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Creating Another Evil While Fighting One by mccben4(m): 9:58pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
It is no longer news that the girl child issue is now on the forefront. The government,the NGO'S and even the social media has turned to the girl child, their plights and how to conquer it. While this is not a bad thing, I would like to draw your attention to one thing- the Boy child.While we are giving the girl child the attention she deserves we should also not forget the boy child. Forgetting the boy child will create an imbalance in the society and we would regret it sooner than later. While we are teaching the girl child to be more hardworking,industrious, independent, while we are teaching them to be bold and speak against any form of abuse, we must not turn a blind eye to the boy child. Let me give you an example of what I noticed during my secondary school days, I observed that whenever a male student makes a report he is usually not taken serious but if its a female student the teachers will start reacting like chemicals,at the end the boy child feels left out and what is the result? he becomes rebellious. Imagine a society where 90%of males are depressed and emotionally unstable that will be a big wahala for us and you know what? that is the direction our society is tilting towards. A lot of male teens are depressed, no one is lending a listening ear to them,he's neglected, he's not helped to overcome his problems, he's told to bottle it up,he keeps bottling up till he becomes enraged turns to drug,alcohol and other things and trust me if it continues this way the boy child issue will be a bigger problem for us in the future. For example a marriage that has an emotionally unstable man will inevitably crash.If you are encouraging the girl child to go to school, encourage the boy child too,the rate at which male students are dropping out of school is alarming!!! For those that will say marriage is not compulsory due to the point I raised before, remember you can't run away from men,either at your workplace, street, gym,Church, mosque etc In conclusion, let me state this again I am not against the girl child movement but I appeal for an all inclusive plan.I Benjamin is only interested in the unification of mankind irrespective of race, religion, political affiliations and SEX and let me give you this final word; the fastest way to achieve gender equality for ladies is to ensure the society is made up of men with right orientation and don't forget a boy becomes a man.If you neglect the boy child and do not give him the right orientation, how will he grow up to become a responsible man? I drop my pen at this juncture feel free to share your views at the comment section |
Re: Creating Another Evil While Fighting One by mccben4(m): 10:00pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
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Re: Creating Another Evil While Fighting One by ameri9ja: 10:02pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
Op, Nigeria is full of pedophiles after the girl-child. How many times do u read of male maids or such being raped and impregnated? |
Re: Creating Another Evil While Fighting One by mccben4(m): 10:03pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
ameri9ja:what? |
Re: Creating Another Evil While Fighting One by ameri9ja: 10:06pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
mccben4: U too fast bro. See above. |
Re: Creating Another Evil While Fighting One by mccben4(m): 10:09pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
ameri9ja:I don't get u |
Re: Creating Another Evil While Fighting One by ameri9ja: 10:14pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
mccben4: ameri9ja Post: Op, Nigeria is full of pedophiles after the girl-child. How many times do u read of male maids or such being raped and impregnated? |
Re: Creating Another Evil While Fighting One by mccben4(m): 10:16pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
ameri9ja:it is happening it is just that in a boy's case it is grossly underreported |
Re: Creating Another Evil While Fighting One by ameri9ja: 10:20pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
mccben4: Lai Muhammed. Never heard of a boy impregnated by anybody or forced to go for abortion. |
Re: Creating Another Evil While Fighting One by mccben4(m): 10:21pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
ameri9ja:lol am talking about the rape aspect |
Re: Creating Another Evil While Fighting One by ameri9ja: 10:24pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
mccben4: Try raping a 14 year old boy who us not gay. Let's see how you'd swing that one. |
Re: Creating Another Evil While Fighting One by mccben4(m): 10:27pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
ameri9ja:well am a 19 yr old boy and am skinny so I won't have the strength to overpower him and besides am not gay |
Re: Creating Another Evil While Fighting One by ameri9ja: 10:29pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
mccben4: But u can easily seduce a 14 year old girl with gifts. See the difference? |
Re: Creating Another Evil While Fighting One by mccben4(m): 10:34pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
ameri9ja:am not supporting those who do minor but there is a difference between seduction and use of force and besides my article is not against the girl child but an appeal to also include the boy child |
Re: Creating Another Evil While Fighting One by ameri9ja: 10:41pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
mccben4: Doing a minor by any means is called rape. Nigerian mentality and culture already favors the male child. |
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