Nlanders,

I dont seem to understand this, 3 days ago, my wife went out with the honda, she scratched the bumper and claimed an inexperienced person bashed it, yeserday went out with the toyota, saw this morning the bumper was seriously scratched, she claimed she didnt know anything about it, this afternoon, i mean just about now, went out with the Honda, called me minutes later that danfo reversed and bashed the side, claiming she came down begging the driver to take the car to panel beater, but that the police man in the danfo said the man cannot come down, because he's going somewhere important, am confused, could this 3 days consecutive bashing me co-incidental or is there something else to this?

Hmm....is she still learning to drive? Could be d reason for all d bashings. Pele

But, seriously, what sort of answers do you expect here?
If you can't answer this question, being the closest to your wife and all, do you really expect right answers here?

Stop her from driving. The more you think about it, the more likely it is to occur again.

Your village people are looking for a way to cast something in you.
If I were you, I will stop thinking about it and stop her from driving for the mean time

Oga, nor be coincident na spiritual thing. Your wife is possessed. She get spiritual husband, na the spiritual husband dey kiss her while driving. Come my church for deliverance. And you sef need deliverance cos you no well to dey ask this kind question. You come here dey ask strangers yeye question when we nor know whether she be learner or how long and often she's been driving.

Well, since you ask, I will tell you the cause. Oga, your wife was chatting with her lover. Daz why.

I am really sorry, was in a rush when i posted it. Shes almost 9 years with driving experience, hardly does she scratch. This happened strangely my people, I need people that are good in reading meaning or interpretation to issues such as this, cos its strange.

I appreciate.

That long distance travel she wants to travel before the end of this month with public transport. Don't let her travel it.

fhutson500:
I am really sorry, was in a rush when i posted it. Shes almost 9 years with driving experience, hardly does she scratch. This happened strangely my people, I need people that are good in reading meaning or interpretation to issues such as this, cos its strange.

I appreciate.

If she's that experienced i guess the incidence are meant to happen. Though not also things are spiritual but you might never can tell maybe is a sign of bad omen. she should just be more careful n stop driving for a while n she shouldn't always be in a rush or think of many things cos sometimes we think of many things n gets absent minded

fhutson500:
I am really sorry, was in a rush when i posted it. Shes almost 9 years with driving experience, hardly does she scratch. This happened strangely my people, I need people that are good in reading meaning or interpretation to issues such as this, cos its strange.

I appreciate.

Maybe she has health issues affecting her motor skills or concentration.

I knew someone who had several accidents before realizing he was having seizures and loosing afew seconds in his time.

fhutson500,
You and this your wife matter...are you a manchild?
Na everything wey dey happen for your house you dey bring come here?
Na beer palour be this?

No let me "sannd" you o!

The only reason your wife keeps having accidents recently is because you keep disturbing her with phone calls while she's driving, and you keep hurrying her to come back home.
Stop stressing out that woman.

fhutson500:
Nlanders,

I dont seem to understand this, 3 days ago, my wife went out with the honda, she scratched the bumper and claimed an inexperienced person bashed it, yeserday went out with the toyota, saw this morning the bumper was seriously scratched, she claimed she didnt know anything about it, this afternoon, i mean just about now, went out with the Honda, called me minutes later that danfo reversed and bashed the side, claiming she came down begging the driver to take the car to panel beater, but that the police man in the danfo said the man cannot come down, because he's going somewhere important, am confused, could this 3 days consecutive bashing me co-incidental or is there something else to this?

Guy leave that woman alone and stop disturbing her life

@ OP going by your other thread I can deduce there's something up in your marriage and usually your sixth sense or instincts would be right.

My only take is that you spend some time praying on it if you're spiritual ask God to open your eyes to what is going on and direct you on how to resove it.

Next thing is to free your wife a bit. Find something else to expend your energies on. Spend extra hours at work if need be. Take up a new hobby or spend more time with your children

Whatever seeming lapses or ,indiscretions your wife may be exhibiting please ignore and fill in the gaps for now. If she doesn't cook please make arrangements to feed yourself and the children without complaints if she doesn't wear her ring let her be her taking it out of the house doesn't mean she will wear it to her destination for eg.

Things may eventually normalise just be calm

Good luck

no insult meant...but..op sounds like somebody without confidence in dealing with women issues...

Do you know the rate at which people are dropping dead, mostly people in their late 20's, to 50s,
Money
Food
Shelter
Marital issues.
Job securities etc.
This are the reason most pple drop dead fast.
Dont compound ur stress or that of ur wife and dont give her reasons to be scared by saying there must be something attached to whatever it is that is happenning. Put those ur kneels down and ask God to intervene. The way u stress urself it can get u killed, Dont make her a widow and dont become a widower. HBP is real.

fhutson500:
I am really sorry, was in a rush when i posted it. Shes almost 9 years with driving experience, hardly does she scratch. This happened strangely my people, I need people that are good in reading meaning or interpretation to issues such as this, cos its strange.

I appreciate.

hello are you not the one with the issues of food with your wife. maybe you should sit her down with an elder she respected. you guys should iron things out. before everything collapsed. abi