A Facebook user identified as Ukan Kurugh, has written the concluding part of the story of Chinyere, who was beaten to death by her husband.




Read full story below:

"Unfortunately for Sylvia or Chinyere as she was fondly called by family and close friends, she did not live to tell her own story. She was cut down in her prime by the man she loved till death did them part Obinna Akaleme, her husband. She died on the day she was due to give birth after series of miscarriages in her husband’s house.

Chinyere Sylvia Akaleme (nee Igbo) was born on 27 april 1981 into the family of Mr and Mrs Reginald Chiaka Igbo. The second child and 1st daughter of the family with six other siblings, Sylvia was raised in a middle-class Catholic family residing in Ajao estate, lagos where she had her nursery, primary and secondary education. She was a very bright pupil and her position in class never went below the top three. She gained admission into the university of Ilorin in Kwara state where she read electrical engineering and graduated with second class honours. She started a career in information technology and quickly got several professional qualifications including sisco into her academic profile. She started her working career with Karox computers before moving on to reliance info systems ltd where she became a product and sales manager

Sylvia at work

Her last job was with the Wini group, an Ikeja based corporation.

In 2012 she met and married Obinna Akaleme a farmer/ chef/ kitchen assistant and thus began her journey to an untimely death in the hands of the man she loved so much and catered for. She died on the on the 29th of march 2017 and she was committed to mother earth at the Ikoyi cemetery on the 19th of july 2017.

Engr sylvia is survived by her aged grandmother, her parents, siblings, uncles, aunties, nephews and nieces. May her gentle soul rest in peace, Amen.

What Happened?

Her parents and siblings never knew Chinyere endured several years of abuse in the hands of the man she called a husband. She assumed the role of a typical Nigerian wife who must always display a non-existent happiness in a marriage filled with sadness and regrets. The only clue about what happened to her during her over five years of marriage was the account of the neighbors who narrated how on a particular night Obinna her husband beat her up and she ran to their landlords house for safety. Also the little girl who lived with her revealed that Chinyere warned her not to tell her parents that her husband used to beat her up even while she was over eight months pregnant.


That explained the reason behind the series of miscarriages she had before her last pregnancy which was full term. Her parents got worried that their daughter had about four miscarriages in less than four years decided to take her to come stay with them when she took-in after her eight month old miscarriage. She lived peacefully with her parents and her pregnancy advanced with Chinyere in good health and high spirits anticipating the birth of her child. Unfortunately for her, on her due date, Obinna, her husband came to pick her up from her father’s house at 10 am to the hospital and as a dutiful wife she was, she obeyed him and went with him. According to the doctor, the mother and the baby were confirmed healthy on arrival and Doctor asked her to go get her bag in preparation for delivery that evening. Obinna took Chinyere to their matrimonial home. Sadly for Chinyere, he got into an argument with her over money, beat her up so badly and left her unconscious in the house. He left the house and switched off his phone and her phone so no one could reach them. He left her in the house and every attempt made to reach them was futile. He later returned and took her to the hospital when he discovered she was dying at about 4.30pm and did not deem it fit to contact her parents or siblings, he did this so as not to run the risk of her coming out of coma and telling her family her ordeal at the hands of her husband, it is also worthy to note that the hospital were she died is less than a hundred metres from her parent’s house. Obinna eventually came to her parents house around 8.30pm to tell them she had passed on. Further findings from her siblings and the doctor’s confirmation revealed that Chinyere was brought to the hospital lifeless (practically dead).

The doctor decided to do a cesarean session to try and save the baby but it was all in vain.
Chinyere’s sad story is one among millions of Nigerian women who fall victim to sexual and emotional predators because they want to be accepted by the society at large . They hide their ordeal from the very people that can rescue them. Their families. Women nowadays? pretend that they are in happy marriages even when the obvious signs says otherwise. For how long will we keep up with this trend of pretending all is well when it obviously isn’t? Must we live a lie for societal acceptance? Let’s come together and say no to domestic violence and spousal abuse. There are many families like Chinyere’s who wish their children had remained single and lived with them instead of getting married and killed by their partners. Enough is enough

Source : http://www.klannyblog.com/2017/08/viewers-discretion-is-advised-pregnant.html

Beast he is...... this might even be ritual .....
Lalasticlala

Why?, why?, why?

Can this story be confirmed?

Rtopzy:
Beast he is...... this might even be ritual .....

or false story

E bigots are coming.

Someone should borrow me a gun
I need to find that man and shoot him

Jesu
Person go fit still marry again

correspondent reporting live from lagos...Everybody
knows OBINNA AKALEME is not AFONJA name. na dem, those Igbo . . .they have Ph.D in Crime

Nevertheless the foundation of God standeth sure, having this seal, The Lord knoweth them that are his. And, Let every one that nameth the name of Christ depart from iniquity.

May their souls rest in peace!

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Africa... oh Africa.

This should serve as a deterrent to Nigerian girls that believe marriage is a trophy. The most important thing to achieve in life .
I even saw one lady post tiday dat she knows her 'Saturday' would soon come. Such hogwash!!!

The problem is not in getting married. No! The problem is when these girls are suffering abuse but because of the society and the "them-say-them-say", they stay put in dat hell called home.

My advice: During courtship, watch out for beastly attitudes and behaviours, if wild, my sister, run for your life.

We are tired of typing RIPs on avoidable deaths.

...à bon entendu, salut!

insanity,who lives and stay with a beast for so long?all in the name of marriage,who does that that?I don't endure,a guy yelling at me,not to talk of using his fists on me,yo the extent of losing a baby..no!!!that man,would die a slow and painful death,he's tongue would be peeling off,while he's still alive..

Jeeeesssuuuu


Wolves In Sheep's Clothing.

R.I.P to them

Oṣùs are very Hateful, intolerant and wicked

This is so painful. RIP

oh God! my blood dey boil, see the fine baby that this useless he-goat wasted.*tears*

Ohk Rest in Peace to the Dead!!

But i hv always wondered who will win this Race between Men and Women

Because it like Men SCORE 58 WOMEN SCORE 76

IN MOTALITY RATE

Some ladies can be terrible but there's no justification for beating up a woman. Rip ma'am and the innocent baby.

ha...i only blame the woman's brothers/family, that useless man should already be in a shallow grave before their sister hit 6 feet. nonsense

That baby's hands really looks like it will fight Obinna Akaeleme from the Spiritual realm.

Obinna is a learner sha,

No man should beat his wife when she is in the third trimester. It is very risky then.
You can slap her, but don't kick her tummy or strangle her neck.

Please don't get me wrong, I am not saying a man should not beat his wife; I am only saying once in a while, a safe beating should be given to a deserving wife.
If you must beat her, beat safely.

Young03:
Someone should borrow me a gun
I need to find that man and shoot him

Then, you will be killed too.

Rip to them.

Such a pathetic incident.
May the Lord take charge

This flat head again...

NwaAmaikpe:

The uncultured has arrived.. .

He is regretting now

Don't stay in an abusive marriage

If he beats you just step out

Rip Angels

So painful

Am still begging God to save me from abused marriage
This one weak me oooo