By Chinedumiwomen


As a domestic violence against women eradication expert and speaker, we have discovered that so many women are living in pains. Their lives have been shattered and jeopardized in the name of marriage.

The truth is that, it is hazardous to remain in abuse marriage. Women listen, your mother did not carry you in her womb for consecutive nine months with enormous care and love for you to be humiliated.

Domestic violence against women is becoming alarming in our society. In fact, it’s becoming a norm. It’s a big problem in Africa and the world at large. It has impoverished so many families today. So many men derived joy in kicking, slapping, pushing, punching, pinching, shooting, and their wives instead of correcting her with kind words. I have heard several cases where a man murdered her wife because she did not bring her dinner on time. We have heard cases where a man killed her pregnant wife because she couldn't wash his dirty clothes. I have heard cases where a man broke his wife's eye socket and legs probably because she did not cook his favorite mention but a few.

Domestic violence against women is becoming rampant. It has devastated the lives of many women. The incessant beating, molestation and torture have sent so many women is this; put an end to any unsavory marriage. Do not die in abusive marriage. Run away for your own safety. Speak up. Tell someone about what you are passing through. If you remain in an abusive, thinking that he will change from his autocratic and tyrannical actions, he will not. Do not waste your precious time praying and fasting for him to turn back from his bad behaviors that is the biggest mistake you will ever make.

Dissolve any marriage that will endanger your life. Do not waste your time on a man who does not value you. If you are a victim of domestic violence, do not remain silent, no matter how much and how much time he apologizes. He will always continue with his tyrannical actions. If you die in abusive marriage, he will marry the next victim.

It pains us whenever we see men preparing for their wives funeral while the woman is busy working assiduously and passionately to make the marriage work. The man called your husband can poison you and claim that you died as a result of your infidelity. You bore the pain of child bearing to give the man his descendants you deserve happiness.

Nobody should scorn domestic violence victims. Let render our voices to the voiceless women who cannot speak up. Let’s say, No to Domestic violence. Let’s put a stop to it. Remember, no one is exempted. It can happen to your sister, niece, daughter, female friend, female staff, etc. Lets unit ourselves to ensure women are safe. If we don’t do this, we are doing the victims and their families a great disservice. Women are our mothers, wives, daughters, sisters, nieces, aunts, etc; they have the right to safety.

source: https://chinedumiwomen..com.ng/2017/10/ending-domestic-violence-against-women.html#more