Next2Bezee:


Sorry Bro if i hurt your feelings I have told you that there isn't any proof to show he beats her.

I have also said that i believe he has a right to get angry. However he reacts when he is angry, is it not his marriage? If he beats her & they arrest him, will it reduce the amount of groundnut i will use to drink garri?

My brother, let me save you the assumption. While i will be angry enough to know if my wife has a screw loose, i will definitely confront her because i am not happy and we will have a long talk, without insults off course.

I am just pointing out that he has a right to be angry, especially to those acting as if his wife did nothing wrong.

thorpido:
What a way to treat a wife!She probably married him because she saw the cash.smh

elantraceey:
The kind of relationship some ladies stays in ehn... marvels me. Just look at the way a husband is talking to his wife like a househelp......even the woman self get her own issues.




Abeg that's their problem.


I think this chat was fabricated though.

Unik3030:
am sorry if I hurt u with my point too but what am saying is that even if your wife made a mistake n u are angry with her, there are better ways to correct her even without insulting her. like seriously if I were to be the guy I will just tell d wife to get me my money without having issues with my friend or better still tell he to pay double of the amount she learnt d guy. n many other ways to get your money without u having issues with your friend n your wife. with that done,next time even if its your mum that needs the money she won't do that without seeking your consent. my point is that there are many ways u can correct n change things without insults

elantraceey:


This is not just a stranger but his FRIEND! Haba even at that self does he have to insult her? Verbal abuse is same as physical abuse for me, none supersedes the other.

Next2Bezee:


He has a right too because it's his money. If i was insulted like that, even if my partner na decides to trust me 1000% later, i still won't have anything to do with her stuff.

I agree the insults were unnecessary but many are posting as if the wife did nothing wrong. He has a right to be angry, everyone reacts different when angry.

So if a woman runs across a husband beater or verbal abuser, its up to her to decide whether to spend her life trying to please him, talk back at him asap cause she can't stand for that shit or leave the marriage.

But no wife should do what she did.

Next2Bezee:


And that is why i said that different people react differently when angry. And it isn't as if he didn't have a right to angry.

MammyYoo567:
The wife is so cool no be me,mtcheww.

xxxtedyxxx:
fake fake fake.

Made up chats to discredit hush P

wonlasewonimi:

Bunch of lies...some physical abuse will change your destiny.

Galaxydon1:
the fabricated this. this is not real . hushpuppy is a very rich guy

Next2Bezee:


OGA even if na my brother ask for money, my wife cannot go and carry mine & give him without asking me first. What kinda home will you have when you are now afraid to keep your money where your wife will see it, because you are afraid she will carry it without telling you?

Me i am sure that if your sibling carry money wey u keep wey no even be your own give another person without telling u, na dat day world go end.

SmellingAnus:
He was harsh to his wife but come on, have you seen how harsh many girls could be on their broke boyfriend ...

A true husband is known when he is rich while a true wife is known when her husband/man is broke...

Blackfyre:


You make it seem as though, a woman has to choose between someone who is verbally abusive or physically when her husband gets angry?

It's a companionship, a family that should be out the window. It's not something you do to your personal person, you have to learn to talk things over without it becoming abusive in any way.

Everybody is wired different, whatever works for peeps.

Next2Bezee:


Yes you are right, maybe i should edit my original post, i just posted that because some female monikers posted like the wifey didn't make a bad choice there.

I don't agree with verbal abuse or physical beating either. I also meant that if a woman or man found out that their partners were abusive, they'd have to make a choice on how to move forward.

rossychik:
some comments I see on NL I shake my head . D truth is DAT d wife shud not have lent him DAT money, wat a reasonable wife wud have done is to ask him to call his frnd, even if she has her own money d wife is not supposed to give him without d consent of d hubby, why, because d hubby might read meaning into it. it may not be immediately but with subsequent incidents.
Eg I give or lend my friend money from my OWN money not DAT of my Hubby's. Dats how a how a family works likewise d man, b/4 u take certain decision abt money u shud tell your spouse. 1-1. finally. most men don't joke with their money, so to avoid did kind of hurting words d wife shud read in between d lines before acting like father Christmas.

MammyYoo567:
The wife is so cool no be me,mtcheww.

Next2Bezee:


If my partner carries my money and gives it to someone else without telling me, i will also think she must have a screw loose up there.

I don't see any reason he shouldn't be angry with such a situation and people react differently when they're angry.

There's no proof that he beats her neither is there any proof that this is how he talks to her on a daily. So those ladies drinking extra pepper on top his matter should not choke o.

Edit: I don't support physical or verbal abuse, I'm just reminding some people that the wife also messed up.

elantraceey:


This is not just a stranger but his FRIEND! Haba even at that self does he have to insult her? Verbal abuse is same as physical abuse for me, none supersedes the other.

Galaxydon1:
the fabricated this. this is not real . hushpuppy is a very rich guy

prettyboi1:


......& rich people don't borrow money? It's funny how some of you think, honestly.