So basically,

in 2014 I made a friend with a girl with mental health issues.

Long story short she introduced me to a mutual friend, he was very strange and extremely overweight e.g. takes up two seats on the bus

I decided to still be his friend, as I do not judge.

However, he would often ask to meet me after work - when I did not want him to, and he would turn up anyway. Nonetheless, I would still follow him and allow him to meet me after work and meet me at the bus stop.

So, then after he proceeded to ask me whether I was a virgin, if I masturbate etc. Stupidly, I replied. I said Yes I was, I said yes I did.

From then on, he continued to always bring it up even though it made me feel uncomfortable and I told him to stop.

We often had many fall out in our friendships.

So, once I sent him a picture of my breasts as he was my friend and I wanted his opinion as I was too ashamed of my breast size - just wanted a male opinion. And, he then proceeded to save the photographs and always bring it up and call me "juicy tits" when I told him many times not to.

He used things I told him against me, e.g. when I told him about my mental health issues, my family problems he would use it against me in the future.

Always trying to get me to meet him etc.


So, I tried many times to end the friendship. However, because he was at times often nice to me and he did give me little money nothing much just like 5 dollars, and he often gave me things like second hand phones. So I kept the friendship going.

However, I spoke to him recently - and he kept bringing up past things, and kept calling me "boo" etc even though I told him not to , he said that he calls every girl boo and then he proceeded to call me his favourite virgin. (I am 25 now and still a virgin)

I feel like I can do better than him, and he is dragging me down. Is it ok to cut the friendship off or am I over reacting?

Well it's left to you, if you love him go for him and if you don't then forget about him. that's all

you are uselss

i dont love him he is JUST MY FRIEND

Redblood:
Well it's left to you, if you love him go for him and if you don't then forget about him. that's all

2morogobeta:
you are uselss

i dont love him he is JUST MY FRIEND

Thanks miss virgin

well you have got to make a clear distinction and draw a line with people you dont have feelings for,not like cutting them off but treating them like a work colleague.You dont talk to them late nite,sending them intimate pictures etc,and have a one way communication with them like sms etc.
This is important so that it would not seems like you leading them on, simple define the relationship within your mind,so that when you eventually get a boyfriend it wouldnt be a distraction.

Well, you gave way for this nonsense na, he asked you about your virginity, you answered. He asked if you masturbate, you answered. Your mere answering gave way for the nonsense not because you answered yes. In that instance, you should have changed everything for him.






You now proceeded to send pictures? Like, no no NO
Not that I want to insult you but, what mental illness do you suffer, it's a sincere question