When people say they are enjoying life or "chopping the life of their head" as the saying goes, its either they are eating, drinking alcohol or spirits and to some men its women.

Majority if not all of the above leads to destruction, you can't eat everything or too much, alcohol leads to disgrace, accidents or death, women leads to STDs, HIV, magun or thunderbolt.
Besides, if men says having multiple women is enjoyment, is having multiple men also enjoyment for women?
What does it really mean or take to enjoy these life?