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Please Advice: by Deprofessional(m): 9:03pm On Jul 02, 2017
A friend of mine, during our discussion this afternoon, confided in me that he has been masturbating for like 15 years now and that he is eager to quit the habit.

According to him, it has really affected his level of affection for his wife. Each time he tries to quit, he fails after one or two days.

I personally don't know what could be of help hence, my decision to come to NL.

If you have masturbated before, how did you quit? Or what advice do you have for my friend?


Please, I don't need people that will come saying masturbation is normal for men and that it is not a sin according to Pastor Chris.

Please moderator, move this to FP a beg
Re: Please Advice: by NwaAmaikpe: 9:07pm On Jul 02, 2017
shocked


Stop buying soaps and Vaseline....replace them with Shampoo, conditioners and Relaxers.

Change your porn collections and try out genres that will turn you off or make you even puke like Shît fetishes or reptile bestiality.

Always have a booty-call handy, so you'd never be stranded when the urge comes.

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Re: Please Advice: by Nobody: 9:10pm On Jul 02, 2017
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


Stop buying soaps and Vaseline....replace them with Shampoo, conditioners and Relaxers.

Change your porn collections and try out genres that will turn you off or make you even puke like Shît fetishes or reptile bestiality.

Always have a booty-call handy, so you'd never be stranded when the urge comes.

Re: Please Advice: by NwaAmaikpe: 9:12pm On Jul 02, 2017
Deprofessional:
A friend of mine, during our discussion this afternoon, confided in me that he has been masturbating for like 15 years now and that he is eager to quit the habit.

According to him, it has really affected his level of affection for his wife. Each time he tries to quit, he fails after one or two days.

I personally don't know what could be of help hence, my decision to come to NL.

If you have masturbated before, how did you quit? Or what advice do you have for my friend?


Please, I don't need people that will come saying masturbation is normal for men and that it is not a sin according to Pastor Chris.

Please Lalasticlala, Mynd44 move this to FP a beg


OP you and I know that you are the same person as your friend.

So come clean, redemption comes faster when you've left the denial to acceptance stage.

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Re: Please Advice: by mekaboy(m): 9:17pm On Jul 02, 2017
Use peper and oil next time. You will loose the urge.

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Re: Please Advice: by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:23pm On Jul 02, 2017
If he really is determined to stop then tell him to sit down and 1st openly talk to his wife about the issue so that she can possibly help him with satisfying some of his sexual fantasies.... And let them BOTH solve the issue together. If wifey isn't involved then it can never be solved.
Re: Please Advice: by scarletkinq(m): 9:50pm On Jul 02, 2017
Izit your friend that needs help or you until u say the truth I won't give my 2cent
Re: Please Advice: by Kuzee23: 9:52pm On Jul 02, 2017
You can just get married because of sex brother...
Re: Please Advice: by Nobody: 10:48pm On Jul 02, 2017
As the chairman of Vaseline Crew of Nigeria with tears on my eyes is asking you bro what have we done wrong that you want to dismember yourself from us...



for this I don't have any advice for you oo
Re: Please Advice: by Blue86(m): 10:13am On Jul 03, 2017
To be candid with you.
Whatever a man is addicted to, he is a slave to that.
When I mean slave, I mean slavery. Bondage.
Go means go, and die means die. Nothing else.
He needs deliverance.
1.He either looks for a genuine man of God to deliver Him from that demon. And after that, let him stop watching or viewing X-rated films and pics .Let him get his mind renewed
2. If he is shy, let him go to God in prayers, and command the Spirit of masturbation out of His life in the name of Jesus by faith. And the demon will go ,because it's the name of Jesus that drives out demons. The name is the power that drives out demons.
After that let him spend time with God in prayer and the word.
3. If he choose let him call me. I will pray for him over the phone.
And that's all.A one time thing.He can delete my number afterwards. Am not in for friendship but for freedom.
Inbox me and I will send you my number
You can choose out of the 3,its left to you.
Re: Please Advice: by ImaIma1(f): 11:58am On Jul 03, 2017
He should get closer to God. It will become hard to masturbate with the consciousness in his heart.

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