I joined a company once, and my new manager told me negative things about a junior colleague-Datum. He was of the opinion that Datum was overly critical and hard to work with,dishonest and not loyal; 'tread softly with him', he muttered. The manager openly criticised Datum and gave instructions that he should not assemble or repair any company's equipment .

In a short while,I realised that Datum was one of the best people the company had.Datum, according to everyone, was brilliant,an electrical/electronics engineer with precision and always responsive.

Good people are often seen as threats by weak leaders. We found out that Datum was getting a backlash because of his skills,encomium from the people including the top management staff and also for an award handed to him for his dedication

Despite all the lashes, Datum remained humble and accorded more respect to 'the boss of life'.

I learnt all along that you should never judge anyone by the opinion of others and always give people benefit of the doubt.

Can somebody tell the vaseline crew to stay off this thread?

True!


Wisdom is profitable to direct

which one is vaseline crew again?

fatimababy95:
Can somebody tell the vaseline crew to stay off this thread?

Well. . . Meekness is key.

That is the key word. Despite the victimisation, he exhibited meekness at the highest level

Jhaytee4all:
Well. . . Meekness is key.

oshoademola1:
That is the key word. Despite the victimisation, he exhibited meekness at the highest level

Yes, it's what Christ the Lord expect from us all, and the believers, because He is meek and lowly in heart. "Bless them that persecute and use you." as He had said in His word. "Vengeance is mine. I will repay." He had promised us again in His word.

Meekness is key. That's all.

Correct

Jhaytee4all:


Yes, it's what Christ the Lord expect from us all, and the believers, because He is meek and lowly in heart. "Bless them that persecute and use you." as He had said in His word. "Vengeance is mine. I will repay." He had promised us again in His word.

Meekness is key. That's all.

I had same issue one time, the lady was completely bent on soiling my reputation among the other staff especially the new ones, was getting to me one time but thanks to some principles I learnt from a friend...I developed this I don't give a duck attitude towards the whole shii, and in no time, the army she was recruiting found the truth for themselves. P. S she said all that trash behind me, and forms one mumu friendship when I'm around. Talk about cowardice!
Bottom line is, never believe anything before hearing from both sides.

Brother you are right but some people don't know please tell them ok.......

They can hear now

joameh:
Brother you are right but some people don't know please tell them ok.......

You are right

czarina:
I had same issue one time, the lady was completely bent on soiling my reputation among the other staff especially the new ones, was getting to me one time but thanks to some principles I learnt from a friend...I developed this I don't give a duck attitude towards the whole shii, and in no time, the army she was recruiting found the truth for themselves. P. S she said all that trash behind me, and forms one mumu friendship when I'm around. Talk about cowardice!
Bottom line is, never believe anything before hearing from both sides.