas.


8: Avoid thinking that anybody is better than your
husband or wife, you don't know what their spouses
are enduring at home,what you are seeing outside is
just a show biz, don't be deceived. Grass is only
greener in the other compound because it is far
from you.


9: Divert all your sexual fantasy towards your
spouse. He or she is planted in to your life to
satisfy you and keep you holy.


10: Always remember that whatever every woman or
man has in his or her body, your spouse has it too
and they are not different from each other, it is only
faces that are different, it is the same package.


11: Deal with any sexual thoughts that is not
directed towards your spouse, kill it before it kills
you. Sexual error do not begin in the bedroom, it
begins in the heart.


12: Before traveling, have sex with your spouse and
put your mind to it that you will not have sex until
you come back, that decision may save your life
and destiny.


13: Men, avoid looking at the front and back side
of ladies and imagine what is there, it is stupid,
childish and dirty to do that, that is what is called
lust, what is there is not different from what your
spouse has, please don't be stupid sir.



14: Walk in company with good and Godly men/
women, if you keep company with adulterer, you will
become adulterous.


15: Discuss your sexual desire with your spouse
and let it be met at home, don't hunt for something
that will hunt you later and hurt you deeply
tomorrow, your wife/ husband has the best, get it at
home.


16: Fill your heart with the word of God always, this
will not give lust a chance in your mind.



17: Always count the cost of adultery, don't just
look at the pleasure, look at the pain, loss of
integrity, how you will hurt your wife/husband,
children, friends and above all GOD the almighty.



18: Always remember that the enjoyment, pleasure
and the thrills that is in sex is just 8 seconds or
less, it can not be more than that but its
repercussions can last for eternity. Why trading
eternity for 8 seconds, is there wisdom in that?
BE FAITHFUL TO YOUR SPOUSE AND YOU WILL BE
GLAD YOU DID.



19: Pray regularly for your Spouse and your
marriage. It is well.
God bless your marriage (Home).

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It can't be avoided some people are destined to desteoy what they built with their own hands.