Quickjobs:
The police in Lagos have finally arrested a fleeing 32-year-old woman for pouring a half-bucket of boiling water on her partner, Ike Akachi, and causing him grievous bodily harm on May 29, 2018.

Joy Imeribe, the accused, said in a statement to the police that the incident happened following a quarrel with Mr Akachi at their home in Ijesha.

According to the police report, Ms Imeribe had been a victim of domestic violence from the man. According to Imeribe: “We’ve been in the relationship for 13 years. Although, we are not married, I have four male children for the man.”

According to Ms Imeribe, she had been experiencing ill-treatment from the man for a long time, forcing her to leave their home. She said she rented an apartment at the Anthony area of Lagos and moved out with their children but Mr Akachi came to plead that they return home.

After returning home, Ms Imeribe said the maltreatment continued. “What caused the huge fight was the fact that on the day before, I went to Yaba market to buy Okirika clothes (second-hand clothing) to sell at Aswani the following day.

On getting home, he asked where I was coming from and I responded but he told me to go back to where I was coming from. I didn’t answer and this led to a fight that started around 4p.m.

He beat me, tied me to the bed, dragged my hair, dragged me in the house and locked the door, this lasted for a long time. In the morning, he started with the fight again, I am one month pregnant.

So, I defended myself by pouring hot water on him.” Imohimi Edgal, the Lagos State Police Commissioner, said victims of domestic violence should always speak out to avoid incidents such as this. Edgal said the woman would be charged to court after police investigations.

Source: http://kikiotolu.com/lady-pours-hot-water-on-baby-daddy-because-of-domestic-violence/

Nice one, next time aim for the balls, you need to first start training with, plantain stalks because that's like the smashing sound u hear when his nuts are busted

Follygunners:


Isn't that the definition of a Bastar.d? Building other pple's house while ignoring yours. Hmmm... you might wanna re-think that again, bro..

Lagos is no man's land. SE is far more developed that SW

Just pray against family violence because it will do you no good rather farm.....

after four children.. no marriage.. no money..separated.. u still go carry am come back..u still Dey beat her..ticking time bomb Na.. wat was he expecting sef to beat her forever den she go fold leg dey look...see now u Don turn ripened pear

Cohabiting with a man for 13 years.
Have 4 children for him
Pregnant with the 5th.
No "reliable " source of income.
Yet he beats you.
And you still get pregnant for him.
Women, una well done oh.
Your foolishness is epic

dlaw70:
now feminists on nairaland be forming blind,deaf and dumb

Why are you calling out feminists? Did the woman woke up without any reason and pour hot water on the man?

Na waoh d way babes dey pour guys hot water anyhow during these Buhari era..hmmm are we safe? Oyindidi how u reason d matter na?

missyadorable:
Cohabiting with a man for 13 years. Have 4 children for him Pregnant with the 5th. No "reliable " source of income. Yet he beats you. And you still get pregnant for him. Women, una well done oh. Your foolishness is epic

some women love men of violence

lefulefu:
Na waoh d way babes dey pour guys hot water anyhow during these Buhari era..hmmm are we safe? Oy..indidi how u reason d matter na?

My brother, everybody dey vex for naija. Na to avoid wahala sure pass for this country we dey.

No dey beat/maltreat your love ones, the person may want to fight back. Even angel go want fight back one day.

lefulefu:
Na waoh d way babes dey pour guys hot water anyhow during these Buhari era..hmmm are we safe? Oyindidi how u reason d matter na?

But.....

I think it’s self defence .... if she was in America she has every right to
She was pregnant with a Child... a child! ...his child ... he is a bastard too...
Didn’t u see where he dragged her hy her hair? He was beaten her up .. she probably grabbed kettle and just threw it at him ...
Any woman who wants to live would grab anything they can find ... .....
Don’t get me wrong they are both wrong !violence ain’t the answer but if one guy trying to kill me ... my dear if acid dey near me seff he will get it ....

He started it o ... he finished it ...if it was here he will still go jail ! Nonsense

Quickjobs:
The police in Lagos have finally arrested a fleeing 32-year-old woman for pouring a half-bucket of boiling water on her partner, Ike Akachi, and causing him grievous bodily harm on May 29, 2018.

Joy Imeribe, the accused, said in a statement to the police that the incident happened following a quarrel with Mr Akachi at their home in Ijesha.

According to the police report, Ms Imeribe had been a victim of domestic violence from the man. According to Imeribe: “We’ve been in the relationship for 13 years. Although, we are not married, I have four male children for the man.”

According to Ms Imeribe, she had been experiencing ill-treatment from the man for a long time, forcing her to leave their home. She said she rented an apartment at the Anthony area of Lagos and moved out with their children but Mr Akachi came to plead that they return home.

After returning home, Ms Imeribe said the maltreatment continued. “What caused the huge fight was the fact that on the day before, I went to Yaba market to buy Okirika clothes (second-hand clothing) to sell at Aswani the following day.

On getting home, he asked where I was coming from and I responded but he told me to go back to where I was coming from. I didn’t answer and this led to a fight that started around 4p.m.

He beat me, tied me to the bed, dragged my hair, dragged me in the house and locked the door, this lasted for a long time. In the morning, he started with the fight again, I am one month pregnant.

So, I defended myself by pouring hot water on him.” Imohimi Edgal, the Lagos State Police Commissioner, said victims of domestic violence should always speak out to avoid incidents such as this. Edgal said the woman would be charged to court after police investigations.

Source: http://kikiotolu.com/lady-pours-hot-water-on-baby-daddy-because-of-domestic-violence/

"been in relationship for 13 years and had 4 male children but they are not married" if they want to marry nko?

Saltwater:
Why are you calling out feminists? Did the woman woke up without any reason and pour hot water on the man?

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thesicilian:

We have always been violent in nature, just that some of us are able to exercise restraint.

So in essence, it's justifiable for men to be violent and completely not natural for a woman to retaliate?

I'm not getting your flawed thesis and defense sir.

But everyone seem to have forgotten the lady have been abused multiple times and retaliated just once when she couldn't hold it in.

Well that's natural enough for me.

I do not take sides with this lady.

But if we had a sort if 'psychological court' that lady is winning I guarantee that.

But then what do I know?

Men should learn manners on how to treat a woman... Also women should not use pregnancy as easy way to knot a man.. A man can love a woman for fun not for marriage and u never can know there mind till u let the cat out of the bag.. #IMissMyPeriod

Franky826:


So in essence, it's justifiable for men to be violent and completely not natural for a woman to retaliate?

I'm not getting your flawed thesis and defense sir.

But everyone seem to have forgotten the lady have been abused multiple times and retaliated just once when she couldn't hold it in.

Well that's natural enough for me.

I do not take sides with this lady.

But if we had a sort if 'psychological court' that lady is winning I guarantee that.

But then what do I know?

Lol. What do we all know? I didn't say it's justifiable for men to be violent, I just said that is how we are.
Mind you, the man is the one who married the woman, not the other way around (though not legally). If he is maltreating you, you have the right to leave the union instead of the an-eye-for-an-eye that you can't keep up with.

thesicilian:

Lol. What do we all know? I didn't say it's justifiable for men to be violent, I just said that is how we are.
Mind you, the man is the one who married the woman, not the other way around (though not legally). If he is maltreating you, you have the right to leave the union instead of the an-eye-for-an-eye that you can't keep up with.

She had the right to leave the union is the ideal thing everyone would have said, but definitely without factoring many other things in to arrive at that conclusion. Was it easy and she didn't do it long time? I guess not.

And sir, I really do beg to differ in classifying men in the genre of violent species. No sir I'm not.

Yes I'm imperfect but violent? It's not me biko.

Lalas247:

But.....

I think it’s self defence .... if she was in America she has every right to
She was pregnant with a Child... a child! ...his child ... he is a bastard too...
Didn’t u see where he dragged her hy her hair? He was beaten her up .. she probably grabbed kettle and just threw it at him ...
Any woman who wants to live would grab anything they can find ... .....
Don’t get me wrong they are both wrong !violence ain’t the answer but if one guy trying to kill me ... my dear if acid dey near me seff he will get it ....

He started it o ... he finished it ...if it was here he will still go jail ! Nonsense

wait lemme read d writeup.didnt even bother to dat.

Lalas247:

But.....

I think it’s self defence .... if she was in America she has every right to
She was pregnant with a Child... a child! ...his child ... he is a bastard too...
Didn’t u see where he dragged her hy her hair? He was beaten her up .. she probably grabbed kettle and just threw it at him ...
Any woman who wants to live would grab anything they can find ... .....
Don’t get me wrong they are both wrong !violence ain’t the answer but if one guy trying to kill me ... my dear if acid dey near me seff he will get it ....

He started it o ... he finished it ...if it was here he will still go jail ! Nonsense

i don read am
d guy just a taste of his own medicine
d wayi see it...a number of nigerian men get married to women they dont love
if u love ur wife u wont hv the mind to turn her to punching bag and provoke her to violence.some just feel its time to get married and just get married.there"s no how u can live in harmony with someone u dont like.

lefulefu:

i don read am
d guy just a taste of his own medicine
d wayi see it...a number of nigerian men get married to women they dont love
if u love ur wife u wont hv the mind to turn her to punching bag and provoke her to violence.some just feel its time to get married and just get married.there"s no how u can live in harmony with someone u dont like.

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Oyindidi:
My brother, everybody dey vex for naija. Na to avoid wahala sure pass for this country we dey.

No dey beat/maltreat your love ones, the person may want to fight back. Even angel go want fight back one day.

Human's have brain! am sure you know!

Sometimes I wonder how we humans see /reason things, so people don't control their emotions or feelings anymore, is being violent now a better option

I hope your comments and that of others is not indirectly gonna affect the lives of those going into marriage .

lefulefu:

i don read am
d guy just a taste of his own medicine
d wayi see it...a number of nigerian men get married to women they dont love
if u love ur wife u wont hv the mind to turn her to punching bag and provoke her to violence.some just feel its time to get married and just get married.there"s no how u can live in harmony with someone u dont like.

Do you have an idea of what The objectives of the Duluth approach mean or helps to?

Martin0:



Do you have an idea of what The objectives of the Duluth approach mean or helps to?

DULUTH approach? Wetin e be?

Martin0:


Human's have brain! am sure you know!

Sometimes I wonder how we humans see /reason things, so people don't control their emotions or feelings anymore, is being violent now a better option

I hope your comments and that of others is not indirectly gonna affect the lives of those going into marriage .

Not only in marriage

lefulefu:
DULUTH approach? Wetin e be?

you see, una go just dey conclude on anything wey una read and hear...

well am very well pleased that the law court only accept "eye witness "if not hmmmm

Oyindidi:
Not only in marriage

yeah