pls nairalander I need ur advice....I and my girlfriend have been dating 4 over three years now, right now she's serving in Enugu state while I am serving in taraba state. I actually meant this girl as a virgin and after that she compelled me 2 make a promise 2 her that I we never leave her of which I agreed, her parent never like me and also my mum object 2 the relationship because she was an Igbo girl.... presently now someone came to ask in her hand for marriage and the mother gladly accept but my girl on the other hand said no to it but there is a lot of pressure from the family that she must marry now, on my own side I have already told her I we not marry even in d next two years nd she said she can wait 4 me... the problem now is that I did not no what d future hold whether I we leave her 4 another or not nd secondly since both of our parents object to d relationship is it still nice for me to hold her back from getting married now, knowing fully well that her family hate me and my family hate her, or should I just tell her to move on without me!!!!!


pls don't quote me wrong, I truly love her with all my heart....


pls am really confused now

From the way you sound, it shows you don't know what you want. You are skeptical about the future of the relationship, Maybe you may end up marrying her or not you still don't know. And she is saying No to a suitor because of you.

If both parents are against it because of tribal difference, what do you think will happen when you eventually get married.

And maybe you love her mOre cause she is still a Virgin.

Think dude!

doughziay:
From the way you sound, it shows you don't know what you want. You are skeptical about the future of the relationship, Maybe you may end up marrying her or not you still don't know. And she is saying No to a suitor because of you.

If both parents are against it because of tribal difference, what do you think will happen when you eventually get married.

And maybe you love her mOre cause she is still a Virgin.

Think dude!

Virgin Ke? baba don already shine o, reason why she asked him to promise her he wouldn't leave her.

I need that girl's number to talk some sense into her head. Why wait for a confused man who obviously has no plans whatsoever of marrying you? She'll only have herself to blame eventually.

Mr Man, please set that girl free cos you're not the one for her.

it seems u guys don't understand me....I said I truly love her but d family barrier nd trouble is too much 4 me 2 bear...she can bear it but how can I marry someone dat d family we hate me!!

......u guys should understand my point well