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dAMN!!! see how tears are rolling down my cheeks.... wow. PLEASE THE BEST THING IS FOR YOU TO GET THE CONTACT OF A DIVORCE LAWYER WHO CAN HELP SET THIS WHO THING UP.


YOU TRIED O, 4 YEARS?? HAAAA

You are NOT WEAK at all... am not feeling sorry for you... am in AWE at how you are a VERY STRONG WOMAN TO ENDURE THAT LONG AND COME OUT ALIVE.

YOUR NEXT MARRIAGE WILL BE THE BEST AND IT WILL LAST TILL THE END

So this new guy loves you?
Same way your husband loved you during courtship

Well
Anything is possible

Goodluck

greatnaija01:
dAMN!!! see how tears are rolling down my cheeks.... wow. PLEASE THE BEST THING IS FOR YOU TO GET THE CONTACT OF A DIVORCE LAWYER WHO CAN HELP SET THIS WHO THING UP.


YOU TRIED O, 4 YEARS?? HAAAA

You are NOT WEAK at all... am not feeling sorry for you... am in AWE at how you are a VERY STRONG WOMAN TO ENDURE THAT LONG AND COME OUT ALIVE.

YOUR NEXT MARRIAGE WILL BE THE BEST AND IT WILL LAST TILL THE END

Amen. Tnx. Please you have any idea how much the divorce lawyer will charge?

Dyt:
So this new guy loves you?
Same way your husband loved you during courtship

Well
Anything is possible

Goodluck

still the same love that Churchill showed to tonto..

Nigerian men sha love can shack women eh

Be careful dear. Don't rush into another marriage if you finally divorce. Best of luck.

Oyindidi:
Be careful dear. Don't rush into another marriage if you finally divorce. Best of luck.

dingbang:
still the same love that Churchill showed to tonto..

Nigerian men sha love can shack women eh

Dyt:
So this new guy loves you?
Same way your husband loved you during courtship

Well
Anything is possible

Goodluck

why dis did u wish she divorce

Oyindidi:
Be careful dear. Don't rush into another marriage if you finally divorce. Best of luck.

So you're telling her to divorce. Did you divorce your husband despite all the bad treatments he meted out in you?

No one should endure being physically or emotionally abused by anyone, and definitely not by a spouse who blatantly refuses to change. You've done the right thing by walking away before he harms or kills you.

Re. this new man who's showing you "extraordinary love", while I'm happy that you've found
someone who treats you like you deserve, take your time getting to know him and thread carefully.

conductor123:

So you're telling her to divorce. Did you divorce your husband despite all the bad treatments he meted out in you?

can't remember telling her to divorce. Next time give your advice and move on. You don't have to quote me

jaksmillioniar:
why dis did u wish she divorce

Who wish her divorce? Advice and without quoting me next time

Oyindidi:
can't remember telling her to divorce. Next time give your advice and move on. You don't have to quote me

Whether or not anyone advices her is immaterial because she had made up her mind to divorce him.

Op, you need to have been separated from your soon to be ex-husband for a minimum of one year so you have fulfilled the required time frame. The next thing is to consult a family lawyer. I don't know if you can find such here

O ga o. Pele.


First. Ensure you have the wedding cert. Then find a divorce lawyer. Cost is about 150k depending on your negotiation power. The court would want you to be separated for at least one year to test your resolve. Then they are happy to separate you if the dude isn't contesting, no properties to share and no children. All things being equal, you are looking at a whole year of back and forth before the final divorce.

About the new lovey...you've got to tell him now. Start your new life with all cards on the table pls. Who knows, he might have a divorce lawyer friend sef. You've got to trust him with all your secrets baby. Good luck

You should concentrate on getting a divorce first, understand your priorities then take it easy before jumping into the arms of the next man.

Is he honest? Is he trustworthy?

Aa for the divorce it depends on how you married.

Traditional and white wedding without a court registered certificate can be dissolved by magistrate court and returning the bride price

Legal weddings you will need a lawyer

Op, have you discussed with his parents or probably someone he fears and respects? If not, let them know all you have said here and your plans. One more thing, please stop bringing your marital issues to social media. Many don't have a home and they want you to belong to their team. They will push you to take wrong steps which you may live to regret. Talk to your spiritual leader (pastor or Imam), parents or siblings.
Lastly op, every marriage has their challenge and divorce is not the solution. Shalom!

Any man who feels he is doing you a favour because he married you , isn't worth being with . forget it that 6you are physically challenge , you are a human that deserves to be loved also.
For the sake of your sanity , please leave before he pushes you to into depression then suicide.
Take caution when starting another relationship. You said your husband used to be sweet until marriage. This one might just be pretending to be sweet , too. So take your time. You should tell him you have been married before, and let him decide if he wants to be with you. Why wait till you are through with divorce ? That's deceit.
In all love yourself. Your are valuable and does not necessarily need the validation from men.

Women shouldn’t be happy when men propose marriage to them because we are actually doing you a favor. The ratio of women to men is 5:3. Ratio of Animals to women is 7:3

So what are you talking about

You are physically challenged but your Poosie is not physically challenged. Accept them at brother and come here and start your rant over again and the circle continues

Women have nothing to offer a man in Nigeria