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Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by adonismuller(m): 8:58pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
A friend of mine is ready to get married but he is a bit worried because his elder brother is yet to get married The question is... Is there any implication? Would the family members accept... P. S his girl is pregnant. |
Re: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by Nobody: 9:01pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
this is matter of mutual understanding between your friend and his elder brother ... if the family is understanding enough then it is not an issue he just need to speak with his elder brother and get him to understand his stance 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by stacyadams: 9:02pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
my younger bro z married and i dont have any issue wit that nor family 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by Nobody: 9:03pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
ShyCypher: daredevil |
Re: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by Iseoluwani: 9:04pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
adonismuller: Yes, very possible,One of my uncle Who was d 4th n last born got married b4 d 3rd born n he has given birth sef |
Re: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by adonismuller(m): 9:07pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
Iseoluwani:wow, that's nice... Didn't the elder one feel somehow? |
Re: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by Iseoluwani: 9:13pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
adonismuller: Uncle B AS HE Z FONDLY CALLEd DOESNT EVEN HAVE TIME TO FEEL SOMEHOW, HE IS ALWAYS BUSY HUSTLING, HE WANTS TO BE FINANCIALLY STABLE B4 GETTING MARRIED 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by adonismuller(m): 9:20pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
Iseoluwani:okay thanks man... |
Re: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by adonismuller(m): 9:21pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
L3G3ND:it won't be easy though..... |
Re: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by adonismuller(m): 9:23pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
ShyCypher:lol.... I advice you threat your madness before it's too late. |
Re: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by adonismuller(m): 9:23pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
stacyadams:everybody no be the same oo 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by CaptainGOOD: 9:26pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
Yes the implication is u might born before him . Yeye question 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by adonismuller(m): 9:28pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
CaptainGOOD:see this one.... Some family and tradition don't allow it.. Go figure before u spit poo |
Re: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by Nobody: 9:30pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
adonismuller: why is that? maturity is what is needed here and it is not an issues definitely so far there is a mutual undertanding 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by CaptainGOOD: 9:35pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
adonismuller: Then does ur family or tradition accept it. U r in the position to tel.. yet u still asking us. U know ur tradition and u know if there ar repercussion So whats ur point 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by elantraceey(f): 9:38pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
I witnessed a wedding where an elder brother was the best man for his younger brother, I don't think there's any issue with that, everybody with his own time,,,,,, na girls issue dey get wahala small 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by Afam4eva(m): 9:47pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
Some questions just make my belly turn. It just shows that we're all not on the same level culturally and socially. 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by xclntmoda(f): 10:25pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
Is it d same head them carry come life? |
Re: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by billynoni(m): 11:20pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
xclntmoda:I'm trying to interpret what you wrote in Yoruba,and its actually funny. |
Re: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by lopside12: 8:23am On Oct 03, 2017 |
My younger sister got married and had children before me Didn't seem like anything to us at home Wonder why it should be an issue |
Re: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by adonismuller(m): 8:55am On Oct 03, 2017 |
It is actually an issue to some culture.... And to some home it might breed jealousy, mostly in female |
Re: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by ImaIma1(f): 9:08am On Oct 03, 2017 |
Why is it even an issue who marries first? If I am ready to marry, I have wait for my older one to meet someone, fall in love, agree to marry, before I go ahead. Very funny. People have different fate and plans. One's own should not disturb the other. 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by Eyimofe2017: 9:37am On Oct 03, 2017 |
No...it shouldn't cause an issue... we have different plans for our lives.. it is his life,and he can run it anyway he sees deem fit..what if the elder bro is not even thinking of marriage in like say five years?? will he keep his life on hold cos of stupid family traditions? Same way a friend told me his aunt said he shouldn't get a car when his parents do not own one, he was asked to use the money to get a car for his parents and hustle more to get his.... even if he's in dire need of the car... Do not let anyone control your life, you and you alone is responsible for your life and how you run it Marry your woman....you have seen your woman, wife her. |
Re: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by DarkRebel69: 10:52am On Oct 03, 2017 |
Is it wrong to make money before your elder brother? Such a dumb-äss question! 6 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by Richy4(m): 2:17pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
He should have waited for his elder brother to approve before falling in love too. The guy in question does not have respect..he even got her pregnant..under whose approval and authority? you should have asked this question in 1973 |
Re: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by adonismuller(m): 5:36pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
Richy4:lol..... Respect ke it is a two side enjoyment |
Re: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by lilmax(m): 7:16pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
less than 3months to 2018 and this is what people are thinking about? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by Windflower(f): 7:58pm On Oct 03, 2017 |
ImaIma1:You are so on point,I wonder why people read meaning to every little thing,then we relate it to culture and tradition. Who started the culture and tradition in the first place |
Re: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by Ishilove: 2:51am On Oct 04, 2017 |
adonismuller:So if the elder decides to marry at 50, nobody else in the family can marry? Abeg nobody should use their own to tie other people's destinies down. |
Re: Is It Wrong To Marry Before Your Elder Brother...! by adonismuller(m): 6:00am On Oct 04, 2017 |
Ishilove:them go force the elder marry |
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