By Kazeem Abolore

So I was coming from the engineer I took my phone to some months ago. He had told me to come for the phone two days later to collect it. I was still in the imagination of what I could do on the phone and things I would miss doing, when I got to the car park. A fair young lady who should be in mid twenties was sitting at the front sit, capped her head with a red face cap and adorned her body with an “armless” top. I approached her and asked if someone had taken the sit beside her and she responded in negative thus I took the sit. She ordered for suya from the hawking Mallam. Not to bore you with details of what transpired between us but worthy to know is that we both ate the suya she bought, she briefly read the book I was holding and before I alighted, I used her phone to call home.

In asking her about the vacancy of the seat, longing to join her in eating the “Suya” and requesting to use her phone, there was one act I kept doing –smiling. This act, even though is a no-brainer and a common act, I learnt to use and its importance in Dale Carnagie’s book: How To Win Friends And Influence People. To summarize it, he says regarding smiling:

“The impression that one wears on one’s face is far more important than the clothes one wears on one’s back.”

You see, I have used my charming smile to get things which ordinarily I would not. I have used it to win negotiations to my side. I have used it to win hearts. I have used it to get a good first impression in people’s mind. I hardly meet people, either first time or customary without a big smile.

If you ask me what is my greatest weapon to keep things cool when it ought to be hot, I will tell you it is my genuine and unconditional smile.

The ancient Chinese were a wise lot – wise in the ways of the world; and they had a proverb that you and I ought to cut out and paste inside our hearts. It goes like this:

“A man without a smiling face must not open a shop”

If puppies do it, babies do it, why don’t you do it?

Smile, it makes you beautiful.



Kazeem Abolore S (KAS) is an innovative teacher, wreative Writer, personal effectiveness strategist and Creator/Initiator 30 Days Writing Challenge.

source: http://www.opinions.ng/resaon-smile-time/

I smile a lot. It works wonders on friends, family, customers, traders _even police. It makes you look younger,it's courteous_people would be inclined to help or listen, when you ask with a smile.

hahn:
Smiling can get you killed in some places

Where? Such a place must be devoid of any form of happiness.

And it's contagious....
You can unknowingly to you, bright someone's day with A SMILE......

SMILE all the way, it makes people wonder " most especially your haters" what you're up to..

Thanks OP

Lol. long story
money is the only reason I'd smile at all time
even in my sleep.

i was actually trying to make myself stop smiling always, cos i wanted to look serious, But now, guess what?



i'm even smiling right now

Please there is no reason to smile if your teeth is brown or your mouth smells;

No reason whatsoever!!!

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i make sure i smile twice a day

felzylix:
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NwaAmaikpe:

lordm:
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MirJay:
i make sure i smile twice a day

seun, lalasticlala,....

you need to do something about this mentality

In this hard times

Anyway smile

Smiling can get you killed in some places

op, use ur smile to snatch a military man's wife and see that the Lord is good

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Feeling depressed and Sad??

This should help you

http://topwritersden.com/feeling-suicidal-depressed-top-4-reasons-not-give-yet/

seunlayi:
thank you
this mentality has to stop

you need Jesus Bro

Because of suya?

Op sufry softly make you no go chop poison o

Not with dis buhari

i don't know how to smile

I swear you go chop witch if u neva already chop

Thanks for that anyways now i am

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hdial59-x5k

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Na person wey rich dey smile now meanwhile My sister stop asking guys what they do for a living, they will lie,,, just take them to bed and count how many round they can go
One round - rich guy
Two rounds - doing well in life
Three rounds - unemployed
Four rounds - broke as hell
THANK ME IF YOU WANT

So because you met a slayqueen looking for a hook up you now want everybody to start smiling all the time


You want people to start calling us 'mad' people ba?

Your plan won't work sir

suffering and smiling.....

i do it too much i think i overdo it sef..some times i have to remind myself to keep a serious face lol