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|Understanding And Overcoming Masturbation. by EEls: 10:23pm On Jun 30, 2018|
Masturbation has been a viral problem among youths and married couples that find it difficult to leave the act. Also, it has caused alot of harm on the minds of people. Some say it can not be controlled, while others think it can be cured.
The Truth Is:
It can not be cured but can only be controlled by one self if really they want to leave the act of masturbating. However, it can cause alot of damage on ones life and can be harmful in the future of ones lifestyle. Most people sees it as a normal act of sexual needs, while others sees it as a torn on the flesh.
Masturbation is the act of sexual pleasure to arose ones organsm through the use of intimacy gadgets, exposed to pornographic pictures, and browsing through the internet. However, it is a connection between the mind and the body receiving a message of sexual needs through the eye sight down to the mind feeding the body, some are addicted to it for a year and. The act of masturbating is likely to affect those in the circle of it.
- It prevents the mind from expressing its feelings publicly.
- It prolongs ones life in the delay of any needs.
- It weakens the sexual urge from having sexual feels.
- It discourage the opposite sex from explaining its. feelings openly.
- It weakens the spirit, mind and the body.
- It also cause delay among youths and married couples.
Note that, the effect are feelings that opposite sex can't see nor notice while in the act of feeding the body, it may take longer time to fix for those that are addicted to it for a very long time.
The act of masturbation is possible to be overcome through the support of self control. It may take longer or a while to get over shadowed. now, one needs to distract its mind, emotion and feels to tackle the situation.
First, you will need to understand its source of energy that triggers the emotions from passing its feeling to the body. Secondly, you need to limit and control the mind from speaking unwanted content to the body like avoid your self from been distracted on the act of watching pornographic images, reading contents cotaining sexual tagged subject, and also blocking the mind from hearing unpleasant sounds. Finally, get a job by doing something that will distract the mind to think something else.
When having visual contact with the sexual content, it commands the mind to send its emotion to the body which makes it sexually active. In other words, the feeling makes the organsm rise in other to release a reproductive cell from the body.
We all know that masturbation occurs mostly on lonely times of the nite even in the day, its source of power that triggers the emotion is the human flesh. The human flesh is one of the most soft part on the body that has it own function. However, it is usually meant to be on the bed which gives it a soft, free and comfortable form of relaxation, due to the situation of masturbation you wont be lying on the bed, so as to reduce the the step one problem of masturbating.
During bed time or when you are about to sleep, your bed space should be on a flat piece of material like a mat covered with some clothings like wrappers while lying your body on it moderately.
Reason - it seize a connection between the brain and the spinal cord allowing the body to be at rest to avoid any emotional arose feelings. Note that, you are in control of your own body to tell it what to do and what not to.
Minimize the use mobile phones or anything related in other to avoid browsering the internet, viewing pornographic videos and reading books containing sexual affairs. If possible, it will be more better to burn or hide them where you can't locate, find or see them to avoid distraction.
Reason - the object serves as a weapon against the body, giving it a strong weakness during sexual intercourse taking ones strength and feels in exchange of sexual pleasure. Also note that, the more you get addicted to it, the more weakness it generates, which also weakens the spirit from the body.
Without carrying any form of objects with you, get the mind busy with daily activities or events like getting a job, going for panics, visiting friends or even blogging to distract the mind from using the body.
Reason - it generates a sense of free mind to the body, spirit and soul regaining its urge, emotion, and wants for sexual needs.
It may take a very long time for one to leave the act of masturbating because the mind is a storage space that keeps and store every information the body offers either good or bad. In other to overcome masturbation, one needs to introduce the mind to something new that will rewrite and change its state of reasoning and what it does, and it is only by the grace of God you will leave it when you ask for his help and support.
From - Elsmyblog.com
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