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Controversy - Can A Christian Lady Marry A Muslim Guy by adepeter2027(m): 12:50pm On Sep 22, 2017
I stumbled upon a thread on FP where a NLDer said its wrong for a Muslim woman to marry a Christian guy.

Now my question is, "CAN A CHRISTIAN LADY MARRY A MUSLIM GUY WITHOUT ANY PUNISHMENT TO THE MUSLIM DUDE"?
Re: Controversy - Can A Christian Lady Marry A Muslim Guy by Deicide: 2:34pm On Sep 22, 2017
It's funny how a GOD(Allah or whatever) doesn't see his creations as one and is segregating them but what is funnier is that the Muslims cant see the flaw in that verse Why? Well its God so don't question it because religion doesn't give room for questioning but why should it? cause i know the more we start questioning this thing we see in the holy book the more we come to understand that religion is man-made same way some people didn't question their belief the result?ISIS!! The Same way we have the KKK.....My people start using ya brain o

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Re: Controversy - Can A Christian Lady Marry A Muslim Guy by Rashduct4luv(m): 9:50pm On Sep 22, 2017
What is this guy above me saying? Are you so ignorant not to know that ISIS and most other terrorist groups have political backings? Please read wide!

On the topic of discussion it's permissible according to our Books for a Muslim male to marry a Jewish/Christian female that is chaste...but this is usually undesirable because it may have a bad effect on the offsprings and also some other bad effects of this kind of marriage.

It is haram for a Muslim female to marry any non-muslims male under any circumstances.

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Re: Controversy - Can A Christian Lady Marry A Muslim Guy by adepeter2027(m): 10:18pm On Sep 22, 2017
Rashduct4luv:
What is this guy above me saying? Are you so ignorant not to know that ISIS and most other terrorist groups have political backings? Please read wide!

On the topic of discussion it's permissible according to our Books for a Muslim male to marry a Jewish/Christian female that is chaste...but this is usually undesirable because it may have a bad effect on the offsprings and also some other bad effects of this kind of marriage.

It is haram for a Muslim female to marry any non-muslims male under any circumstances.
Exactly my point.

Islam is a religion that portrays GROSS HYPOCRISY and been biased.

It's Haram for a Muslim lady to marry a Christian dude but it's partly/completely okay for a Muslim dude to marry a Christian Lady.

RUBBISH religion

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Re: Controversy - Can A Christian Lady Marry A Muslim Guy by Rashduct4luv(m): 10:20pm On Sep 22, 2017
adepeter2027:

Exactly my point.

Islam is a religion that portrays GROSS HYPOCRISY and been biased.

It's Haram for a Muslim lady to marry a Christian dude but it's partly/completely okay for a Muslim dude to marry a Christian Lady.

RUBBISH religion

Anyways, that's the law! We hear and we obey!

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Re: Controversy - Can A Christian Lady Marry A Muslim Guy by adepeter2027(m): 10:22pm On Sep 22, 2017
Rashduct4luv:


Anyways, that's the law! We hear and we obey!


But you know it's bad, one sided, sentimental and biased.
Re: Controversy - Can A Christian Lady Marry A Muslim Guy by Rashduct4luv(m): 10:32pm On Sep 22, 2017
adepeter2027:


But you know it's bad, one sided, sentimental and biased.

How is it bad? The Creator gave His creations a set of laws and you say its bad...

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Re: Controversy - Can A Christian Lady Marry A Muslim Guy by adepeter2027(m): 11:09pm On Sep 22, 2017
Rashduct4luv:


How is it bad? The Creator gave His creations a set of laws and you say its bad...

Same law that allows killing of non-Muslims with a reward of 72virgins in paradise àbí?

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Re: Controversy - Can A Christian Lady Marry A Muslim Guy by Nobody: 12:58pm On Sep 23, 2017
Rashduct4luv:
What is this guy above me saying? Are you so ignorant not to know that ISIS and most other terrorist groups have political backings? Please read wide!

On the topic of discussion it's permissible according to our Books for a Muslim male to marry a Jewish/Christian female that is chaste...but this is usually undesirable because it may have a bad effect on the offsprings and also some other bad effects of this kind of marriage.

It is haram for a Muslim female to marry any non-muslims male under any circumstances.
...yet another human face of alah, what exactly is so wrong in a muslim woman getting married to a non-muslim man? Is it impossible for the man to become a believer through the womans conduct as a muslim? Or vice versa for a muslim man married to a non-muslim woman, is this idea not a typical misogynistic view of things just like telling men to beat up their wives for disobedience, what if a woman over powers the husband and beats him silly? Whats he supposed to do next? And about the 72 houris promised faithful men after death in the course, what about faithful women? Do they get 72 machos or nothing? These are the ways of a man and not The Lord God Almighty!

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Re: Controversy - Can A Christian Lady Marry A Muslim Guy by Rashduct4luv(m): 7:28am On Sep 24, 2017
kattytamer:

...yet another human face of alah, what exactly is so wrong in a muslim woman getting married to a non-muslim man? Is it impossible for the man to become a believer through the womans conduct as a muslim? Or vice versa for a muslim man married to a non-muslim woman, is this idea not a typical misogynistic view of things just like telling men to beat up their wives for disobedience, what if a woman over powers the husband and beats him silly? Whats he supposed to do next? And about the 72 houris promised faithful men after death in the course, what about faithful women? Do they get 72 machos or nothing? These are the ways of a man and not The Lord God Almighty!

Anything that is contrary to your views or your limited knowledge, you need to seek knowledge about it. A critic with no knowledge would only announce his or her folly!

Answering your question related to the topic in discuss... a man is the head of the home. In Islam, the man has a leadership role and an immense rights over the wife.
The husband can demand copulation for example when the wife is on menses. While this is forbidden in Islam, he may not understand. Moreover, the husband directs the affairs of the home so the husband to a Muslim lady can never be a non-Muslim. This is the law from our Book.

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Re: Controversy - Can A Christian Lady Marry A Muslim Guy by Nobody: 7:37am On Sep 24, 2017
Rashduct4luv:


Anything that is contrary to your views or your limited knowledge, you need to seek knowledge about it. A critic with no knowledge would only announce his or her folly!

Answering your question related to the topic in discuss... a man is the head of the home. In Islam, the man has a leadership role and an immense rights over the wife.
The husband can demand copulation for example when the wife is on menses. While this is forbidden in Islam, he may not understand. Moreover, the husband directs the affairs of the home so the husband to a Muslim lady can never be a non-Muslim. This is the law from our Book.

Afterall said these are you weak excuses...you talk like woman is forced into marriage which is understandable, and are your muslim men are never guilty of what you say?
Re: Controversy - Can A Christian Lady Marry A Muslim Guy by Rashduct4luv(m): 7:55am On Sep 24, 2017
adepeter2027:

Same law that allows killing of non-Muslims with a reward of 72virgins in paradise àbí?

Can you quote that law and explain it?

How many Muslims out of the millions in Lagos or southwest Nigeria have committed suicide to get this reward?
Re: Controversy - Can A Christian Lady Marry A Muslim Guy by Rashduct4luv(m): 8:20am On Sep 24, 2017
kattytamer:


Afterall said these are you weak excuses...you talk like woman is forced into marriage which is understandable, and are your muslim men are never guilty of what you say?

We say it as it's in our Books! If you don't understand it you don't understand it.

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Re: Controversy - Can A Christian Lady Marry A Muslim Guy by adepeter2027(m): 9:49am On Sep 24, 2017
Rashduct4luv:


Can you quote that law and explain it?

How many Muslims out of the millions in Lagos or southwest Nigeria have committed suicide to get this reward?
Mr man, dont deny the obvious.
Oooh, I see how you wanna try escape by citing Lagos and Southwestern part of Nigeria as example.

What about sambisa? What about ISIS? Those Arab countries?

I guess ya answer will be "THEY AIN'T TRUE MUSLIMS" - lol
Re: Controversy - Can A Christian Lady Marry A Muslim Guy by tintingz(m): 11:37am On Sep 24, 2017
Religions are always about supremacy, even tribes and patriarchy.

In Islam a Muslim man can marry a christian and Jewish woman(people of the book) but a Muslim woman can't marry a Christian and Jewish man because she will change her religion.

Islam is still better as a christian and Jewish woman married to a Muslim man can still practice her religion.

But in Christianity, it is not allowed for both man and woman to marry outside the fold of their religion even outside their church, I think it is same for Judaism.
Re: Controversy - Can A Christian Lady Marry A Muslim Guy by Nobody: 12:19pm On Sep 24, 2017
Rashduct4luv:


We say it as it's in our Books! If you don't understand it you don't understand it.
Thats exactly my problem with you, one man wakes up suddenly and start giving you tales about how he is gods special prophet above everyone else, claiming older works of people who were devoted to their faith even in the face of persecution and desolation are all lies and you believe him hook , line and sinker without any considerations...peace.
Btw its a simple matter, no one needs an einstein to understand the concept, the things about a woman in her period you claim to forbid is forbiden also by the Jews.

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Re: Controversy - Can A Christian Lady Marry A Muslim Guy by Rashduct4luv(m): 6:22pm On Sep 24, 2017
kattytamer:

Thats exactly my problem with you, one man wakes up suddenly and start giving you tales about how he is gods special prophet above everyone else, claiming older works of people who were devoted to their faith even in the face of persecution and desolation are all lies and you believe him hook , line and sinker without any considerations...peace.
Btw its a simple matter, no one needs an einstein to understand the concept, the things about a woman in her period you claim to forbid is forbiden also by the Jews.

He is the last messenger and Prophet and the best of them. He completed their message and his nation is the largest! As for claiming he lied, no one during his time ever called him a liar despite their hatred when he proclaimed the message.

About the Jewish laws, there may still be some of their laws that are still being preserved in Islam today. Jesus changed some of the Jewish laws for his people by Allah's command.
Allah perfect the religion for the last Prophet after Jesus.
Re: Controversy - Can A Christian Lady Marry A Muslim Guy by Rashduct4luv(m): 6:34pm On Sep 24, 2017
adepeter2027:

Mr man, dont deny the obvious.
Oooh, I see how you wanna try escape by citing Lagos and Southwestern part of Nigeria as example.

What about sambisa? What about ISIS? Those Arab countries?

I guess ya answer will be "THEY AIN'T TRUE MUSLIMS" - lol

No, my answer is different! They may be Muslims or not!

The questions you should ask are:

Did the Prophet of Islam did Jihad in the way they are doing it?

Is suicide permitted in Islam?

And I told you to "research about ISIS" as it was partly a creation of the US of A. Please research without bigotry or prejudice.
Re: Controversy - Can A Christian Lady Marry A Muslim Guy by Empiree: 8:18pm On Sep 24, 2017
adepeter2027 kattytamer:

Same can be said of Jews. The Torah and Talmud encourage the granting of loans to fellow Jews if they do not involve interest. The halakhah [applicable Jewish law] regarding free loans apply only to loans made to other Jews. ... Charging interest is classed in the Book of Ezekiel as being among the worst sins, and is forbidden according to Jewish law. But a jews/christians may charge interest for non-jews.


You shall not charge interest to your countrymen: interest on money, food, or anything that may be loaned at interest. You may charge interest to a foreigner, but to your countrymen you shall not charge interest, so that the LORD your God may bless you in all that you undertake in the land which you are about to enter to possess. (Deuteronomy 23:19-20)




According to a commenter he said,


One is legally allowed to make money from his money. Just like one can rent houses and cars, one can rent money. The only reason one cannot charge interest from a Jew is because all Jews are family, and one doesn't charge interest to family.

April 19 2012
Shmuel Brin


In Judaism, interfaith marriages are forbidden. Traditional Judaism does not permit interfaith marriages. The Torah states that the children of such marriages would be lost to Judaism


Deuteronomy 7:3-4New International Version (NIV)

Do not intermarry with them. Do not give your daughters to their sons or take their daughters for your sons, for they will turn your children away from following me to serve other gods, and the Lord’s anger will burn against you and will quickly destroy you.



And from biblical standpoint, a christian whether male or female can not marry muslim or nonchristian base on this verse they use to back their point.


2 Corinthians 6:14

Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?


From the verse, muslims are "non-believers to you. Now leave muslims alone an mind ur business undecided ISLAM's judgement is fair and BEST
Re: Controversy - Can A Christian Lady Marry A Muslim Guy by Nobody: 10:24pm On Sep 24, 2017
Empiree:

In Judaism, interfaith marriages are forbidden. Traditional Judaism does not permit interfaith marriages. The Torah states that the children of such marriages would be lost to Judaism


Deuteronomy 7:3-4New International Version (NIV)

Do not intermarry with them. Do not give your daughters to their sons or take their daughters for your sons, for they will turn your children away from following me to serve other gods, and the Lord’s anger will burn against you and will quickly destroy you.

Yes and it is a total seperation without bias discriminating women like a typical misogynist and thats my point...its also reflected in laws like a woman cannot leave the home without the permission of a male, asking husbands to beat up their wives when they disoobey, promising 72 houris to male matyrs and no similar promise for the females,a man can marry four wives, can a woman marry more than one man ...it all sounds more like what a typical misogynist man would say rather than what an Almighty God would do.



And from biblical standpoint, a christian whether male or female can not marry muslim or nonchristian base on this verse they use to back their point.


2 Corinthians 6:14

Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?

Thats not the true meaning of this verse dude, it only mean dont let wrong company influence you into doing things you shouldnt be doing...two bulls yoked together with a strong bond would always walk same path under the command of their rider...it says dont get too attached to bad company in a way you lose your faith.


From the verse, muslims are "non-believers to you. Now leave muslims alone an mind ur business undecided ISLAM's judgement is fair and BEST

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