21 LIES PEOPLE ARE TELLING YOUR DAUGHTER WHICH YOU MUST CORRECT NOW BEFORE THEY DESTROY HER.

Bisi Adewale

People around your daughter, peer, mates, partners, television, films, newspapers, magazines, her friends, and some ill-inform adults may be used by the devil to tell your daughter the many wrong things. She will end up believing them if you don’t do something about it, they’ve destroyed the lives of so many young ladies, know them, teach your Girl the right thing and save her life and future: They are:

Sex for a young girl stops menstrual pains – FALSE. Do not go into pre-marital sex because of this. Sex can not stop the menstrual pain. It can’t even reduce it. It is a lie of the devil. Pray about menstrual pain and it will go. I have prayed for many sisters and the Lord has delivered them from it. You can be delivered too, but not through sex. Why should you set your life on fire?
Boys who shun sex will experience stomach ache – FALSE- Around me are wonderful brothers who have never slept with any girl in their lives and they are not having a stomach ache. If your fiancee tells you that he needs to sleep with you to stop his ‘constant’ stomach ache, advise him to go and see his Doctor. Never give in. Sex doesn't stop or cure stomach ache.
Necking, pecking, handling and kissing are okay in as much as they do not go beyond that– FALSE. Necking, pecking, handling and kissing are low forms of entertainment; they do not require any talent or brains. But they are dangerous because they arouse you sexually and lead to things you never intended to do. They are not for sexual SATISFACTION, they are for sexual STIMULATION. They make you lose control. It is totally wrong to engage in any of them. Do not be foolish. Avoid unnecessary contacts with men if you desire good testimonies.
Any lady that do not start having sex early in life will have complications during delivery – FALSE. This is another lie of the devil. Do not believe it. Keep yourself holy. You can never have a problem during delivery for the Lord will be with you.
If you do not become pregnant before the wedding, you might find it difficult to conceive – FALSE. Wait till your wedding for any sexual relationship. Do not believe any anti-scriptural public opinion. No demon can stop you from conceiving if you obey God. If you give birth to children while disobeying God, you are only producing cursed children, and surely the children will grow up to disobey you. No matter how hard you can pray. (Exodus 23:26).
A good sex life is all that is needed for a good marriage – FALSE. There are 168 hours in a week. The total hours spent on sexual intercourse by an average couple is less than 30 minutes a week. If you marry for sex, what will you be doing during the remaining period? It takes more than a good sex life to have a good and happy married life. It takes trust, understanding, love, thoughtfulness, and compatibility to build a strong and virile home. Do not base your marital choice on sexual factors. Life is more than that.
You need to test whether your man is potent or not -FALSE – Many people believe they need to test whether their partners are ‘alright’ or not, just like electronics are tested before purchase. This is another lie of the devil. Do not believe it. The Lord will not give you an incomplete man (Colossians 2:10). Your man is potent. He can “do”. Do not worry yourself. Only disobey the devil.
Saying “yes” to a fellow and having sex with him will enhance his love for you – FALSE – He may seem to love and appreciate you for the moment because you are satisfying his sexual desires, but that is not real love. And it does not always last. He will move on just as a butterfly always leaves the flower after sucking its nectar.
The best way to keep your partner is to give him sex all the time – FALSE – You can not use sex to keep a man. If you keep yourself pure, he will stay. But if he knows that you are a “broken pot”, he will make you a “sex object” and declare that you are not a ‘wife material”. He may be sleeping with you, but he will be looking for a “wife material” elsewhere. Keep yourself pure.
The best way to make a man to marry you is by becoming pregnant for him– FALSE If you start your home on a wrong foundation, you will live to regret it for the rest of your life.
A lady told me sometimes ago she realized her mum and her dad is not close. Though they live together, they have no time to sit together to discuss. She said she realized lately that her mum was not the woman her father had intended to marry. Her mum became pregnant in the course of their flocking together. Hence, he was forced to marry her.

The lady who spoke to me happened to be about twenty-three years, meaning that her parents have been together for about twenty -four years. Yet, her father does not love his wife. Why? He was tricked into marriage through pregnancy. Do not trick any man to marry you because you may live to regret it.

Men hate Virgins. Hence, you need to lose your virginity before marriage.FALSE – The fact is, every man dreams of marrying a virgin. Do not let anybody deceive you that men hate to get married to virgins. In fact, your husband, among other people, will congratulate you, if you remain a virgin till your wedding night. Your virginity is your glory. Please keep it jealously. Do not allow anybody that does not appreciate it to take your pride from you. (See Ten people That Will Congratulate You for remaining a Virgin Till Your Wedding Night In Chapter Seven).
In as much as you are sure that the man will marry you, you can start having sex with him, even to the extent of living with him. – FALSE – Being sure of a man’s decision to marry you does not give you license to have sex with him until you are married, You are still a single. If you do it, you are destroying yourself and your so-called trusted partner may jilt you. This is because there will be nothing more to look forward to. Do not live in any man’s house until your wedding day. Going to live with a man as a “live-in-lover” “cohabiting” in a “trial marriage” shows that you are not disciplined and God-fearing. It shows you lack home training. It shows you are a child of perdition, reserved for hell fire. If you are presently living with a man, go and pack your bags and return to your parents’ house now. Do not sleep there tonight. Angels weep when they see you preparing a “bed of destruction” for yourself every night. PACK YOUR BAGS AND LEAVE!
I can be getting money from a man without allowing him to sleep with me. FALSE – In as much as you are collecting money from a man, you can not but give yourself to him in return. In other words, you are a “prostitute.” You do not need to collect money from any man. Be content with what you have (I Timothy 6:6; Heb. 13:5-6).
If you have not had sex, you are not a big girl FALSE having sex before marriage does not make you a big girl. Rather, it shows how undisciplined you are. It makes you become an enemy of God and destroys your relationship with him. Purity is the mother of integrity. Sin is a reproach to any people. To become a big girl, start doing big things for God, not committing sins.
If you are proud of your unclothedness, you need to expose it. FALSE – The ungodly slogan, “If you have it (fresh body, big boobs etc) flaunt it”. It is against the divine order (Rom. 12:1). Your unclothedness needs to be covered and not exposed like that of a dog. Stop wearing clothes exposing your breasts, back, thigh, etc. Disciplined ladies cover their bodies always. Remember that the way you dress is the way you will be addressed.
First sexual intercourse does not lead to pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases- FALSE- You can contact STDs or even become pregnant from the first experience of sex. Stay away from sex till your wedding night and be free from venereal diseases or unwanted pregnancy.
If you do not have multiple sex partners, you are missing in action – FALSE-Those who jump from beds to beds are the ones missing out. They are missing the good pleasure of God. Above all, they are missing His presence. Embrace God. You will be glad you did
Having a sexual relationship with a variety of guys is the spice of life – FALSE- Nobody can disobey God and retain the joy of salvation. You can never gain anything in sinful activities. Run away from them.
If a man truly loves you, he will demand sex – FALSE – A man that truly loves you will wait until the wedding night before demanding for sex. TRUE LOVE WAITS.
The best way to appreciate your partner for the good things he has done for you is to give him sex. FALSE – Do not use your destiny to entertain or appreciate any man. Your life should be more important to you than any relationship.
Everybody is doing it, why not you? FALSE – People make it look as if it is everybody that is disobeying God. This is not true. The truth is that we have millions of young women that are keeping themselves holy and enjoying a perfect relationship with God. Join them. Don’t be left out. Gird your loins with strength. Embrace righteousness for it ‘exalts a nation’.

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