Regrets, regrets, regrets… Everywhere you go this word is somehow present there. There often comes a time in life when you feel regretful based on your past decisions and you get lost in the memory of past wishes. We don’t want your future to be lost in the past so here are some life lessons for you to learn from and change your directions while you can.

MAKE YOUR OWN RULES:

Don’t follow and become a replication of others. Following the rules made by others won’t get you anywhere in life. In order to gain something you have to break some rules otherwise you’ll just be another faceless person in the crowd. There are life lessons for you everywhere if you see people around that are too afraid to break the rules, You’ll see the word regret on their faces so just go out there and break some rules.

WORK HARD
No, appearance doesn’t matter when it comes to success. He didn’t get the job because he had good looks. He got it because he had worked hard for it while you wasted your time complaining. These Life lessons will simply become a part of your regret-less life.

MONEY IS NOT THE SOLUTION:
Money cannot buy happiness. You have to understand this that being rich doesn’t mean you’ll be happy because often in our aim to become rich we sacrifice our dreams, relationships, time and so much more. By the time you get the money this all goes so far away that you can’t possibly reach it. So just be happy now and money will come along with hard work.

DON’T LOSE YOURSELF:
What ever you do, Don’t be a people pleaser. You can never please everyone. If you try to please one, you’ll make the other person unhappy so just don’t do it. In trying to please everyone you’ll forget your own true self, your wishes and dreams. Don’t let them be a cause of your identity crisis. Learn from this life lesson and just be yourself.

SOMETIMES SILENCE IS BETTER:
You don’t always have to react to every situation. Sometimes a situation comes when you have a choice between reacting and letting the fight go on or just be silent once to create peace, especially in relationships, if one is hyper the other should remain calm. This would make the other person realize their mistake.

STOP COMPLAINING, START DOING:
Don’t sit back and complain about your problems like a cry baby. No one is going to solve them for you, eventually you’ll have to solve them yourself so just get up and start solving your problems. There are many life lessons out there regarding failures and people who didn’t fix their problems and ended up in disaster so don’t be a disaster, start right now.

RUN AFTER YOUR PASSION NOT MONEY
Don’t run after money, Don’t look for a job that will give you good income because there might come a time when you start hating your job despite the money. So make a living out of what you love, your passion and you would not feel like you are working anytime. When you do something passionately, money will follow its course.

Source: http://www.nigeriaschoolsupdate..com/2017/08/7-life-lesson-lessons-people-often.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Fynestboi

Nice piece

Nice one

Nice one op especially following your passion

I concur

Yhu've said it all. @OP.

I love this. Everyone, especially the youths, should take note of what the OP has written here. Everyday, life teaches us lots of things; we're only gonna get better with time.

Fantastic! I learned a lot from the number one item on the list. In the course of pleasing people most end up allowing others make or impose their own rules on them. The choice we make will either make us to be who we are or they end up drowning our dreams. From making choices on what church to attend to choosing a life partner. The story has always been the same for most people.

Op

full of sense..

Op number 1,this is what u're saying abi?

billynoni:
Op number 1,this is what u're saying abi?

Lol

iamleumas:


Source: http://www.nigeriaschoolsupdate..com/2017/08/7-life-lesson-lessons-people-often.html

The first lesson has render all the remaining six lesson useless. Follow your rules not the rules of others.

so many writers are just not clever to see their own mistake before publishing.

This post is sexy

Money can't buy you happiness that's true as hell, but happiness can't buy yo ass this new SL - jcole

money can’t buy happiness, Jellee talkin’ truthful/But I’m happiest when I can buy what I want, get high when I want,”- Drizzy (western road flows)

Good cash

Nice post...
But isnt it confusing when we say money cant buy happiness?
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Why then are people doing all sorts of stuffs to help people win money? Isnt it to make them happy in a way?
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MTN - who wants to be a millionaire
Big brother Nigeria
Maltina dance show
Etc etc etc

These courses are not avaliable in any institution.
LIFE LESSON SCHOOL NEVER TEACH...
Take charge of your life!

I think the title should have been the advice you hear from an African mother. Nice write up though.



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