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CAPSLOCKED:
YOU ALREADY HAVE YOUR ANSWER. AND YOU SHALL CONTINUE TO PAY RUBBISH BILLS UNTIL THE END OF TIME.

IF I WERE YOU, I'LL DISEMBARK. THERE ARE THOUSANDS MORE IN YOUR CAMPUS THAT "MAY" NOT TRY TO MANIPULATE YOU FOR SELFISH REASONS.

thank you very much Sir. God bless you for me jor

shortgun:
Women are complex bro...they defy every logic known to man.
She alone knows why she's asking u for the money at this time. For me, I think u should give her something even if it's not the full amount she wants.
I am only saying this cos u have interest in her.
Make her see u as someone she can depend on.
But u should make her give u her answer b4 u hand d money over... you are in the driving seat here.
If possible hold the cash for hand, let her see it...then ask her about her answer

The money she wants from you makes her helpless b4 u.
Tell her that her answer will make u decide if you will give her d money or not.
Also, hv it in mind that once u guys start to date she wont pay back d money.....so gamble with an amount that wont pain you later

I see what you are aiming at. I like that ! But don't you think dangling the money in her face will send off the wrong info about me ? On a second thought, isn't she doing the same thing to me by with holding her response ? Jor

nlPoster:
Can you leave the girl alone!

All I want to know is if what she did showed good character and if you were in my shoes what would your decision be. Am not trying to be a mysogynist

shortgun:
Nothing in this life is free kid.
If you want that girl u should also be ready to spend on her....she has got needs.
You want to be smashing her for free
if u hv,give to her.
Giving her d money will put some level of control in ur hands.

thank you for the advice. I know nothing is free and yes, I will at some point spend oh her but why ask for the money now? Shouldn't she at least concernt to the relationship first ?

I am an undergraduate studying computer science. I asked a girl out some days ago who is also a student in the same school and she said I should give her some time to think about it and that she will give me feed back today. So today, we met and the first thing she did was ask me to lend her some money that she will pay back by next month. I told her I would check my account to see if I can part with the amount she mentioned for that length of time and that I'll get back to her the next day. Then I went ahead to ask her about our previous discussion and what she had decided. She responded by saying she will let me know of her decision before weekend.
Now, giving her the money might not be so much the problem but right now am feeling like she is using the situation to extort money from me.
What should I do?
P.S let's be matured and pls no insults .
THANK YOU